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the bruuunettte.. i am 18 years old. i have been through plenty for my age, so i know what pretty much everything is like. i don't care about ratings, i will answer your question completely honest, and if you don't like it && rate me a 1, i will laugh. it does not phase me. if you're not serious, please do not waste my time. if my advice is not something you like to hear, well too bad, you asked me and that's what i had to say. i am a really [[nice]] girl. i promise. i can give really good advice or really stupid advice if you give me a stupid question. but i guarantee i can help you. just ask! =]



likes: orange juice, otterpops, clothes, hollister, roses, laughing, friends, family, hugs, kisses, del taco, singing, cell phone, music, summer, fashion, movies, pictures, MAC, shopping, big sunglasses, polka dots, perfume, money, purses, coloring books, roller coasters, cartoons, LiFE





dislikes: mustard, sluts/whores, liars, cheaters, ex-girlfriends, ignorance, fake people, copiersss, shady/sketchy people, followers, being alone, cockyness, annoying people, periods, unorganization, people who are in love with themselves, perverts, disrespectful people

advice

I have Dry and damaged hair and it can get frizzy (blonde, shoulder length straight) .. DO you noe any brands of shampoo and conditioner to buy to help make my hair healthier looking? I rate :)

PANTENE PRO V BABY

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urgh i hate this! it feels like my jaw is gonna fall out like in the grudge! i can't open my mouth really wide to eat because it feels like theres an extra bone there that isn't allowing me to open my mouth any further, and if i chew it feels like my jaw is like cracking.. like it kinda feels like when you crack your knuckles. anyway this really hurts so does any of you have any advice on how i can deal with this? thanks in advance i really appreciate this

DENTiST =)

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ok so tonights our big Spring Formal and I have no idea how to do my hair..an i cant get it done anywhere cuz everyones booked...so any cute, easy, do-it-yourself hairstyles is what i want...pics would help(if possible)..=]..thanks i rate

well i am n0t all that sure if YOU personally c0uld actually d0 thiis.. but y0u c0u;d just put it back in little twistys and then pin the rest of the haiir up iin curls! its looks so cute! thats how i had miine done for a wedding it l0oks hawt! ♥

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im 15 and someone told me that my boyfriend -hes 15- looks at porn..is that normal? and like he said that my bf jacks off to it, too...is this normal or bad or what? and should i be offended that i cant make him feel good enough or somethin?

its normal. like all guys are horny 24/7 and just be glad that he is jacking off to porn and not to other girls in real life.

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ok this is kinda weird to be asking but i had to know...If your going to tease about it dont write me... Ok here it goes
every time i get fingerd i tend to cum alot adn i was just woundering if it was normal to cum so much. and if it is normal is there a way to slow it down a little bit? Please, give me any advice.

itS NORMAl bAbE. dONt WORRY. itS All GOOd.

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well i got certain dri on tuesday,it worked amazing,but on friday i started to use it everyother day.then on saturday i used it again and on sunday i used it again.but it seems to be not working.is there something wrong.please help.thanks

bUY A NEW ONE.. =)

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Ok, so I've really liked this guy for 3 years but I've never talked to him. *Everytime I have it's been like my friend (she has known him all her life) talking to him and me just kinda standing there. And that was about 2 years ago* How would you just like start talking to him or what would I say? I know the most obvious answer is to start talking to him when my friend does but they dont talk really anymore. Please help.

JUSt tAlk tO hiM!! COME ON dONt bE ShY!!! tUffEN UP!! =)

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I have a "friend" that is sort of mean to my other friends. She excludes them and is very posesive of me. She gets angry when me and my 2 other friends do things together, without her. My other friends basically hate her, but i don't want to break the friendship off because i don't want to make an enemy. I hat being stuck in the middle!!!
~Stuck

thAt bitCh iSNt A REAl fRiENd..fORGEt hER!!

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Lately at night I've been having this weird problem. Like all of a sudden my chest hurts like in the middle and it gets harder to breath. It feels like I can't take a deep breath. Then I get this weird whistling noise in my nose when I exhale. Sometimes this happens for a little bit during the day too. It isn't really that bad but it's pretty annoying. At home I can usually try not to panic until it goes away because I feel more comfortable. The problem is Wednesday-Friday my grade is going to Washington DC. I'm not sure what I should do if I start feeling bad or begin to panic. Can anyone help? Thanks in advance.

GO tO thE dOCtOR..♥

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I like this girl and we used to go out.
we had something really special before but some shit happened and the relationship went sour.
She had a b/f when we were dating. She doesn't have the some feeling for me anymore but i still like her. I think she borke up with her b/f now and going out with other guy.
I really like her but i don't think i should still thinking about her.
Anyone knows how can i forget about a girl who i like a lot???

thAtS likE iMPOSSiblE. YOU CANt fORGEt AbOUt thE PERSON YOU likE AlOt. MAYBE it WAS MEANt tO bE. tRY tAlkiNG tO HER.. tEll hER hOW YOU fEEl. ♥

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What is a "body wave" in your hair? Is this a perm or is there a way you can get this by using styling products or whatever?

YOU COUld USE WAVERS fROM likE STORES. bUt it WOUldNt bE EXACtlY thE SAME AS A REAl bOdY WAVE. bUt YOU COUld Still USE ♥StYliNG PROdUCtS♥ tO WAVE YOUR hAiR..=)

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ok so my friend is 15 and her and her bf had sex but the condom broke. well she got this short period for march. it lasted a day and a half she said. shes been eating alot and peeing alot now too. does it sound like shes pregnant? im going with her to planned parenthood tomrrow..but what does it sound like to you guys??

YEP, ShES PREGNANt~ SUCkS tO bE hER! 15 YEARS Old?? WOW~~

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I'm not really one to ask this kind of question..But there's this guy. He goes to another school, I just recently started talking to him over the phone and stuff. We have a lot of chemistry. We always have something to talk about. So I just called him, I haven't talked to him since last night, and he didnt answer his phone. Do you think I should call him again or just wait for him to call?

WAit fOR hiS CAll hUN.
if YOU GUYS hAVE ChEMiStRY, thEN hE'll CAll. dONt WORRY SO MUCH! =)

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Why do guys get angry when you have only been dating two months and they tell you they love, but if you don't feel comfortable saying it back they all the sudden don't love you? Especially the only reason you don't want to say it is because that is when people start getting hurt!

WhO kNOWS.
JEEZ JUSt dONt SAY it if YOU dONt MEAN it.
if thEY All Of A SUddEN dONt lOVE YOU, tHEN fUCk HiM, tHAtS lAME ♥

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Me and my friend were walking up to her house, we got round the corner near the lampost and we were like 20 metres away from her house. As we got round the corner there was a tall white van parked and a man standing there with his door open, I saw his arm moving so i looked down to see him wanking!! It was groose and he smerk at us.
I told my friend and she looked down to quickly we walked up to her house, when outside the house she shouted "MUM!!" as we climbed over her fence, he looked up at us quickly jumped in his van and drove off at the speed of light. He now knows where she lives and she cant sleep at night. Her mum didnt believe us and we told everyone in the neighbour hood to keep an eye out.

Im scared for life when anyone metions the words, wanking, penis, white van. I hate it so much i went white as a ghost when i saw him doing it.

I was shaking all day we tried to get her mum to report it to the police but she said "He might have just been goin for a piss" but i know he wasnt or piss would be comeing out of his dick.. not spunk. and he wouldnt exactly point it right at us..

How can my friend get over the fact that he knows where she lives?

sorry for it being so long lush me x

hONEY itS NOt thAt biG Of A dEAl. tRUSt ME.
GOSh, CRY ME A RiVER bUild ME A bRidGE ANd GEt thE fUCk OVER iT..
♥AMbER bAMbER

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okay at skool the other day i leaked and it was all over my chair. i coverd my pants with my jackett. i was wearing a extreamly large pad. it went through. am i bleeding to much
this is my 3rd period

hONEY, MAYbE YOU SHOUld CONSidER tAMPONS. PAdS ARE jUSt UNdER SiZEd diAPERS.. ANd i PERSONAllY tHiNK iTS diSGUSTiNG tO WEAR ONE.
hOPE♥i♥hELPEd

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How old do you think you should be when you lose your virginity?

i WOUld SAY AbOUt 16-17 YEARS Old. bECAUSE YOUR NOt YOUNG ANd YOUR NOt Old...
♥aMbEr BaMbEr♥

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This is going to sound gross at first and I apologize. I'm going to try to word it as maturely as possible. Okay, I was talking to this boy that I sort of like, well, that I'm "attracted" to & he had a "boner" or whatever term you want to use. This happened right in the middle of lunch when we were chatting. People found out and started say that means I "arroused" him and that he must have some sort of attraction to me. I'm kind of confused on whether this is what it means because this happened. Thanks.

Btw, I'm 14/f

*jEsS*

MAYbE hE WAS AttRACtEd tO YOU. hEY iT COUld hAPPEN.....=)
♥ Amber

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okay.. i was talking to my friend yesterday and she told me she thinks she might be pregnant.. At first i thought she was kidding but she was being serious. She said she doesn't want to tell anybody and would be too scared to get a pregnancy test or anything. She thinks she should be on birth control too. She's only 14! what can i do?.. Oh her boyfriend doesnt know she might be pregnant either :/

g0 t0 planned parent h0od

~.::♥Xx-Oo-Amber-oO-xX♥::.~

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sorry i didn't know where to put this so i just put it here .. well a few weeks ago i found out that i was pregnant. i decided that im going to have the baby but the problem is that i have an eating disorder. i know it's probably bad for the baby but i've been doing it for so long that i can't stop. Does anyone know how badly it can hurt the baby or what it can do to it?
14/f

y0u`re n0t ready t0 be a m0mmy..
y0u suck and y0u`re n0t d0ing whats right f0r the baby! y0u d0nt kn0w whats its like t0 raise a child..w0w.....l0w life..

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