oh yeah deffinitly.
because really their just about the same size, so i guess you'll just have to try them and see how you like the juniors fit...but most likely, yes!
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---have fun shopping haha

thats a tricky question and probably puzzlment to a lot of people.
but i think that it depends on the person your kissing, and your own feelings towards them.
for instance i've kissed guys and not felt a thing until the boyfriend i am with now and i really really love him a lot, and every time we kiss i feel something. so i think it depends how you feel about them to describe what you feel when you kiss. but dont stress if you dont feel the "fireworks, etc." right now b/c im guessing your in your teens like a lot of us, and well, its ok to not have found THE ONE just right now. becuase its a great feeling when that actually comes:)
hope i helped
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ok, example.
you are in a really bad relationship say its abusive or something. and you could get out...
well people say the grass is greener on the other side because if you ended that relationship then things would be better for you and "greener" the other way around
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deffinitly.
if one person does something to mess with the family setting, then that will hurt someone else within the family to be hurt and that person being hurt will cause someone else stress, and so on. so yeah, i deffinitly think so.
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mhm i know exactly how you feel b/c thats what me and My b/f of 5 months went through just a couple weeks ago.
sucks big time, huh?
the first thing you need to do is tell him exactly what you just said here. he probably won't know that you feel like he doesnt appreciate you anymore unless you tell him. and when you do if he really does still care about you it will make him sad but it will bring something to surface that might have been wrong with him or maybe he'll realize that he needs to step it up a notch. either way, tell him, and see what he has to say. stay calm about it but tell him exactly how you feel and if the tears come then its ok to cry b/c then he will know that you really mean this.
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*good luck!*

i hate it when that happens:[
what you should try is 'spray n wash' or somekind of knock-off brand. go to the laundry detergent section in wal-mart or anywhere, and they'll have stain removing sprays that you put on and scrub your stained laundry with before putting them in the washer. this stuff usually works pretty good.
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as hard as it might be, your friend is just going to have to tell zack that she doesnt like him like that. its probably gonna make him sad, but everyone gets hurt sometimes and but he will get over it eventually. she should be nice about it and tell him that they can still be friends, b/c then at least it doesnt sound like she's just shovin him off the face of her earth. but she needs to tell him how she feels.
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a good thing is that your in the play together. that can bring up many things to talk about. just random things out of the play, or maybe if you have a question (even if you already answer it yourself) pretend like you dont know, and ask him for somehelp. another way to get closer is to practice lines together maybe? i know it might sound a little wierd, but you Can get closer just by doing this. and you wont have to think of what to say b/c everything will be right in front of you:P
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what i would do is get to know him as a really good friend and maybe start going places together like school dances or a movie once and a while or something. this way, you wont be 'dating' but you will have just gone out once in a while. then once you've done that a few times, start thinking about if you want to be more serious or just stay friends.
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yea, i'm close to a lot of guys that have had sex when or before age 16. but i think this is sort of wrong b/c most regret it and meet someone later who they would have much rather lost their virginity to, or wish they would've waited longer. to make a story short, dont have sex until your ready and with someone who you love so incredibly much.
ok, now dont i just sound like your mother??:P
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personally i think that whenever your ready to do these things, that is the age for you that is 'okay for these kinds of actions' you hear about like elementary school kids doing sexual things nowadays and, well, i think that is way young but since we're in high school and young adults..experiencing things like this is ok. just make sure you dont do something that you will regret.
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even though her opinion matters to you, its probably natural for you to second guess just because perhaps your nervous to show off your talent if you really Aren't good. so i would deffinitly ask some other close friends/family and see what they all say, and if enough say yes then you will know what majority thinks.
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hmmm deffinitly know what you mean. i'd say you are Probably missing him just because he's your best friend and since it sounds like you two talk a lot...your probably just gettin kind of lonely, you know?
but there's nothing saying that you couldn't maybe like him. its really possible. when he gets back you can start testing your feelings when you are around him and if its the way you feel when you like someone or if you feel any different than friends.
its ok to miss him, either way!
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aw this is deffinitly a good thing that your thinking this way about her. if you want to go out with her, and you arent afraid of long distance relationships..i would go ahead. 15 isnt tooo soon to start Really dating. i think it's just right. and especially since your thinking of her this way. its really nice to hear that there are at least some guys out there still who dont judge us just by the cup size:)
good luck, and to answer the Actual question...i think you Are being more mature. your friends will probably get there some day too, but at our age it comes at different times.
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physicals are really nothing to worry about. as long as your healthy than really all they do is check your muscles...just kinda feel around your legs and abdomen
and then do eye tests and weight etc.
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its pretty much just like a checkup, making sure you have good bloodpressure and all that. that you'll get along ok in the sport your probably getting this physical for.

different people mean different things, but i think by this she is probably meaning that she hadnt been 'all the way' when they met, but she been through some serious make out sessions...
just underwear and/or something to that nature.
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i wouldnt.
thats cuttin things a little too long and its not safe to wear a tampon for too long at a time. wear a pad to bed instead..they might feel weird but its safer.
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-evanescense
-coheed&cambria...even though they broke up the songs they did make are still some of my favorites!
theres lots more but those are just a couple...
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ok, since your really worried about this one zit..this is going to be hard to do.
but DONT MESS WITH IT. ok well..not exactly..but stop touching it. pop it, and then yes you could use all these different face products but while your just sittin at home after you pop it put some neosporin or something on it. do that now and then evernight and when you sleep put a bandaid on it. seriously for a quick fix that can really help out sometimes.
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Heck No!
im sorry..and im really sorry if this is you..but no matter if your kissing the teacher on the cheak or having sex with them...that is deffinitly not good. it makes the person do it look like a complete whore and it can also get the teacher fired...
so technically yes, people can because it has happened at my school more than once but the outcome is never good for anyone.
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