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I came to a new school this year and i hav a couple new friends and i eally miss my old friends and hardly ever hear from some of them. I kind of feel like my new friends are replacing my old ones but i know they're not and they are great friends. Every time we go to the CVS in my old neighborhood i think it would be the coolest thing if i saw them. Someone please help me.
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call your old friends to have a get together sometime. bring a few of your new friends, keep in touch with your old ones, they're great people i'm sure. don't be afraid to get close to new people, you don't want to be lonely in your new school
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ummmm u cud try calling your old friends to see if they can hang out with you one day. plan a party or a small get together to show you havent forgot about them. hope i helped
N I K K I
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If you live within an hour or so of your old neighborhood, then you should definitely go back and visit your friends on weekends and during breaks from school. Since you feel like your new friends are replacing the old, why not hold some sort of social event where both sets of friends can meet? Even plan a trip to the skating rink or the movies or wherever you like to go to socialize.
Make sure you keep in touch with your old friends that you want to stay friendly with. From personal experience, I know that if you want to keep a longer-distance friendship going, you should stay in communication.
Good luck! :) Hope this helped!
♥ Val
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well you're not replacing them. its just that you dont get to see them so much and its totally normal for this to happen. especially when you move into a new school. you obviously care about both sets. so you're not replacing them, its just you want to be with both. sorry i couldnt help more. but if you ever need to talk im here.
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Well get ahold of your old friends and hang out sometime.. jus hook up and chill like you use too... its really not that hard to pick up a phone and say what up what you doin this weekend ya wanna hook up... jus give em a call... and your not replacing your friends if you keep in contact with em and continue to hang out with em..much luv dez
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If these new friends are great friends, please try to appreciate them. I know it's tough, but I'm sure that one day you will let go of your old friends and accept your life.
Give your old friends a ring or send them an email. No one's telling you to forget them; just try to accept this new part of your life :-)
Good luck!
Sophie xxx
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I dont understand why you dont keep in touch with them? They have a number and a home adress CALL THEM SEND THEM A LETTER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! No one will kill you!!!!!!!!!!
♥ Michelle
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Call them up and see if you can hang out with them..matter of fact one of my friends moved last year a little before the school year ended...the last time I saw her was the last day of school of the year and I didn't get to see her for the 1st time till about 4 weeks ago...we saw each other 2 twice in a 2 week period...and its gettin so insane that we haven't seen each other that we are going to the mall again today and she is staying over....soo call them up and ask them to hang out!!!
-need anything else feel free to drop one-
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Why don't you call up your other friends and ask them if they want to hang out? If you hardly hear from them, then it's time that you call them or talk to them. When you go to CVS in your old neighborhood, stop by your friends' houses and talk to them. They probably think that your new friends are replacing them. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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