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Me and my mom are just not close. I can't talk about anything to her and she has never told me that she loves me. How can we get closer? If I try and talk to her about anything, like boys or make up, she just gets this look on her face, this kinda stupid grin. And then she tells me to shut up. What do I do?
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find out some of her intrests. you should get to know her a little better. let her know that building a relationship with her is important to you. maybe you two can set up a mother-daughter date and talk about some of the things she likes.
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have you ever seen that pretty recent 7th heaven episode where the girls mom acts really cruely to her and has never said she loves her, it was because she was treated that way as a child, tell your mom that you love her, she does love you, spend some time with her, you dont want to end up that way, and she dosent want you to
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You could try talking to her and tell her about how you feel. Just try saying something like, Mom everytime I try to talk to you about anything you just tell me to shut up and I want to be able to talk to my mom about the stuff that most girls do or can. So will you please stop it. I need someone that I can trust and talk to that has already had the expeciances that I have. Hope that helped!
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Talk to a guidance counseler. I cant talk to my mom but she never tells me to shut up or and tells me she loves me all the time. I may hate her, but she doesnt hate me. Thats really messed up and Im sorry that shes like that. If you dont feel comfortable talking to a GC then talk to a friend or another adult. Sorry, and I hope it helps.
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same here with me n my mom but its worse... tell her that you want to spend more time with her and tell her how yu feel once again! x0
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that how me and my mother were and i just wrote her a letter telling he how i feel ever sense we tell eachother almost everything. so maybe try to write her a letter. hope i helped
Peaches_n_cream552
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Try family therapy
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Maybe you should like plan a day with mother and bond a bit and try to get some advice. i hope i helped =P-Madde
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Ask her if she wants to go out shopping for a day or do something fun with you. Just tell her that you want to spend more time with her, since you need to talk to her. Spending time with her will definitely bring you two closer and you will be able to talk to your mom better. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Invite her out to the movies or to dinner as your treat. Try and ask her how her day was, and talk about school. You two just need to find a common ground. Good luck! Send me a mesaage if you need anything. ♥ Kristen
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hun.. just tell you mom you want to spend time with her and get closer with her XOXO hope i helped <3 michelle _ if you every need anything.. you no where to find me <3
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That really sad
Tell her that you want to spend some time with her
GOOD LUCK
LOVE ZOEY
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If you have the guts, you could try and write her a letter telling you how you feel.
If not, try and organise some kind of outing-just the two of you. Something that you both enjoy. Then be and extra nice daughter and be very nice to her. Hopefully that'll bring you a little closer together.
Good luck!
Sophie xxx
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Ask her if you guys can go out shoping or something fun and ask her why she isnt acting like a true mom whould my mom trys 2 get me 2 talk but I wont but if ur mom is acting like me and not talking 2 you then u need 2 put her on the spot and ask her whats going on and ask her why she isnt acting like a true mom like I said before..Hope I Helped
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Well just ask her if you guys can go out and have a fun day together. Go out for lunch maybe going golfing.. put-put or go-carting or go carting. Those are some fun things. Or go to the movies. Talk to her more and be like mom.. why arent we close you have to put her on the spot-trix
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