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My friend is so mean to me!!
My friend is such a liar and sooooooo bossy!!I want peace so I try to talk to her about it.But everytime I try to,she acts so sweet that I can't!She tries to hurt me by trying to take people away from me and lying to me that everyone like her better.She does all sort of mean stuff and when I do something that really isn't meant to be mean,she gets all upset and says lots of mean stuff!!She is just so insensitive about things that she should be sensitive about and very sensitive about things that she shouldn't be sensitive about!!What should I do?And is she really a friend?
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no she is not a friend. you should talk to her and tell her how you feel even if she tries acting all nice before you tell her. than after that if she doesnt listen then start hanging out with new friends. cause that just means she was pushing you around. later on if she wants to start acting as a friend then she'll talk to you. and she should start giving you some respect. hope i helped! ♥ terri
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wow! this person is definately not someone you want to be around...how can you call this person your friend??? shes not your friend honey and i suggest you break away from her as soon as possible..
goodluck!
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Dear Friend,
Lies and bossiness are not the marks of friendship, and I'm sure from the way you posed this question that you know this. Ever seen 'Mean Girls'? This girl sounds like a classic Regina. Ultimately, she's a "frenemy." Friend to your face, knife in your back.
Disposable.
Don't start a fight with her - just let her know that she's an upsetting person, and someone you'd rather not be that close to. In the words of Kurt Cobain, "I love you. I don't hate you. I just don't want to talk to you."
Love,
Ainsley.
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if that is how she is treating you then she is not a good friend. I would pull her to the side no matter how sweet she is and say i need to talk to you . & tell her how you feel and say that you wont take anymore of her crap If she doesnt understand it and gets all mad she isnt a true friend .
Hope i helped
Sarah
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Tell her that you are serious about all of this. No she isn't a good friend. If I were you, I woudln't take all that crap.
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well if this is how a friend is treating you then she isnt a real frined. why do you want a friend like this? i would talk to her no matter how sweet she is when you try. you need to put a stop to her craziness.she obviously has a low self-esteem if all she can do is be mean to others. and if she says people like her better, she is saying that because it makes er feel good. its like she has to remind herself that shes good in oreder to feel good about herself. beleive me, i have experience with this. dont be mean to her when you tell her just be straight foward. and let her know this is bothering you. you should get this off youe chest.
good luck! ♥
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