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hey i asked you a question earlier about shaving down there, and it really helped. so i was also wondering if you know if veet or nair works? could i use one of them? (link)
Ofcourse! Those products also work in the bikini area. I beleive it says it on the back of the bottle. Thats actually a great thing to use because its pailess!
Let me know if you need more help!


okay so if anyone knows if i should do this or not..

well i have been thinking about it but i got this scar when i was about 4 & im not 13. its going away so what but its so noticeable & i dont like it. my mom tells me i can go into surgery for it & they will make it gone. does anyone know if that will be painfull. should i just let it stay there. cause its not like really really noticeable only a little.. plesae help me thanks. (link)
Put moisterizer on it and squeeze lemons and vitamin E on it! i swear it works!


Alright well I'm 15/f & if this is helpful live in the midsouth area.
I turn 16 in about 8 months and I am trying to save up for a car.
I can't really get an official job like for example working at a clothes store for a few reasons but the top one is I am not 16. I know I could get a work permit but it is also hard to get hired when your 15. Anyway so 3 questions I am asking... 1) Are there any jobs I could more easily get without so much hassle for the employers? 2) What are some other things I could do & how would I get people to know about it? 3) How are some efficient ways I could save up?
Thanks! (link)
You can clean trash every sunday..go to
www.cleantrash.com
it pays $75 an hour


so is it true that when people have low self esteem that they tell other people that they are ugly just to make themselves feel better?

♥if thats true . theres one girl whos always telling me how ugly i am . well i dont want to sound conceited because im not but i know im pretty . and yeah . but she doesnt think shes pretty and she has told me that before but she acts like shes all that and has to call other ppl names and i guess it makes herself feel good?
♥much love (link)
yea people do that. just ignore the girl,shes just trying to cover up her own imperfections.

hope i helped


ok.. my i live with my grandma and she keeps calling me fat and stuff. and i already have a lowe self esteem .. and i ask her not to say anything but she still does.. and she knows that it bothers me.. and i've got to wear i dont' wonna eat.. and don't want anything to do with anybody except my best friend.. when it comes to just being with ppl for long periods of time. and she has really put me into a depression mode.. what do i do? (link)
talk to your mother about it. a lot of grandmas are old fashioned and stuff. just tell your mom that it bothers you and maybe shell have a talk with your grandma.

hope i helped.


What is the quickest way to get rid of Stretch marks? i used to be overweight and i lost it all and now its all muscle. thanks.
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I've heard that cocoa butter works good on stretch marks. But i dont know from experiemce sorryy.

hope i helped.


When I wore my bathingsuit today, I notice you could see some of my pubic hair when my bathingsuit was a little out of place. I have been thinking of shaving it, just like a little, where I need to, but I am scared due do bumps, and a rash or something. Can a razor shave off a long piece of hair? Should I even shave there? (link)
you could shave there, nothing wrong with it, but its probably better to get it waxed or nair/veet. on tv, there was a commercial for bikini zone, which reduces bumps, so you could try that


What is a good first car? That is really cute and safe of course. (link)
A Honda Civic or a Jetta are cute safe cars.


When I wore my bathingsuit today, I notice you could see some of my pubic hair when my bathingsuit was a little out of place. I have been thinking of shaving it, just like a little, where I need to, but I am scared due do bumps, and a rash or something. Can a razor shave off a long piece of hair? Should I even shave there? (link)
You shouldn't shave there, it causes irritation such as bumps and itches a lot. You should get waxing strips or they also have wax and strips that come seperate but in the same package. You may have to trim the hair shorter because the strips might not get over the hair. I know thats really weird. Also, get Bikini Zone. Its like a lotion that you but on your bikini area so you have no bumps. Let me know if you need more help!
xoxo


I'm 14.
To make a really long story shorter, my bff...Jane. Has an abusive boyfriend, also, she's only 13, which makes it even more weird. She's going out with a 15 year old.
And she says I'm the only one she told.
She says he doesn't like beat her up, he just hits her a lot..
I never noticed, but recently she's been wearing long sleeves. Because she's actually BRUISED.

But, Jane says she really has it under control, and doesn't want to break up with him because she apparently realllly likes him. And she says he likes her, but..

I said if I were her I would break up with him.
Then she said something like that I didn't know what love was, so I couldn't say that.
I've never really been in this kind of situation before.
Do I tell an adult?
If you were me..what would you...do?
ugh, I'm kind of confused.
And I want to help my friend. (link)
The fact that she is in a abusive reltationship at a young age is strange. You should tell her that you really care about her and you don't want her to get hurt anymore. If she still refuses, tell her to be carefull and to let you know everything that is going on. If it starts to become more serious, tell her that you want her to stop seeing him for a while or else you will tell a parent. She might get mad but its for her own good.
Let me know!
xoxo


what does bamf mean (link)
My first quess is Bad Ass Mother Fucker.
Usually people say it online.
Hope i helped!
xoxo


sorry this is so long!! in school me and my 5 freinds(amber ashley dara taylor and kyleigh) were really close but we had so much drama!you wouldnt even beleive.but we got through it.but during those bad times some of those friends got me into alot of trouble but i forgave them but my parents didnt.sence the end of school ive lost touch with taylor and kyleigh.in our click is my best friend dara who ive known forever and i still talk to her like every day.my mom just told me i wasnt allowed to talk to amber taylor ashley or kyleigh because they are a bad influence on me and she said my techers said my attitude changed when i started hanging out with them.im really not worried about taylor or kyleigh because i dont talk to them anymore anyway.i kinda undrstand ashley because she got into a lot of trouble during school and she also failed and she wasnt a big fan of most of our teachers.but shes still my friend and amber is like a mom to me i even called her my mom.she has never really got into trouble that i know of but once when we were in one of are many fights she told on me and dara(its a long story) which i wasnt to happy about and nethier was dara.i told ash and amb what my mom said and ash understood a little but amb didnt.they told their parents who are good friends and they think im lying and am trying to start more drama and then they said that ash and amb cant talk to me.my mom said she can look on the computer at my calls to see if i did talk to them.im so angry because their really good reinds of mine.amber and ash are both leving the school and kyleigh i herd was moving to virgnia and i dont know about taylor cus i dont talk to her anymore.i just need some advice because i really want to talk to my friends.and to think i thought are click was ging to last forever.well thanx so much for any one who trys to answer.TWEETY aka satin devil (link)
Since all your friends except for Dara are leaving, you should try to meet new friends. I know thats not really what you want to hear, but they were a bad influence on you. Maybe the 6 of you should get together without your parents knowing, maybe try to resolve things. That way maybe you could be friends still and talk online. But for now, it seems like you have to make new friends at school. Let me know if you need more help!
xoxo


starting 2 days ago i have had this pain in my upper stomach like right below the breats (kind of). Today im having to use the bathroom alot. And like it sounds like water in my stomach. Kind of like when your hungry i guess.

I know i didnt descirbe very well and im sorry.


I know its not like period cramps && im not pregnant. (link)
This probably isn't the answer you were looking for but go to a doctor if it is still there tomorrow! It could really be anything. In the meantime, try taking some Pepto Bismal (not sure i spelled it right!) and eat light. Like toast, crackers. No greasy food or dairy prodcuts..they could upset your stomach. Also, only drink gaterade. It pretty much clears your stomach.
But remember to go to the doctor just to get it checked out!
Let me know if you need more help!
xoxo


I love to take pictures for myspace but Im running out of cute ideas for pictures. I love to take artsy pictures for myspace..almost like I have my own little photoshoot. I get all ready and do my hair and makeup and its so much fun. :] So, my question is does any one have any photo ideas that I can do at my house..like my backyard or something? (link)
Taking pictures are fun! You should dress up kind in dressy casual clothes like jeans and a really cute top. Go somewhere in your backyard, maybe like near a really pretty bush, in a tree , sitting on a fence ect. and just take a bunch of pictures. It will look really cool and cute!
Let me know if you need more ideas!
xoxo


Ok, so my best friend is with her second boyfriend ever. The first one only lasted a couple weeks and it wasn't really serious. She has been with the one she's with now since December. Well, they are wicked, wicked serious about each other and I've come to accept that and even be happy for her because she's finally happy again. But this has kinda started to get too far. Her boyfriend asked her to marry him when they become of age and she pretty much said yes. I guess I'm kinda concerned that she's throwing her life away over her second boyfriend. But the major problem with me comes from the age. I'm only 14/f, she's same as me, and he's 15/m. It freaks out alotof our friends because true love at this age is so rare. Do I talk to her or just stay out of it? Am I just jealous? (link)
Love isn't that rare when your young. I would stay out of it for now, she has 4 years until she's the marrying age so they could always break up and there wont be a problem anymore. You could be jealous that they love eachother, but your more concerened that she's throwing her life away.
Let me know if you need more help!
xoxo


i have a dog that gets out of the house alot how do i keep it in? (link)
When your leaving the house and your dog is going to be alone, put it in the crate. When around the house, put a long leash on the color so if it tries to get out, you can grab the leash. I always do this with my dog, my dog follows me to the door wanting to go outside. What I do is take a toy and squeek it a few times then throw it the other direction so I can make an escape while the dog is chasing after the toy! It works all the time. You can also try putting some sort of gate up at your door. Let me know if you need more help!
xoxo


ok.. my i live with my grandma and she keeps calling me fat and stuff. and i already have a lowe self esteem .. and i ask her not to say anything but she still does.. and she knows that it bothers me.. and i've got to wear i dont' wonna eat.. and don't want anything to do with anybody except my best friend.. when it comes to just being with ppl for long periods of time. and she has really put me into a depression mode.. what do i do? (link)
Grandmas? What are you going to do with them? My grandma once called me stupid and a liar so I know how you feel. I think a little silence treatment is needed here. Tell her one more time, "Grandma, stop calling me fat it hurts my feelings!". If she continues, don't talk to her. You shouldn't not eat though, if it really gets to you, excersise. Let me know if it continues so i can help you more!
xoxo


do you think getting fingered or giving a handjob is to slutty for a 13 yr old? thanks♥ (link)
I don't think its slutty but then again i don't think its right. I think if this 13 year old wasn't in a relationship longer then 4 months, then their just easy to get to, which isn't good.
Hope this answered your question!
xoxo


I have made many mistakes in my life. Weather its from friends(talking about them) to family (fighting with them). I just don't wanna loose any friendships over it. 13/f - Becca (link)
There are 10 pages of question about friendship on advicenators. Each page can hold 10 questions. Overall, there are 100 questions and they are all about friendship. Each question someone is either MAD or WORRIED or SAD, because they got in a fight with their friend, their friend said something about them, their friend is up to something that isn't good for them, or the friend is very depressed and you want to help them. If you did not care about friendship, you would not be here saying this. Everyone talks about their friends. Weather they are saying nice things or bad things! Everyone cares about their friends! If you are ever in a situation where you are considering ending a friendship and you think, "I'm going to ask on advicenators!" , then you shouldn't end that friendship. Obviosly you care because you wouldn't be here asking about it. So when you are in a situation with a friend, talk it out and you are garanteed to always having a friendship with them. I can tell you this now, you are not going to loose any friendships anytime soon and its because you care!
Remember, there are 100 questions *even more* on friendship!

Always here to help, xoxosweetstuff.


Every morning I wake up with deadly breath and a killer taste in my mouth. Even after I brush my teeth, it's still nasty. I don't know what else to do. Even when I brush my teeth before bed I have this problem. Any ideas on how to fight morning breath? (I had no idea what catagory to put this in!) (link)
Brush your teeth everynight for about 5 minutes..make sure you scrub your tounge. Use mouthwash and swish it around your mouth for like 30 seconds then spit it out. You could have bad breath and a horrible taste in your mouth because you sleep with your mouth opened. I don't think there is anything to do to help that though. In the morning, do the same thing especially with mouthwash. There is this gum they sell that is kinda like toothpaste(sounds nasty but i've had it before its not that bad) and it improves the smell of your breath and whitens your teeth. You should try using that after you brush or eat food.
Good luck!!




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