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my grandma calls me fat
ok.. my i live with my grandma and she keeps calling me fat and stuff. and i already have a lowe self esteem .. and i ask her not to say anything but she still does.. and she knows that it bothers me.. and i've got to wear i dont' wonna eat.. and don't want anything to do with anybody except my best friend.. when it comes to just being with ppl for long periods of time. and she has really put me into a depression mode.. what do i do?
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Okay, your grandma is retarded and probably going to die in like 2 years. So tell her to shut up. Because you are cool. And she isn't. Besides she has wrinkles, and crap like that. Tell your grandma that you don't give a crap what she thinks, and if she says one more thing you are going to shoot yourself in the head because you are tired of her BS. Hope I helped.
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What you shouldn't do is stop eating. One person's oppion of fat can be anothers as skinny. I dont know if you are over weight or not you should try to be comfortable with yourself/. Yuo are the only you you have soo dont do anything stupid. If this really bothers you, and yuo are over weight go on a diet. But a good idea is to make a list of the good qualities you have and then it might make you feel better
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im sure she doesnt wanna piss you off and only cares about you and says this cuz she thinks if she does youll intend on losing weight...if you told her that and she dont stop tell your parents to talk to her THEN shell stop
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talk to your mother about it. a lot of grandmas are old fashioned and stuff. just tell your mom that it bothers you and maybe shell have a talk with your grandma.
hope i helped.
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Grandmas? What are you going to do with them? My grandma once called me stupid and a liar so I know how you feel. I think a little silence treatment is needed here. Tell her one more time, "Grandma, stop calling me fat it hurts my feelings!". If she continues, don't talk to her. You shouldn't not eat though, if it really gets to you, excersise. Let me know if it continues so i can help you more!
xoxo
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