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cousin told brother secret
i told my cousin about something that happened when i was young (another cousin hitting me) and HE TOLD MY BROTHER! my brother just asked me about it, and then told me "dont tell him i said anything" BUT I WANT TO CONFRONT HIM, i mean i truested him, i have a right to know why he went and told my YOUNGER brother. But I don't want to do anything to get my brother upset or him upset with my brother since my brother already feels pretty "left out" of the family.. and this is the first time he's trusted me with anything..
So what do i do? just pretend like nothing??
I should also add that the cousin that told me brother is currently mad at me for something silly and has me blocked and wont talk to me so th eonly way to ask him anything would be to email him.
What do you think??
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HI,
this is a very tough situation because you dont want to upset your brother. But, you trusted your cousin with something personal and he told him, he had no right to. I think you should confront your cousin in any way possible. Your brother might get upset but if you explain to him that you had the right to know why you couldnt trust your cousin with a simple secret, your brother can understand. And also inform your cousin that it is very selfish of him to be mad at you for something period, no matter how big or small it is, after he betrayed your trust and told your secret to someone.
I hope i helped! Good luck with everything!
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