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I can't be with him, and it hurts...
Okay...well...I'm a thirteen-year-old girl and I like a guy. He gives off all of the signals that he likes me as more than a friend. One problem:
He's eighteen.
I know I can't be with him at least at the current time, whether he likes me in that way or not, but it just hurts sooo badly. Worse than I've ever felt about a crush.
Why do I feel this bad, and what can I do to get over him, if there's anything I can do?
Has anyone experienced this?
Thanks for any advice you can give.
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He's being wrong in giving you those signals he shouldn't be doing that he's an adult. Have you considered that you are lusting over him more for the simple reason that you can't be with him? The grass is always greener on the other side after all. This is harsh but you're going to have to be really strong and face that nothing is going to happen here. It will take time but honestly you will look back and wonder why you were hurting so bad. It will be ok!!
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You can be friends. I know that isn't the best thing but it is something. If you want to get over him though, just find another guy, He'll probably take your mind off him. :)
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one big problem: he's a child molester.
this is why there are statutory rape laws.
he wants some of your jailbait stuff.
wait until you're 18 to find out if he's just after you for the "sex with a child" appeal
-hitler
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you can be with him im with a girl thats older than me and you can be with and older guy
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Wow 18 ! No I have not experienced this! But just try to like someone else your age! And there isnt much you can dO just try to forget about him ya I kno it is hard but just try lookin for some1 else Im sO sure u can find some1 eslse!Hope ii helped!!
xOx ViLLy*
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oKAy well i did KINDA go through the same thing not hte age thing htough but i knwo how to get over him okay well u should find a guy your age or around there try a guy no more then 3 years older then u and pick one that liks you and start going out and u'll just forget bout the 18 year old it helped me lik 3 times! TRUST ME iit works!! good luck hope everything works out! =) x0x
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Wow. Tough luck. The 'oldest' guy I've ever 'liked' was two years older than me... and that's really not that bad, considering that my parents are four years apart. But, it's probably really not a good idea for you to go out with this guy anyway. He's alot older than you, and obviously would want something different out of a relationship than you would. If you were to do anything with him (especially sleeping with him - which is DEFINITELY not a good idea - EVER) then he could get in big trouble because you're a minor and he's not. I've never experienced it, no. But, the only thing you can really do is focus on someone your own age. Find a cute guy that's thirteen or fourteen, hang out with him, get to know him.. you'll find that he's just as awesome. (if not more so) Sorry about your trouble. Life is hard. If you and him were meant to be together, it will work out in the end.
-FunnyCide
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