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my best friend is scared of the dark. i can't get to sleep when i spend the night at her house because she keeps all the lights on in her room and i just cant fall asleep. so when she hits the hay... i quietly go to the light switch and turn the lights off. as soon as i do that she wakes up and starts crying! what to do???
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compromise with her. maybe you coule put on a night light but if thats not enough then maybe if your sleeping next a bathroom you could put that light on. if she doesnt agree theres always those things you put on your eyes. :)

hope i helped


Where can i find a bathing suit thats 32A and padded for a good price? (link)
old navy. tops are like 15 dollars. abercrombie, aeropostale, american eagle, and hollister all have those, but for a little bit more money


How can I track down a person's email? I've exhausted all of the traditional searches, and have no idea where to go next. All responses appreciated, even the sarcastic ones.

Thanks (link)
its kind of hard to do, becaues not everone puts their emails out. but if they have a aim screen name, then lets say their name was abc12345, then there email would be abc12345@aim.com . orr, if you know if they have a yahoo messenger thing, its the same thing, but abcd12345@yahoo.com

does this make sense? lol sorry, and i HOPE it helped..


Does anyone know of any good bands/song I can put on my iPOD? I'm getting tired of all the bands I have. I'm mostly into indie/rock/acoustic/some ska/oldies.

I like Death Cab, The Postal Service, The Audition, The Higher, Panic!, Further Seems Forever, Dashboard Confessional, Hidden in Plain View, Taking Back Sunday etc. Preferably bands that you know and that aren't on the radio. (link)
sugarcult

paramore

hope i helped (i dont know many)


what is freshman friday?my friend said if its freshman friday the seniors gonna throw u into the garbage is it true? how do u avoid it? (link)
It's just a way to scare the new kids. FF never happens. I use to be a freshman, and I'm still alive, and I'm very small. You'll be fine.


what does it mean when you're seeing someone? does that mean you're with the person but then you're allowed to date other people? (link)
Seeing someone means that you're going out with someone. I guess you can see other people, deciding if your partner would let you cheat on him, but most partners won't do that.


Hii! Ok this isn't even an advice question, so I'm hoping it doesn't get deleted, but I am really starting to wonder who DangerNerd is? Everyone always says to check with him about things that have to do with the website, so I was just wondering if he is the person who owns this site? I'm just curious and everyone else seems to know, so fill me in! Hahah thaannkkss! :) (link)
DangerNerd is the owner of the site. It never used to be him, it used to be someone else, but then the original owner, who I think was Spacefem or something like that couldn't deal with it. So now DangerNerd owns this. He's also a Level 4 moderator, which never even existed until he came along. He's DangerWrench's husband, and he's a nice guy, who wants to make this site a better place.

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=434882

If you want to make this site a better place, read this. I recently asked DangerNerd a question, and he gave me a lengthy response. He meant for everyone to see it I guess, because he hardly has time to update his column. Read this, learn from it.

Hope I helped! And please read what the link contains!

Triple.G


I got my period on thursday, it was heavy on thursday and friday. and medim on saturday. then, yesterday (sunday) i didn't have it at all except for a little late last night. Then today I had absolutly NONE of it and then at 9:45 pm I got some... and it was like medium. Is that normal? Does it mean I'm still on my period? (link)
Yeah, mine does that too. Periods are weird. :)


Me and this girl have been best friends since the first grade. And we haven't talked to each other in two years. Now we have reunited and started talking on the phone. I sent her an e-mail and asked her if we were still best friends, she said no, maybe, maybe not. Then she said she had 3 best friends. And she is acting so careless about it. Like she doesn't care about how I feel about the situation. What should I do? (link)
there is no such thing as one best friend if you just want you two to be best friends that will not happen sorry it's the truth well GOODLUCK !!!


i hope this helps


Ok well there is this guy I like.Im pretty sure I love him. Were pretty close I think. He is perfect. Well we have gotten alot closer then were supposed to he actually was the person I lost my virginity to.Since then we have done it 9 times but nothing has changed he is still my friend and stepbrother.My question is,is it insest for us to have a sexual relationship? (link)
I do not know what insest means but if it means bad or wrong then no i don't think so I mean he is you STEP BROTHER wich means not related so it's like sortof doing a boyfriend you have guts to put this on here caus there are a lot of god religous people out there that will say it's wrong but do not listen to them it's not wrong well GOODLUCK !!!


i hope this helps


Hi, this is embarassing. umm I've had my period for 2 years now and I'm going on a trip and I can't carry much luggage. I know I will get my period while I'm away, (it lasts for about 5 days) and I want to know about how many tampons I need to bring. (I can't remember) Thanks. (link)
I know that this sounds like a lot but i bleed normal and i use about 15 each period cause i bleed for 5 days to and i have normal bleeding so but it really depends on how much you bleed in each period well GOODLUCK !!!


i hope this helps


14/f...are there any ways to make your hair grow faster? i've had medium length hair for most of my life and i want a change. i want my hair to be longer for when school starts again. are there any tips/tricks or even shampoo or hair products that will help my hair grow faster and longer? (link)
There are pills. They're called Futurebiotics Hair Skin and Nails vitamins. This lady takes them (http://healthytextures.com/) and she has very healthy hair.


ok. i have 2 best friends who i've been inseperable from since like 4th grade (one of them though since like kindergarten). and now i'm going into highschool. we're always together, (most of the time lol) i can tell them anything, we have so many laughs and fun times together, and i can totally be myself around them, which is great because i'm really shy. but last year, well technically still this year..lol 8th grade.. the one who i haven't been friends with since kindergarten..lets call her Jen. well Jen has been occasionally telling me some stuff about the other friend "Rachel" about how she annoys her sometimes, and stuff like that. ok so i was just talking to my friend Jen online. and this is sort of what she tells me:

she was like: no offense because i know you are really good friends with Rachel but i really dont like hanging out with her. then she gives me all these reasons why. she also telling me that she thinks Rachel has become conceited, and gave me a reason. "she just like acts immature sometimes and tries to be funny when she's not" thats also something she said. "like I'll be her friend and everything.but i definitely don't want to hang out with her a lot in highschool"

so my question is. do you think it is right of her to say this? we're supposed to be BEST FRIENDS, yet she's saying all this shit behind Rachel's back. i don't want our friendship to just die, i mean i have the greatest times with these two girls. high school will be a huge change and we'll make new friends and everything but i don't want it to completely tear apart our friendship. idk i just can't believe she's saying this because i feel like i have the best times when all 3 of us are together and now if Jen doesn't want to hang out with Rachel it will never be the same. what should i do/say to her? do you think it was right of her to say this? if you want the reasons of why Jen said what she said then give me your email and i'll tell you. thank you. (link)
this happens to me a lot with my friends. I just get sick of them and complain about them but then i get over it. just let your two friends have their space and soon "jen" will probably become friends with rachael again.

hope i helped


okay soon i will have to go to my moms work for a month to help her from 7am - 8pm.. everyday from monday-saturday .. i dont know what to do cause i dont want to lose any of my friends and no one likes to hang out on a saturday.. and i cant just skip a day cause my mom will FLIP.. you dont understand.. and its like a month not seeing my friends.. what can i do?! (link)
Well, I think you should do what your first answerer said, you know, text messaging, talking on the phone. Also, explain to them your situation, why you can't skip a day, how much you care about them. Tell them that when you finish your working month, you'll be back with them. If they are true friends, they will still hang out with you when you're done working, and treat you the same, and you'll be happy with them. But for now, just keep in touch with them at night, through the internet.

Hope I helped!


What is the best way to keep your legs smooth longer? I hate having to shave every so often, and i have to shave since i'm allergic to the like veet and cream things that instantly remove hair and stuff. So ya, how can they stay smoother longer? (link)
Electrolist electricutes the hair folicles and kills hair perminatly . Laser also dose this both are expensive treatment and many treatments required to complte the job . waxing is the best longest lasting tempory method and less expensive . however the money u put out in waxing adds up th more of an amout then the other tow perminmet solutions
sissymelissa


i recently began shaving my bikini area. so im itchy, but there are no red marks. also now ive been discharging extra (i dont think that has anything to do with it, but maybe) and that only makes it more irritated down there.

why am i so itchy? (link)
Itching is caused from hair starting to grow back . Use a product called Bikini Zone it helps witrh itching and red shaving bumps and keeps you smooth ich free down there it works great .. you get it at the drug store Called BIKINI Zone
sissymelissa I use this as well


Is there anyway my boyfriend can control himself while having sex? Like make himself last longer? (link)
Get him to take it slow stop start again techniquis work .. also you can buy a numbing cream that you put on the penis and it lessons the sention to make him last longer
sissymelissa


what are some good ways to good tan fairly quickly? (link)
There are no good quick ways to get a proper tan . To tan without risk of health should be rotected from the sun and very slowy tan naturally
sissymelissa


OK so theres a guy, hes a year younger than me (im a sophomore, hes a freshman) and I like him. I really dont know him well at all. I dont have his sn, and ive asked ppl they dont have it either. I see and talk to him at church, so I can prob. get his sn from him. How soon is it to ask for a cell phone number? And what r some things I can do that could get him to like me .. i wanna be myself and im not a huge flirty person .. and im not especially pretty. idk what to do .. but i really want this guy to like me. pleaseee help. (link)
Just be yourself its not worth it to be something your not just to get him to like you . If your just yourslf and if its ment tp be he will like you . looks is unimportant . just be yourself if your a noce person hopefully you 2 will click if its ment to be
sissymelissa


i think my hair is falling out!! im only 13-but i can tell.my mom wont believe me-but i noticed!
please..is there anywhere i can go to get this checked? any kind of help is appreciated! (link)
I would highly suggest your family doctor at 13 your hair should not be noticably falling out
sissymelissa




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