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Okay...well...I'm a thirteen-year-old girl and I like a guy. He gives off all of the signals that he likes me as more than a friend. One problem:
He's eighteen.
I know I can't be with him at least at the current time, whether he likes me in that way or not, but it just hurts sooo badly. Worse than I've ever felt about a crush.
Why do I feel this bad, and what can I do to get over him, if there's anything I can do?
Has anyone experienced this?
Thanks for any advice you can give. (link)
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You can be friends. I know that isn't the best thing but it is something. If you want to get over him though, just find another guy, He'll probably take your mind off him. :)
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So I really like this kid. I went out with him last year in 7th Grade for a month and in 5th Grade when we were young which didnt mean much. Last year I didnt like him at all really and now I just cant stop thinking about him! We flirt all the time and two of my friends have said to me I think blank likes you and my other friend asks if I like him .. and I really do! When my friend said to him [ hint hes not friends with this girl ] she said to him well dont say anything but blank likes you and he said well were really only friends. We have beeen sitting on the bus together and always are smiling talking and making eye contact. There are so many signs but im not sure if i should get over him or do something about it? please help!!! (link)
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I'd give it a little more time. He knows you like him now so maybe he'll give you a closer look. :)
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Is it normal to think your boyfriend is going to break up with you? I don't like being online because most of my relationships ended that way and I'm afraid of getting notes... My other two relationships were pretty bad and I dunno...Am I too paranoid? (link)
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Probably a little.With good reason though. Just tell your boyfriend that if he ever decides to break up with you, don't do it online. :)
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anyway over the half term my best freind lets call her steph broke up with her 6 mnth relationship boyfreind josh. the next day he wz going to lanzarote with her other best freind lucille and their familly. over there lucille knew very well that steph was still in love with josh and had started goin out wit him the day after steph and josh broke up. wen they came back lucillelied to steph that nothing happ however josh didnt. over the past weeks josh told steph that he still likes her and she did to but nothing happ. last week lucille broke up with josh because she felt she was "being used" can u beleive her. they got back to gether on the same day lucille has been arguing with steph that its stephs fault for everything (steph cant sort of stand up 4 her self so she ends up sayin sorry)what i reli need to know is how to cheer steph up and show her that lucille is not 4 real (link)
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Why are the girls blaming each other for all this mess? Put it where it belongs...on Josh. If he was going with one girl he had no business going out with the other. :)
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There's this guy that I really like, we'll call him David. Anyway, David knows I like him, and he says he likes me too. But, he also says that he wants to wait to ask me out, till he gets to know me better. Anyway, he kissed me the other night, and I'm afraid it's going to turn into a friends with benefits relationship, which I don't want at all, but I have no self control around him, I can't help from kissing him back. How do I get him to ask me out sooner? (link)
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Kissing isn't really benefits. Sex is what I think of when someone says benefits. If he wants to get to know you better that is okay. So, long as he isn't meaning sex. Never give that to someone who isn't committed to only you. He knows you want to go out so just talk to him whenever you can so he gets to know you better. :)
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ok... i like this guy but i cant say his name, so ill call him MR. BIGGLESWORTH.....and he is dating one of my friends...and the other day my best frined told him i liked him alot and that i was practically in love with him(and i am but that wasnt the way id hoped he'd find out)and he didnt say anything but that copuld have been because his gf was right there idk.....but i really want to go out with and i want him to go out with me to...........on wednsday of last week we were in lunch and he sits about 3 tables over from mine.......and he kept callin my name and when i would look over to him he'd cover his eyes like he was playing peek-a-boo with me and he kept doing it.....then i went to his table to arm wrestle him and he kept letting me win and then finally he plaid for real and he said that if he won that we had to do stuff but he was joking........then i went to go back to my table and he wouldnt let me leave without giving him a hug...........and when he gave me a hug he touched my butt...i know that sounds bad but he only did that when he liked me.......i just want to ask that from what i just wrote....do you think he still likes me or not?i rate good if your answer is good (link)
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I think he likes you okay but what about your friend? Isn't that kinda stealing her boyfriend? That isn't really the cool thing to do. Don't be messing with him until he breaks up with her. If he cheats on her (with you), then he'll cheat on you with someone else. Make sure he's free before you go out with him. :)
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I like two guys who are really awesome. I haven't been too close to either one of them yet, but I still don't want to like two guys in case on of them asks me out. I'll call the two guys Ben and Caleb. Ben has always been really nice to me and teases me playfully. Caleb sometimes has been mean to me but never teases me at all. Ben has actually talked to me and he's really cute, while Caleb has ignored me when his friends were around but has smiled at me when no one was looking. I want to give Caleb a chance because he might be nicer if he knows I like him, and Ben already knows I like him and has always been sweet. Any suggestions? (link)
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Ben. He sounds good to me. I like a guy who can tease playfully. Caleb is probably nice too but maybe a little serious. Plus he ignores you when friends are around, that isn't real polite. But, the best solution will probably be to go out with whichever one asks first. You don't have to be an item to go out once. If you don't enjoy yourself just don't go again and ask the other one. :)
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i am getting major bullied at school. everyon says to stick up for myself but it's so hard. my teacher knows but they don't do anything which is screwed up. i talked to the counselor and she said to confront them in person but i don't want to do that becuause that pus me in danger (link)
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Certainly don't do it if it puts you in danger. I would just ignore them. Easier said than done I know. But other than getting some big football player types to give them a talking to, I don't know what else would work for you. Good luck :)
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my friend has been 2 months late on her period.. she took a pregnancy test and claims shes not pregnant. she said that if there are 2 lines, it means shes pregnant..well i saw 2 lines, one was darker than the other and when i said i saw 2 lines she threw the pregnancy test back in the box. shes been awfully moody lately and has been telling her parents she has gotten her period for the past 2 months. she hasnt been acting the same..im really worried. what do you think? (link)
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I think she needs another test. It is possible to skip if you are young. But, if she's sexually active she has no way of knowing if it's a skip or if she's pregnant. :)
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My friend Tiffany always be having sex and I'm worried about her. she might have another kid and have to put it up for adoption. or she might get AIDS. I don't want that to happen. should I let her get hurt? or try to talk to her and help her? (link)
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I'm sure she's been told by now. If she wasn't put on birth control after she had a baby the first time...then someone is crazy! You can tell her and warn her but she sounds determined. Guess she will learn the hard way. You can keep telling her but I doubt she is listening. :)
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okay well i was told the other day by another kid at school that i might have thyroid disease. he told me thats when u cant gain. lose weight. Well i weigh 95 pounds adn i was wondering if there really is a such thing as thyroid disease. and if so could somebody explain that to me?? (link)
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Well I have it. Actually so does my brother , my sister and my dad. I really doubt you have it. Your heart would race so much with Hyperthyroidism (if you wanna look it up) That you would have been worried about it. The weight part is pretty minor. I don't think you have it. You are just a bean pole! Some are lucky that way, just eat whatever you want. I have hypothyroidism. Basically If being skinny is your only symptom, they won't even check you for it unless you ask for them to. :)
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okay well ive had really bad lower stomach cramps for like the past 4 weeks or so... i got my period like 2 weeks ago adn then i just got it agian last night-- im really scared bc i dont know what could be wrong--could this be some sorta probelm?? or should i just like not even worry about it (link)
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I think you should tell your mom about it. Get it checked out to be on the safe side. :)
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well, my mom was acting really crazy last night. she got mad at me and my sister for no reason and starting yelling at us. it's been like a whole day and she hasnt even talked to either one of us. she makes me really depressed and it makes my stomach hurt. i dont know what to do. i think she hates us. (link)
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Nah, she must have something bothering her. I doubt its you. Maybe ask her whats wrong. If she snaps at you, just leave her alone until she gets over it. She will. :)
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What is the best thing to use to get grease off clothes? My boyfriend works in the oilfield and always works on cars and gets grease all over so what is the best thing to use to get the grease off?? (link)
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I usually use Goop hand cleaner. It is for getting grease off hands and clothes. Works really good. You can get a generic brand that works just as good, I can't remember the name of it but they are in the same place. It comes in a white plastic container. It is not a liquid, it almost looks like grease itself. :)
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This is a question about doing the laundry. I am not a real laundry-doer so i need some tips and help. HOW do i do the laundry. Heres what i know so far: seperate them into dark, lights, and white (the ones that i bleach). How much soap do I add?? Do i put the clothes in after all the water is filled up, and then put the soap in? Should i pour the soap in along with the running water thats going into the washer so it gets all bubbly? So, clothes, water, soap? Clothes, soap, water? The only dispenser i have on my washer is for the softener (which we dont use) and for the bleach (i use this one alot with the whites.) Someone tell me how to do the laundry please?! Thanks a bunch! (link)
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I put the soap in. Start the water going and throw the clothes in while its filling. There is usually a scoop thing in the box with the soap. If you use liquid kind just pour in a lidful. It will say on the box how much soap to use. Now, I gotta go start another load. Thanks for the reminder! Good luck. :)
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(17, f)This summer I am going to babysit my ten-year-old cousin, because she doesn't want to go to the local daycare. She lives far away, not so far away that I can't do the job, but far away enough that I only usually see her twice a year. My problem is that I can't stop thinking of her as a little kid. That's just how it is my mind, for some reason. I want to treat her like she's more mature, but still somebody I am responsible for. How would I do that? (link)
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Oh it won't be hard. Once you get a little used to her it will come natural. You may want to string her up by her toes once in awhile but you'll probably have a good time doing it. :)
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ok so after my sweet 16 party we are going swimming in the indoor pool from like 10-11:30 or whatever...problem is..the hotel says a lifeguard must be present? I guess i have to accept this rule being that its the hotel's rule, but would the people there think its lame and not want to stay in the pool being that the lifeguard is there? or do you think they will accept it and still have fun. Answer honestly..if you honestly think they wont like it and would want to leave..tell me.
Im hoping my friends will be ok with it and still have fun swimming and playing music, etc. (link)
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I don't know why they would have a problem with it. Most swimming pools have lifeguards. Go ahead with it. Sounds like a blast. :)
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My friend has been acting really weird lately ever since her mom started going out with her new boyfriend. She jumps back when people move to fast towards her or swing their arms near her like she thinks they're going to hit her. She's also been waring clothes that are really baggy which isn't like her at all. I talked to her about it and she started crying. She told me that her mom's boyfriend has been beating her and even raped her. He told her that if she tells anyone or tries to runaway he'll kill her mom. She asked me not to tell anyone but I hate seeing her being treated like this. I want to go the police but the thing is he has a lot of money so if they do arrest he can just get out on bail and then go after her. She's really scared of telling people and I don't want her to get hurt anymore. What can I do to help her she really needs help but she's afraid to get it. Is there anyway that I can get her help without her mom's boyfriend finding out about it? (link)
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I think she needs to go to the police herself. Next time if she refuses, at least get her to your house and take pictures of her bruises. Not much he can do about pictures. Tell your mom. You need an adult in on it. Don't mess around but the police need told. He is saying that to keep out of trouble, he doesn't have enough money because nobody likes child abusers.Even murderers in prision will get them and beat them up or kill them. Good luck, go tell mom about this. :)
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My best friend and I have been really close since the beginning of this school year. Back when we first started to become really good friends, we would do everything together. Lately, shes been wanting to hang out with her boyfriend and her other friend all the time. And she always points out the bad stuff about me, like what I say, and how my personality bugs her and stuff. But I really wanna be friends with her it just hurts that shes nice to me sometimes and then so mean other times... I don't know what to do.. please help? (link)
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Next time she is being nice to you, ask her why she treats you that way. She's probably trying to make herself look good to people she feels are better than she is. I think it's silly myself. If she continues to do it. Don't hang out with her anymore. :)
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I was friends with this girl named Tina for a whole grade before we grew apart. REcently, her mother died from cancer, and whenever I saw her after that she acted like she was fine, so I always made sure to act cheery and bright around her, and to pretend as though it never happened. My other friends all tell me I'm heartless and pretending like it never happened to her is just going to make it worse. What do I do? (link)
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Since she isn't the one saying it, and she talks to you, I think you are doing fine. If it comes up, express your condolences. :)
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