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I am 15 years old and i have never made out or had a real boyfriend. I just started going to an all girls private school and i'm worried that i wont have boyfriends in highschool. I am trying to stay close with my old guy friends--but its hard. What should i do?
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usually all girl schools have like dances that associate (sp?) with all boy schools dont worry its not a biggie just have fun
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you don't need to worry about this. high school should be more about having fun, making friends, and doing well to prepare for college. there will be plenty of time for dating later on, so don't try to force it to happen, especially with someone you don't love.
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Please don't worry about this too much. There's a lot of pressure on girls to grow up too quickly when it comes to guys but there is NOTHING wrong with waiting.
You know, I didn't have my first kiss until I was 17 and two weeks off becoming 18 and it was with the guy I am still with three years on. It was special. It was the most amazing first kiss I could ever have imagined having. Now, most of the girls I knew as I was getting older had their first kisses between 11 and 14 and the majority of those occurred at school discos and were horrible kisses with guys they never even liked or never heard from again!!!
I know that you want to feel like someone likes you and that you will never have anyone at the rate you are going. I went through it too. But it is so much better to wait until you find someone who is worth kissing, than to waste it on someone who doesn't deserve you. So please don't get too upset about this. So you have to wait a little longer? So you aren't going to kiss a bunch of guys who aren't worth it just for the sake of a kiss? Good for you!! Wait until you find someone you really like and who really likes you. Then, when the time is right, it'll just happen and believe me, you will be glad you waited.
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There is nothing wrong with never having made out of having a real boyfriend. Out of me and my 3 best friends, only two of us have made out, and we are almost 15. Staying close with your guy friends should be as easy or hard as staying close with your girl friends.
Make plans, talk online
and you arent going to a boarding school right? then you will be in the same house?
if yes, then it shouldnt be too tough, you will just have bf's outside of school
and if you dont like the all-girls or private school life
talk to your parents
One of my very good friends went to an all girls school for a year and hated it, then she came back to public the next year. Good luck with your boy toys :)
Hope i helped! :)
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