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Question Posted Saturday June 10 2006, 7:33 pm

ok i am 13 years old and my breast are a 38C! they hurt and they hang too. one of my breasts is bigger than the other and it is kind of noticeable. my mom said that when i turn 18 i can get a reduction because by the looks of it now they are going to keep growing. i dont want really small breast i want then to be big but not heavy like they are now. and right now they are triagular shaped insted of round. i want then to be round but not really small. i dont want anything less than a BIG B cup. but no bigger than DD cup. so do you think i should get a reduction when im older or keep them big?

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GraceFullFall answered Friday June 23 2006, 8:35 am:
I think you should get a reduction.

Because, if they are hurting you that much and are giving you lots of pain in the future if they keep growing then that could lead to back problems if you DONT get a reduction.

So hope i helped.

X0X0 Kay

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broken29 answered Friday June 16 2006, 2:22 pm:
im in the same situation TEH EXACT im 13 and i have a 36 D and unfortunatly when they are bg liek that there all going to be heavy it sucks it really does but you knwo what have bug boobd are what allot of girls want and i knwo its like you want them until you have them and then it really sucks. but just try to think positive of them mean yea theres times i hate my boobd then theres times there not so bad but if you were to get a breast reduction when u get older its ok but only do it iof you are 100% sure k well hope i help ed you need to talk e-mail mea t or aim me at wjpool k well hope i help

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wiccachick22 answered Friday June 16 2006, 2:11 pm:
you should get a reduction because if they are that uncomfortable it can lead to back problems.

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chakra answered Monday June 12 2006, 11:27 am:
Well you cant have surgery until you are older, all i can suggest right now is that you get some really good support bras and you can also get ones that make your breasts look abit smaller too

this is a great site, they have bra sizes upto 56FF
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orphans answered Sunday June 11 2006, 11:07 am:
Wow, and I always wished for bigger breasts, I don't even wear an official bra yet, at the stores, they tell me to get a size 30/32. Yeah, well since your breasts are still developing, their bound to get into different sizes and shapes. Some breasts are even lopsided. And you cannot get surgery at this age, even if you want to. Since your breasts are still developing, you have to wait until they are fully developed. And from knowing a columnist who went through this, it leaves physical and emotional scars, and her breasts still grew back, even though she was fully developed. Sorry to bring you down, but it's the truth. You could get minimizing bras, they make your breasts look smaller, and it supports you.

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Xo_Blondii_oX answered Saturday June 10 2006, 11:36 pm:
I have that saaaaaaaame problem..i would have a reduction..but thats totally up to cant plan it though you might change your mind just wait till you turn 18 and then make the decision

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iheartdrumersss answered Saturday June 10 2006, 10:35 pm:
Alriite well..

you definitly should wait. Boobs being different sizes isn't anything new. And by the sound of it your boobs are still growing. But if you start to think that they're getting too big, diet and excersize always reduces not only your breast size but the rest of your body as well. So I suggest not having anything surgically done until maybe after high school (when you're done growing.) And who knows, maybe by that time you'll be happy with them.

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babiigirl answered Saturday June 10 2006, 10:34 pm:
Its kinda early to plan a reduction. You still have 5 years till your 18. When i was about 13-14 i was flat as a bored. Now im 17 and a DD. So you really never know if you will grow or stay the same. Buy a reallly good bra. They have bras that are like sports bras at walmart and they are really good and they sport you .

[Link](Mouse over link to see full location) - You can wear a bra under neath the sportbra for more support.

[Link](Mouse over link to see full location) - kind of alot of money but its worth it.

Hope i helped.

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KELLY_ELIZABETH answered Saturday June 10 2006, 9:58 pm:
hun dont worry. i just turned 14, and im in the C cups as well. i think you should just wait and see, dont plan so far ahead on the reduction. see how big they get, and if they get in the way of certian things and if you feel uncomfortable or self-consious about them, then i think you should think about getting the operation done. i think middle size c cup is a good size, not to big and not to small. a big b is also pretty good, and average. good luckk

hope this helps!! :] &hearts;

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LoveNJstyle answered Saturday June 10 2006, 9:07 pm:
I think you should start by getting a better fitting and more supportive bra for the time being. try that and see how it goes. get underwire and maybe a thin padding to keep you in and give you shape. it can be bad for your health to be too big but maybe you will grow into them. my friend was 13-14 and a D cup... she's really thin but after a while she didnt look or feel as akward. <3

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