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A guy i like
Okay there is this guy in my class and I really like him... as a friend and I would like him as a boyfriend and he likes me too but I don't really want to go out with him.
I know that could be confusing but please help
thnx
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well this is complicated but try getting closer to him as friends and maybe you will like him more enough to want him as a bf.. if not then maybe you are better off as really good friends
goodluck christina
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well
theres always these questions in life
this or that
the BMW or the Lexus
the White or Black
some may seem pretty different or some may seem the same
i can see both of you guys have the hots for eachother but you really dont have that much feelings for him
theres such things as a best friend of the opposite sex
the only real diffrence i sometimes see between dating and best friends is the physical contact and ocasianlly the "i love you"
personally i say i love you to my best friends but
do you wanna make out with him
or
do you just wanna hang out with him and have someone to talk to about all of your problems to
you can tell pretty clear cut the boy friend and the best friend option but its what really you want
if he feels that you guys should go out 190% sure
you should talk to him about it
im SURE
he wouldnt mind best friends
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If you like him and you don't want to go out with him, maybe just hangout with him a lot and become really good friends, and then you never know, you might want to go out with him. Just, before you two start hanging out, make sure you tell him you're not ready for a relationship and you want to take it slow and he should hopefully understand.
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what i would do is get to know him as a really good friend and maybe start going places together like school dances or a movie once and a while or something. this way, you wont be 'dating' but you will have just gone out once in a while. then once you've done that a few times, start thinking about if you want to be more serious <b/f and g/f> or just stay friends.
xoxo helpachick
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