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so im asian, pretty light weight and me face goes red when i drink! i know it's because im "allergic", but does anyone know how to reduce it or help it so i dont turn red?
and whats a
2-6
40 pounder
and 60 pounder?
thanks! (link)
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You have what is known as asian blush or asian glow
Some say taking pepcid or other such antacid an hour before drinking helps. I don't know that I would do that, but it is the only thing suggested that I have found.
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Anyone know a website where I can get "Rock and roll all nite" by KISS as a ringtone? And I just mean the chorus, not the whole thing?
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http://www.thetones360.com/browse/kiss/rock-and-roll-all-night/
http://offer.opendada.com/search-api/jump.php?tmpl=1&partner=27525&campaign=969&artist=Xavier+Stone&title=Rock+N\%27+Roll+All+Night
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18/M
I know this question is asked to death, but I've read every one of them and they haven't helped. Maybe I'm just venting, but maybe someone can help me.
I can't ask a girl out. Simple. I've been alone with her a million times. The words get stuck in my throat like I'm choking on them. I can't push them out. I have her phone number. If I try to call her, my hand shakes so much I drop the phone. Well, not literally. I can't even do it online or in a text, even though I know that would just be insulting. I'm confident normally, but I freeze. I think things like she'll never want to talk to me again, she'll be disgusted, even though I know they're not true. I just want to ask her to go on a date with me, her to know how I feel about her. I think she felt the same way but just gave up on waiting for me. She deserves to be asked out. What's left for me to do? (link)
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See how she responds to the letter you wrote. :)
Maybe if you think of it more as if you are going to be hanging out together it would be easier.
A date can be very casual the first couple of times. Once you do the hard part of asking that first time with a good result, it will be much easier the next time.
Best of luck!
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I have:
-High body temperature
-Constipation
-Breast Tenderness
-Fatigue
-Frequent Urination
-Darkened Breasts
What could this be? (link)
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In all honesty it can be anything or nothing more than PMS. If it is something that continues more than a couple of days, call your doctor for advice.
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ok so i had a tattoo and my stupid ex bf told my mom and she made me get it off and they couldnt scan it off or whatever they do so they cut it off me and i have this ugly scar they said id go away deff in two years but its ugly and embarrassing telling people what happend anyone know a way to get of scars? Some kind of cheap scar remover or not to expensive. Thanks!! (link)
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They sell scar treatments, but chances they will help much is only 20-25%. If you decide to try one of them, use one with a guarantee so you can get your money back if it doesn't work. Realize they will only help it fade. You cannot heal damaged skin. They are also not real cheap.
Surgery will sometimes help and so can collagen injections. Neither of those are cheap either.
Scars do fade on their own over time. The younger you are the more they fade.
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i went to the dentist today. she told me i had 18 cavities!!! and one root canel needed to be done. i dont believe her because my teeth dont hurt at all and you cant see anything black on them. so should i still go? or what? and it is extremly expensive! (link)
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Its possible to have cavities down between your teeth, or at their roots, that make them hard to see. However, if you feel this is something you really don't need, getting a second opinion is always a good idea.
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i have to make a new account and i want to delete the one that i have..
how can i do that? (link)
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This site is set up to archive questions and answers for others to get some use of. As a result,
you just can't delete an account and make a new one.
If you have a good reason for wanting to do this, you need to contact Dangernerd. He is the only one who can wipe out an existing account.
dangernerd@gmail.com
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I have been dating bill for eight months. We are both 16 years old. We wrote notes to each other every day which we often exchanged at lunchtime and bought each other little gifts. But i just found out that the last two months he has been spending with another girl. I had no idea this was going on until bill told me he thought we should break up. At first i was stunned. Now i just cry every night. I'm not interested in meeting any other guys. I cant study and i don't want to anywhere with my friends what should i do ? (link)
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Give it some time. I know you feel awful but its normal for you to feel that way. You trusted someone and they betrayed you.
Give it another week or so and then force yourself to go out with your friends. You don't have to be the life of the party. Just go out and do something.
Soon you will be ready to look at another guy. It may take longer for you to trusty next time, but you will.
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Ok so me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time about 2 weeks ago and when we had it the condom broke but before anything could happen he pulled out. second time we used a condom and third time we didnt use one but he didnt cum in me at all!!. now i only didnt use one becuase im on birth control now i know there is pre cum but shouldnt the pill be ok with that? Im just kinda nervous, all my friend are all telling me i should be fine and same with my boyfriend cuz i have been good with taking it and never forgetting it. i have been on it about 2 and a half months. but i just wanted to see what you guys think
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If you are on the pill, then a condom is just a little extra precaution to be sure you don't get pregnant & an STD prevention. So if the condom breaks, or even if you didn't use one, you won't get pregnant from pre-ejaculate.
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How do i get rid of a hickey? If i dont do anything to it, about how long will it take to go away? thanks. (link)
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A hickey is basically a bruise. Unfortunatley there isn't much you can do to make them go away. You can try ice, though I don't remember it doing much more than making your neck cold. Makeup, while not the best looking solution is the best. Other than hiding it under clothes.
It will last about a week. Like all bruises it slowly fades.
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14/f
I have three beauty marks on my face, like an inch under my eye. They REALLY bother me..ugh. I'm really self conscious about them and they just mess up the symmetry of my face. But the thing is, they're not just regular beauty marks. They're more like moles but very small because I can actually feel them, they pop out sort of. So could I use that Freeze-Off stuff at the pharmacy to get rid of them? Or do I need to get them laser removed by a dermatologist? Help!! (link)
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If they really bother you, see your doctor. You don't necessarily need to go the extra expense of a dermatologist unless you really want to.
If they were anywhere else, I might suggest experimenting with over the counter stuff. Since they are on your face though, you don't want to mess around. :)
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Okay, so i was on this website getting advice, about a girls tightness.
He/she said that it depends all on how skinyy the girl is due to her skin being streched or something.
will your tightness change, if you lose weight? (link)
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Tightness has absolutely nothing to do do with weight. It also has nothing to do with how sexually active you are.
If you are a virgin you may be tense the first few times you have sex making it seem like it is tighter. It is not. Vagina's are made to stretch.
They do not stay that way from having sex. It is possible that after you are used to a partner and get over that first time or two with them, you relax more making it seem you have loosened up.
Childbirth is the only thing that can actually make a vagina "loose". Sometimes muscles get stretched and damaged. This is when kegal exercises come into play. If that doesn't work some things can be surgically repaired.
Ignore anyone who claims young girls who have never had a child are "loose". They don't know what they are talking about.
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if you have sex on your period, and your partner has a small razor cut or razor bumps, can they get any sort of disease? (link)
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Both partners are at risk anytime they have sex without using a condom. Any kind of cut would increase the risk of getting an STD, even if the female was not on her period.
If a female with an STD is having her period and the STD is also transmitted through blood, then I would imagine that risk would be increased while on her period.
I have more info on STDs here, should you want to look.
http://www.advicenators.com/talkaboutmetopic.php?t=1053&userboard_id=15647ard_id=15647
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Ok well I'm with this guy or at least i think so but i don't know now, because I asked him out he said yes but just then he said this
Him:"lol dun worry. i love you as a friend .. but dont think i'm there at loving you as more yet lol"
We where talking about something (not going to get into it)
After he said that I said
Me:"Don't worry I don't think like that lol"
Does this mean we're together or not even tho he said he only likes me as a friend?
He calls me his girlfriend, and he said yes when I asked him out and he said he wanted to date me.
What does it mean?
I like him yes but not nothing like my other relationships. Meaning I don't really love him love him. (sorry if this is long and btw i am 20 f and he is 26 m) (link)
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He did put a "yet" at the end of the sentence. Sounds like he thinks the possibility of love as more than a friend might be there someday. He just may not want you to rush into thinking its there now.
It sounds like a work in progress to me. You could probably consider yourself as a dating couple.
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I've been dating my boyfriend for 11 months now and I'm not sure where it's headed. I'm 32, he's almost 35. I'm a divorced single mom of two kids, he's never been married and doesn't have kids. We both have our own place and are both very independent people. During the week, he usually comes to my house for dinner and stays for an hour or 2. Friday and Saturday nights my kids and I are at his house. And we usually spend the night on Saturdays. He has a three bedroom house and has practically given my kids a room for when they're over there.
We spend 90% of our free time together and rarely ever fight. We are really great together, but I'm beginning to think it's because we never talk about stuff. He's admitted that he's afraid of committment and he rarely talks about his past. Neither one of us has said "I love you" to each other yet. Although, he did tell me the only things he loves in his life are his dogs and his Jeep. Everytime I try to talk about how I feel about him, he completely changes the subject. Every single time! He never wants to talk about it. The time we spend together is mostly spent watching a movie or a show on tv. So I only have a few chances to talk to him.
I don't want everything to go fast. But I don't understand why he doesn't even want to talk to me about us. He complains about not having any money and that I don't go to his house enough. But when I mention moving in together, he says it would be a long time from now. I don't know what to do. I want to get married again, not now, but eventually, but if he can't even committ to the "L" word after 11 months, it'll be another year or two before we'll be living together. I would just like to have confidence that our relationship will progress. Right now, I'm not confident at all. Instead, I'm getting a little irritated. This man is the man for me...in alot of ways, and I could see us together for a long time, but each day that goes by, I get more and more angry at him. I am in love with him, and I don't want to fall out of love with him. Help!! (link)
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I agree with the others. Its past time for this guy to tell you where he sees the relationship going. Right now it seems he stops in to eat as if you were a restaurant.
Make chances to talk to him. Get a babysitter for the kids so he can't use the fact that they are around not to talk. Turn off the TV and tell him you want answers or you will be history.
32 is not old by any means. However, its old enough not to waste precious time in a dead end relationship. If you were not looking for marriage again, this relationship might be ok. Since you are though you need some answers.
Be prepared for him to say he doesn't want to commit. He is 35 and as far as you know has never been married. Since after 11 months he hasn't shown signs of wanting a future with you, I wouldn't get my hopes up to high.
If you decide to end this current relationship, I have advice for the future. Keep your kids out of the next one until it looks like there is a future in it.
Ending this relationship may hurt not only you but the kids too, since they have developed their own relationships with this guy. You do not need the added pressure of staying with someone because the kids like him. Know what I mean? Its hard enough on you!
Good luck.
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i whant to mastrobate but i dont know if i should or should not so what should i do (link)
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It is very normal to masturbate and there is nothing wrong with it. More info on my forum
with links included. http://www.advicenators.com/talkaboutmetopic.php?t=1050&userboard_id=15647ard_id=15647
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What are some ways to masturbate for women? (link)
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We aren't allowed to give "how to" information on the site. I have general info and a link for females
on my forum if you'd care to look.
http://www.advicenators.com/talkaboutmetopic.php?t=1050&userboard_id=15647
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ok im baleemic and im boy friend is worried and my friends are to...
my boy friend is threatening to dump me...
they keep telling me to go to the hospital but i dont think i need to i dont see what the big prob is... its my life should i do what they say or just say f***k it and go on with what im doing??? (link)
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You have a good boyfriend if he is worried about you. He should be. He will probably also dump you if you continue, hes to young to be stuck with a person who will have lots of avoidable health complications.
If you want a life, you should listen to what you are being told. Tell your parents you have a problem and get help. I have more info on eating disorders in my forum. http://www.advicenators.com/talkaboutmetopic.php?t=1060&userboard_id=15647
Hope you find something to help you. Good luck.
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im in love with this guy but he's only my friend with benefit i love him to death the problem is he act different now sometimes he act like he doesnt want me or need me any more how to get him to love me the way he use to?because i dont want to lose him ever (link)
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Stop the friends with benefits thing. He has absolutely no reason to make you his girlfriend or anything when you give the benefits away for free.
When a guy uses you in this way, he has no respect for you at all.
He will date other girls and show them respect. He can do that because he can use you for the benefits. Honestly, stop the benefits. He will either decide he likes you enough to date you properly, or you will find if he can't use you he wants nothing to do with you. Either way you are not being used.
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14/F
My boyfriend is 5 years older than me hes 19. Me and him have been dating for 8 months done things before that but officially been dating for 8 months. My family want me to have nothing too do with him because of his age and he doesnt have the best reputation. I live in a small town everyone knows everybody and everything. My boyfriend is one of the more well known people in this town. People were shocked when I first started dating him. Im a freshman in my HS and he dropped out 3 months before his graduation this year. He says hes going to the college to get his GED but hey he doesnt seem to be awake in time to go he maybe goes 2 times max a week and not to mention hes a pot head. He smokes all the time and jokingly I said you love your pot more than me and ofcourse he just laughed and said yeah but I love you too. I gave him an option about 2 months ago between me or the pot - he picked the pot we broke up maybe for 3 days and started dating again even though he cut down on it a little bit but of course continued on his normal schedule. If anyone has delt with loving a pot head you know that it is a very complicated thing too do(or maybe its just me). I mean I want to have a future with him but I cant if this is what kind of things I have to look forward too(watching him get high and sell drugggs) I love him to death and I KNOW he loves me too. Every couple cant agree on everything. But I mean I think it would make him appreciate me more if I told him I just need a break to think things out. Hes not a very understanding person I bring up that he needs to go to college and get his life on track he says whatever and hangs up the phone. But it would be practically impossible for me to tell him I want to take a break when Im with him I would think I was CRAZY for thinking about taking a break away from him. Also, people claim he cheated on me I mean my head is telling me he didnt [I (Cant) believe it] but my heart is telling me ; He did maybe not with this girl but I think he did. [that sounded cheesyy, but thats how i feel:)] When I say dont cheat on me he FREAKS out I mean yeelling saying you think I cheat on you I love you more than anything baby I would never do that. Things like that. The thing is I became VERY clingy towards him ; it might be because I lost my virginity to him in January. I dont know why this is the first person ever but I mean I think its obbsession or something. I get so mad when he doesnt call me and he says he will. I think this is because, about two weeks ago I cheated on him and had sex with my old good friend. We were drunk and just got caught up in the momment. I stopped as soon as it went in and said OMG I cant believe this ; and called my boyfriend right away just to tell him "I love you" and to hear his voice. I havent told my boyfriend about this and I really dont want to tell him I swore to him I would never cheat on him and I know it would KILL him if I told him. I do love him but I really feel like I need too take a break away from this relationship because I dont want to wait and things to turn out worst. I think Im just having mixed feelings, my parents hate him so when I need him with me most He cant be here . I have to keep our relationship a secret but all my friends know Im head over heels in love! (:
I dont know what the question is to this whole story, but just writing down what Im going thru made me feel 100 Times better(:
Thank you if you read this and im sorry it is so longg and their really is no point to this ; but if you guys have any advice on anything or if anyone is going thru or went thru a situation I wouldnt mind hearing some stories or advice(:
Thank-you ! (link)
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I think your parents are probably right about this guy. He's already proved you are less important than a mere weed. Any guy can sweet talk you, hes not doing anything spectacular.
You are probably aware, but since you didn't mention it I will. He is considered an adult. You are considered a minor child. If he touches you in any kind of sexual way, you parents can have him arrested and jailed for statutory rape. Even if you are a willing participant.
People in small towns talk. Your parents are bound to find out. When they do it will not be funny at all. My advice has to be to find someone else to spend your time with. This guy has to much going against him.
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