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i like this persn, and hes 13 and im 14. we've hung out befor and it seemed like he liked me, but now i never see him.And wenever i try to talk to him online he just doesnt talk to me. And the last time i saw him, he acted all shy and weird around me. Wat could hav happend?? (link)
Maybe he feels weird with like an older person liking him? It happens sometimes. If he continues to act all weird, maybe you should find someone your age or older, that way they wont act so weird if they find out you like them!
Good luck!!


Me and my mom are very open with eachother and she was telling me a lot of stuff. She's 44 now and during her whole life she's NEVER worn a thong, never shaved her pussy, never fingered anyone or gave anyone a handjob or blow job, never masturbated, only made out with someone 3 times, and she's only had sex 2 times in her whole life and those 2 times were when me and my sister were born. I can't believe it because my mom seems like the type that was a slut when she was younger, no offence to her but its the truth. I wear thongs regularly and shes never even tried one on. I really think shes prude. Do you people agree with me? (link)
Maybe your mom was like raised a different way where she just didn't want to do or wear those things. Your mom could be a prude but as long as she's happy then it shouldn't really matter.
So in a way i do agree with you.


I just got a MySpace, and I currently have 4 friends, and none of them show up on my profile. I have everything else [that shows up], but my friends' list won't. Any idea what happened or how to fix it? Thanks so much! (link)
I used to have myspace and stupid things would never show up! I don't think there is any way to fix it. Just wait for like 4-7 days and if it doesn't show up, you should try getting a new myspace while you still have 4 friends.
Good luck!!


i am goin into the ninth grade and i still hav like no chest. its sooo embarassing. Is there like any chance that ill grow more befor school starts? its weird because iv already had my period, but i hav no chest. (link)
OH this happens to just about everyone it seems like! You can't really do anything about it except overcome it and don't pay attention to it!
Hope i helped you!


is there anyway i can get my music from my old computer's iTUNES to my new computer's iTUNES???

-greatly appreciated♥ (link)
Burn your songs onto a cd and then put it onto your new computer. Otherwise i don't think there is any way.


okay me and my boyfreind have been going out for about 4 months and i really like him.at around the second month i told him i was a little uncomfortable with him telling me he loves because i know he didnt meen it because where to young to know what love is.(where both 13).well last night he told me he needed to tell me something and i was like ok and he started off by saying do you remember that time you told me i was to young to know the meaning of love is and i was like yes and then he said well i love you and ive never felt this feeling befor and i love you with all my heart and i want to spend the rest of my life with you.and then he asked me is my heart beating really fast and i was like no and then he said because mine is beacause i was afraid to tell you that i love you. at this point to tell you the truth i was a little scared because i think he was really telling the truth.dont get me wrong i like him alot but i dont think i love especially not as much as he seems to love me.im just so confused on what to do.i really dont want to brake his heart and tell him that i dont feel the same way.should i just end it befor it gets way to serious?please help me.i badly need some advice, (link)
You proabbly feel like this because your rushing into things. Just tell him you want time for your feelings to grow stronger.


I am having arthoscopic knee surgery in a week to repair some ligaments. I am 15 .. this is my first surgery. i am soooo nervous! if any of you have had it, or know someone who has had it, could you maybe tell me what to expect? like, how long on crutches, and how much will it hurt? I'm just soooo nervous. thanks (link)
My cousin had knee surgury before, i'm not sure about the same thing though. You can expect pain! There will be some hurting but your doctors will probably give you some pain medecine. You'll probably be on crutches for like 1 month or more. It really depends on how your knee heals. Also, when it heals..you might have scars so get stuff right away to make them go away and less noticable!
Good luckx and feel better!


so i have this friend and lately weve been getting into a lot of fights. basically she has a lot of problems with the way i look but instead of telling ME about it she always goes behind my back and talks about it with someone else or talks about it on a website. and i think she thinks im mad at her because shes saying all this stuff about me which is part of it. i mean she claims that she wants to help me but when she talks about me she uses phrases that could be put a LOT nicer so it seems like shes really just making fun of me. but like the real reason im mad at her is because she always goes behind my back and talks about it. its like shes afraid of me or something...like if she tells me theres something wrong with me im gonna murder her in her sleep. but now we arent really talking and i dont feel like talking to her if shes just gonna keep on going behind my back like that. i mean should i talk to her about it or just move on and find more friends who actually care about my feelings? (btw im 14 and a girl) thanks! (link)
ive had the same problem before! my 3 friends had problems with the way i looked too and they always talked about it behind my back. I too also thought they were just making fun of me. I got really mad at them and didn't talk to them, all i thought was "i'm ganna get new friends!" but then i realized that that was stupid. So i talked to them. I was just like " I know you have problems with the way i look but if i need your help with something i'll ask." and they apologized and said that they just wanted to help & that they were afraid i'd get mad at them and stop being friends with them. They also did mention that they weren't making fun of me,which made me a lot happier so i apologized for being mad. So i suggest you just do the same, talk to her. Tell her just to be honest with her, or say nothing at all. Me and my friends got along GREAT after this..and we are always honest with eachother. So its not worth losing a friend over.
Tell me if you need more advice because i can relate!xox



as you guys all know.
the school year's starting soon.
and i want to be a whole new me ! :)
i want to get highlights.
& have a new found style.
i want to decorate my locker.
& i want your help. :)

any ideas:
on styles, locker decorations,
nice highlight colors for dark brown hair?
[i'm thinking a bit blonde or red].


helP. :D (link)
Hair: Your hair already looks like it has some natural highlights. You should try gold brown or red highlights. It will look natural and good.
Locker: Go to like target, they always have like cute magnest and stuff to put in your locker!! and their cheap.
Clothes: Abercrombie; Hollister; and Express have really good clothes. Their expensive but nice.
You can also look at some like fashion magazines..that way you can find like a style that you like.
Make Up: Estee Lauder has really good make up. Its in department stores (Nordstroms, JC Penny ect.) What i did was i went there and asked someone to put make up on me, just tell them that you are just starting to wear make up and you want to find a foundation or coverup ( or both) that is light and matches your skin, some mascara (and eyeliner if you want) , some blush and some eyeshadow that will look good on you. Tell them that you also need to learn how to do it yourself.
They will probably talk you through it as they put it on you. Now when wash your face..you should use Idealist Skin Refinisher(from Estee Lauder). It moisterizes your face without it being like oily although its not a moisterizer. Then you put the make up on. They may have different stuff they will recomend to you though but if your not sure def. ask for that because it works.
Good luck!


hey my name is ashley... and almost everyday afetr school i come home crying because i am always being made fun of because i smell... i have no reason to smell. whats going on, how do i get them to stop, what should i do about the smell? (link)
Make sure you take a shower everyday BEFORE school. Try using a shampoo and conditioner that smells really really good. Herbel Essence smells really really good..its nice and fruity. You should either use Dove or Aveeno for your body wash. Something simple that has a little bit of scent. Then get a deoderant that smells good..try Lady Speed Stick ..either get powder smell or shower fresh. they will help you smell good all day. You can also get a little deoderant stick to put in your bookbag..somewhere where only you can find it..so you can go to the batheroom and put it on. Also, get some type of perfume, or a lotion that already has perfume in it. Estee Lauder has this lotion called Beyond Paradise that smells really good.You can also try a body splash, but nothing too strong, they have a lot at Bath and Body Works.Your clothes might be part of the problem some , sometimes its your clothes that smell and not you. Get some like Febreze Fabric Freshener
http://www.homemadesimple.com/en_US/febreze/fabric_refresher.do
and spray it on your clothes like once you hang them up in your closet, or but it in your drawers. It makes your clothes a little damp but it will dry and smell nice and fresh. Its also important that your house(AND YOUR ROOM) smells good..so you can get Febreze Air Effects. http://www.homemadesimple.com/en_US/febreze/aireffects.do;jsessionid=144341BB455DDB7E59927A25A45ED39A
They smell really good. You should get linen and sky for your clothes. Get another scent (if you want) for your bedding and your floors(only if you have carpet) so it constantly smells good.Also if you have a pet (cat, dog) you get get this special Febreze for pet oder, so you can spray it on their bed, on the carpet, on your beds, anywhere where it goes so your house doesn't smell like an animal house.
Remember that you want everything lightly sented..so don't drench yourself in perfume or lotion, body spray, or deoderant just to smell good. Also, beleive it or not, if your room is clutter free and smells good..you'll feel much cleaner and you can focus on smelling good.
Good luck!!


OKAY, here it goes...! K, i fell down the stairs at my school last week, on Monday. I dont think i really broke or sprained anything, but i hit my head really hard on the tile floor, and the stairs( i was at the top and fell to the bottom). Now, almost a week later, i feel lightheaded, and dizzy... is it from the fall? should i consult my doctor?! (link)
ya


If you run away and get caught, what kind of trouble could you get in? (link)
You can get in a lot of trouble. Because if you run away your parents will probably call the police who will file a missing person report and you have to pay a fine if they found out that you ran away. Atleast i'm pretty sure. But you get in trouble with the police, and probably 7 times worse with your parents.


Every morning I wake up with deadly breath and a killer taste in my mouth. Even after I brush my teeth, it's still nasty. I don't know what else to do. Even when I brush my teeth before bed I have this problem. Any ideas on how to fight morning breath? (I had no idea what catagory to put this in!) (link)
at night: brush your teeth, and use mouthwash. in the morning, brush your teeth when you wake up, and use mouthwash as well, and then eat breakfast, then brush+mouthwash agaainn, and then chew 2 pieces of gum such as orbit


I'm a married man. I used to have a group of female friends in high school and they recently contacted me. I want to see them, but my wife would probably not want me to. Should I see them secretly, ask my wife and respect her wishes, or tell my wife and do as I please? We are just friends. (link)
you should never lie to your wife. just tell them that they were friends, and she shouldnt be jealous because you love her and only her, or say something like that so shell trust you. (she should be able to trust you anyways)


I know that when you are younger. Guys tease girls if they like them. Is it still the same way in your upper teens.? (link)
it can be. some guys are just more mature than others, so while some may tease, others may not


Which one is better? I'd like a decent response, so no one word answers or just saying the name. Say why. Also, which one is less likely to give you a virus. Thanks :D... (link)
i have limewire, and i dont really get many viruses from it. (only one, but ive downloaded like 200 songs, so 1/200=good statistics) anyways, yea limerwire has a lot of choice, but thats just my personal opinion


I have never kissed my boyfriend before. We have only been dating for two weeks. I have only seen him 3 times. I talk to him on the phone everyday. But we have an age difference... 3 years! I really like him, but i'm not sure he completely feels the same way. I really want to kiss him so badly. But however i dont want to act like a little kid planning my kiss and sex. So should i ask him or should I just kiss him? (link)
you should just kiss him. thats part of dating, he probably wants to too


If one was really thin and then put on weight, could she increase her cup size? (link)
yep you will


Is there any way to charge an I pod on a computer that doesn't have I tunes?? I dont have a wall charger (link)
just connect it to the charger and everything (i would suggest getting itunes though)


ok, my mom is obsessed with myspace. and it's not like she has her own myspace. i suggested she gets one but she doesn't want to because she thinks that she shouldn't have one and she says she only wants to play on mine. she spends her time there. she starts changing my music, looking at different layouts, adding music videos and putting pictures on it. and sometimes, she doesn't even ask my permission! she puts things on and says its a suprise and sometimes she even acts like she's not doing anything wrong. she says that she's my secretary and it'sr really making me more and more mad. she comes home and checks my myspace! i really need some advice! i'm 15/f (link)
you could either change the password, or make a new account, and not let your mom know about it, and just let her know the old one. or you could talk to her, and say you dont like how shes doing that, after all it is myspace, not ourspace.




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