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I have been dating bill for eight months. We are both 16 years old. We wrote notes to each other every day which we often exchanged at lunchtime and bought each other little gifts. But i just found out that the last two months he has been spending with another girl. I had no idea this was going on until bill told me he thought we should break up. At first i was stunned. Now i just cry every night. I'm not interested in meeting any other guys. I cant study and i don't want to anywhere with my friends what should i do ?
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Well your just going to have to remember that you are only 16. Your going to fall in and out of love many many times. Don't think you won't either because you will. Bill isn't the one you were going to spend your life with. Because if he was you would have stayed togeather. That's ok though because you are young go out and have fun. What do you think he is doing. Just go out and have fun with friends and meet guys you never know what you might find.
Good Luck!
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Hi, I'm 16 too & I understand what you're going through, I know what it's like. It hurts, plain and simple but I figured that only time can heal that.
In the meantime, you need a clear look on this. You are amazing and loyal while Bill is treating you horrible. You are SO MUCH BETTER than that! You DESERVE so much better than that. You shouldn't have to go through this pain.
So I can't tell you what to do but here are your options:
1. Stay with Bill. But you'll still always remember how he treated you, and you'll still cry. I know that even if he apologizes, you'll still not trust him. So you need to decide if staying with him is worth the pain. It's different for every person, personally I believe no girl deserves to be treated like this and YOU DESERVE BETTER.... I can't stress that enough.
2. You can leave Bill. And I guarantee you, even if it doesn't seem like it, he won't be happy. He'll realize he screwed up something good, and it'll upset him if he hasn't realized already.
If you decide to leave him, it doesn't mean that you have to go and date right after him. Take some time off and clear your head, you don't have to meet other guys. Friendship is sometimes just as valuable.
The decision is yours, and unfortunately its not an easy one, I hope everything works out... and I really hope you understand that you do deserve better. =]]
Good Luck!
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I say if your really upset, try jealousy or act like you forgot about him completely- that should drive him insane- basiclly just do what you did before you met him. Trust me, I know it's upsetting, frustraining maybe even confusing. Sad fact, guys will do whatever they can to get what they want- My friend Kyle said "Guys find it extremely cute when girls mess up, exspeacially when they like that guy." Frustrating right? Well, ask your-self this do you wanna let bill controll your life? Don't let some guy controll you. Hope I helped
-lily
Bill you have a bill- bill
P.S. sorry couldn't help it.
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Give it some time. I know you feel awful but its normal for you to feel that way. You trusted someone and they betrayed you.
Give it another week or so and then force yourself to go out with your friends. You don't have to be the life of the party. Just go out and do something.
Soon you will be ready to look at another guy. It may take longer for you to trusty next time, but you will.
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