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Missing him as a friend or...more
So my best guy friend, we've been friends for 8 years. He left for Europe a few days ago, and I CANT stop thinking about him and how much I miss him. And I don't know if I'm just missing him because hes my best friend and I'm used to him being here and talking to him all the time. Or if I'm missing him because I like him a lot and am just realizing I like it. Agh, its confusing.
14/f
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hmm
thats a pretty bad situation right there
yeah that happened to me before
my ex moved back to Brazil after i dare say we fell in love
somedays i cry myself to sleep wishing she was back but unfortuantly it wont happen anytime soon
if youre just friends you just miss him as you wont get to talk and that stuff
if you like him youll sort of think of him like a best friend and physically as in nice abs (something like that i cant rate guys) and
but i think the best think you can do is either email/myspace/aim/phone etc
try to find like a calling card if youre calling to europe for cheap calls
thats how i call brazil now and then
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I understand ever word you just said. Sometimes it's both and alot of time...friendss (esp best ones) like each other alot and never realise it till the person finds someone else..or in your case moves for a while. Well..I suppose you need to weigh the options...have this happened with any other best friend (girl) and how much did you miss her. If u missed her less....well you def. like him even if it isn't ALOOOT ALOT! It depends...you should know your feelings towards him.....good luckkk!
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Well, sit down and think. Do you have any sort of "feelings" for him? If you do, then you know you're missing him because of that. Or, maybe you think you miss him because he's your friend, but then you realize you really do like him. If you can, call him and tell him how you feel. But, is he coming back? If he is, when he does come back, throw together a party to show him how much you care.
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hmmm deffinitly know what you mean. i'd say you are Probably missing him just because he's your best friend and since it sounds like you two talk a lot...your probably just gettin kind of lonely, you know?
but there's nothing saying that you couldn't maybe like him. its really possible. when he gets back you can start testing your feelings when you are around him and if its the way you feel when you like someone or if you feel any different than friends.
its ok to miss him, either way!
xoxo helpachick
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