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ok one of my best friends has really strict parents. theyre making her go to military school cuz she got one D on her report card! shes leaving next year and i dont know if i can take it. shell be at school all week except for the weekends. i dont know what to do shes the only person that makes school a little more fun. im really sad. how can i get over this? (link)
Talk to her on the phone as much as you can. And if shes going next year maybe theres a way you can go and visit her. Try to plan a going away party to make everyone feel better and do as much as you can with her now. They did go overboard... and im sorry for your friend and you. Just make sure you stay in ocntact... sorry :(



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Ok theres this girl in one of my classes named june (named change of course) but anyways shes always bragging about what she has saying that shes rich , and usually talks about how *awesome* her car is, and how its a brand new car but she doesnt like it. Anyways shes new this year and i dont know if she wants to be my friend or not? how do i know if shes just saying all this stuff to impress me, or just really doesnt like me? I mean she brags about how she knows so many people already yet, when i see her shes always around just the usual two people. So i dont know if she wants to make new friends or what? any help? Thanks so much (link)
Maybe she is just trying to impress you. But then again she could know all these people and just like having a really tight knit group. I'm that way ;) but considering shes new maybe you shud just talk to her and tell her thats cool or whatever when she starts to brag. If it annoys you though just stay away. In the end it matters if you wanna be her friend or not.... hope it helps... and sorry if its not that good. its way early here lol


there is this guy i go to school with and he is popular. All the girls think he's so cute. (including me)He is a hottie very cute. Recently i was in the liabary and he walked up to me and asked me out on a date i was shocked out of mine. I could not understand why he asked me because i am not one of the SKINNY, PARIS HILTON, popular brand name, expensive close wearing girls. I shop at target. I was so flatterd i said yes quickly. we went out on our date and it was heaven. He kissed me passionatley and asked me to be his girl freind. Just when i thought this was the man of my dreams he turns to me and says.... "Oh yeah about tonight and our relationship don't tell anyone about us. I'm a private person and i would like to keep this to my self." I was so offened by this i could not speak.I just nodded my head and went along with it beacuse he was still so cute. When he sees me in puplic it's like i'm thin air he says nothing to me. As soon as his friends are not around it's all hugs and kisses. My question is could it be that this guy is embarrassed to be seen with me? (link)
Try asking him. He could at least treat you like a friend in school. Maybe he is embarrased to be seen with you. Put then He wouldnt of bothered asking you out. I have friends that do those same things and its really bitchy of them... sorry I cant help more




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OK I see a lot of those "About me" things in people's profiles. I really want one in mine but don't know where to get one. I have seen many different ones, liek the one with the alphabet going down and you fill in [A]ge___ anyone heard of those? If anyoen has some or knows where to find one let me know!! Please and thanks. (link)
usually people come up with it on their own... sorry i cant help more




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i just won a coke contest for a lot of coke from my coke lid. how do i get my prize?? (link)
got to the coca cola website... idk hope i helped




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is it okay to wear a black hat (like the french type of hats) when you're wearing a black dress, black sandals, and nude tights? and the dress is like 3 inches above the knee... (link)
ummm why not? it may be a little to blah... but its not illegal or anything in the fashion world ;)




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I have really curly hair that I used to chemically straighten a few years back, before it damaged my hair. It's now grown out curly again, but I can't wear it that way because it won't lay in defined curls and it always frizzes in the back. I straighten it with a ceramic iron that I bought through my hairstylist, and I love how it looks when it's straight!

What I wanted to ask was, what hairstyles can I try? I usually either wear it down, or some up and some down, or in a ponytail. Are there any other cute styles I could try? Btw, I don't have bangs, if that gives you any other ideas. (link)
you could wear it in a loose bun, to the side, braided pigtails, 2 buns: on one the left side and one on the right. You could scrunch it, you could flip it on the ends, you could get it layered. You could get it layered... ummm theres like SO many things you could do. email me at thunderbun90@yahoo.ca or IM me at wordlifeprincess if ya wanna know nethin else :D




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when it comes to tryin to get a guy...how do know when ur tryin too hard, or not hard enuff.Or wen u should give up...?? (link)
dont get all obsessed or anything. Flirt with him and see if he flirsts back. Or just ask him out. If he says no or doesnt seem interested when you flirt of flirt back then try wit sum1 else. hope it helped




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I am 17/f 220lb and like 6 foot tall, I was wondering if you think it will be posiable to lose like 50lb by august if i work out (go 2 curves) and eat right and diet? cause when i went to curves before I lost 20 lb in a month. or can you give me any good diets or things to do? thanks alot i will rate you (link)
weight watchers has helped everyone i know. and if a 15 year old can lose 30 lbs by workin out and eating right on weight watchers so you can you. theres hope for ya! just make sure you dont become under weight


I'm looking for an online forum/bbs/message board that is for teens that has like fashion, trends, recipes, pixels, etc. I rate 5 everytime someone posts a forum! Thanx (link)
http://fashion.teenfx.com/forum.cfm?prod=27&sec=5&qz=1&ar=1&pl=1


I came to a new school this year and i hav a couple new friends and i eally miss my old friends and hardly ever hear from some of them. I kind of feel like my new friends are replacing my old ones but i know they're not and they are great friends. Every time we go to the CVS in my old neighborhood i think it would be the coolest thing if i saw them. Someone please help me. (link)
ummmm u cud try calling your old friends to see if they can hang out with you one day. plan a party or a small get together to show you havent forgot about them. hope i helped




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Is it neccesary, in Witchcraft,or Wicca, To cast a cirlce even while doing a simple spell??Please answer, i need help. (link)
ummm... i'm not into that stuff... but i odnt think so. I know people who do them by themselves at home... there are tons of books you can get to help you out. If theres a spencers store near you look in there. hope i helped





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i want to use the loreal color pulse on my hair to turn it blonde (i have brown hair) but i was wondering how well it works, how do u apply it (im confused) and where can you buy it? ( i cant seem to find it anywhere) (link)
most drug stores have stuff like that, there are instructions on the box, and there are also ways to make sure the color will look good on your hair color (( cause it isnt JUSt brown lol )) hope i helped....




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theres a stupid dude I hate a lot, but he LOVES me. he follws me everywhere at school and wont shut up. how can i tell him to back off? i dont even like him as a friend. agghh (link)
lol... im sorry u seem funny. Just tell him you want him to leave you alone. But if you cant find a better way to say it lie... i know its bad but it works. Say your boyfriend is really jealous, or your parnets wont let you talk to people like him. i know its bad... but its alli got rotflmfao

sorry....






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Even though your rotation is almost done doesnt mean that you cant visit her. When shes at home go visit her and take her somewhere (( as long as its ok )) or visit her when shes in the hospitol... But just leaving her wont help anyone, she may end up getting more depressed. hope i helped :D






My dog urinates on my mothers pillow every few weeks I have no idea why. Can you give me any ideas why? Thanks. (PS- we have no other pets) (link)
Once a dog pees somewhere once they will forever think its ok because they wil smell it. No matter how many times you wash it. Try punishing him/her to try and teach it that peeing inside is wrong


There was no Funky Light category, so Random Weirdos will work.


About 5 days ago, i bought myself a lava lamp. On the package, it stated that i should let it go for 4-6 hours the first time i use it. I've done that and all, but now everytime i use it, it still takes 40-55 minutes to actually get going with the lava.


My question is, to all of you lava lamp experts, is will the "starting up" time get faster? Is there something i can do to make it go a little faster?


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haha wow... im sorry but i jus love the way you wrote it :D lol.


is sex at a young age(like 13) a bad idea? (link)
YES! I am 15 and still haven't had sex yet, and I've had offers ;) Your way to young to be even thinking about it. 1 of my friends had sex at 13 and now her baby is 2 years old cause the condom broke and they didnt know it. The other one... well she died from AIDS 3 months ago. Im not saying these things will happen to you, but it isnt smart. And if you decide to make this mistake then make sure you go to planned parenthood to get on the pill and some patches and make sure he wears a condom. Dont let him talk you out of him wearing one. Even if you THINK you "love" him you probably dont. I just found out what I THINK love is. And hunny when I thought I felt it before it wasnt like this. I really hope you wait.... and i hope i helped





Me and my mom are just not close. I can't talk about anything to her and she has never told me that she loves me. How can we get closer? If I try and talk to her about anything, like boys or make up, she just gets this look on her face, this kinda stupid grin. And then she tells me to shut up. What do I do? (link)
Talk to a guidance counseler. I cant talk to my mom but she never tells me to shut up or and tells me she loves me all the time. I may hate her, but she doesnt hate me. Thats really messed up and Im sorry that shes like that. If you dont feel comfortable talking to a GC then talk to a friend or another adult. Sorry, and I hope it helps.





You see my best friend has this boy bofreind right. And to me she is spending way more time with him then me. Thats the only person she talks about to. I have been her best friend since the 4th grade he just been her bf for a couple of months. What should I do? (link)
Try telling her how you feel. Tell her that you feel like she doesnt care anymore and you wish you could spend more time with her. PLan a slumber party or a trip to the mall... WITHOUT the boy. Its not cool to lose a friendship over a guy who you're gonna lose eventually. Hope it helps.








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