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My best freind and her boyfriend.
You see my best friend has this boy bofreind right. And to me she is spending way more time with him then me. Thats the only person she talks about to. I have been her best friend since the 4th grade he just been her bf for a couple of months. What should I do?
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Its tough when friendships grow apart because of a relationship, isnt it? anyway, I think I can help you. Just go up to your friend when shes alone or on the phone or internet, and just tell her, "Hey why are you spending time with him more than me???" I mean, for MY rules, my gurlies always come before muh man. Your friend shouldnt be ignoring you. Anyway, I hope I helped some. If you need anymore advice, feel free to ask me.
xOo Nikki xO
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Tell her that it bothers you. Maybe try to invite her places like the mall/movies more often and tell her you want it to be just you two. Maybe she is just scared that if she spends less time with him he will break up with her. Just talk to her about it. Besta Luck
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Try telling her how you feel. Tell her that you feel like she doesnt care anymore and you wish you could spend more time with her. PLan a slumber party or a trip to the mall... WITHOUT the boy. Its not cool to lose a friendship over a guy who you're gonna lose eventually. Hope it helps.
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o0 that must suck! i think that you should tell her how you feel since you guys are best freinds! x0
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try talking to her, if she doesnt notice what she is doing is wrong and she keeps it up, shell regret it later on when she doesnt have a best friend nor does she have a boy friend
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either wait it out for a lil longer and c how things go or u can just talk to her about it hshe is probly just hyped about the relationship
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Talk to her. Tell her you miss spending time with her. Try to arrange a sleepover or shopping trip, or something just to get together and talk. Maybe she'll realize that she needs to manage her time better. Hope I helped.
♥ Kristen
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You need to talk to your best friend and tell her that you miss spending time with her, since she has been spending a lot of time with her boyfriend. Also tell her that you have been her best friend longer than she and her boyfriend have been going out and that friends should come before guys. Just talk to her and tell her how you feel. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Hahaha. What should you do? Quit being jealous and let her have a realtionship.
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Try to hang out with her more.And if she keeps babaling about her boyfriend,try changing the subject,but do it in a polite way.If that doesnt seem to help,try confronting her about it.Hope it helps.
<3Leandra
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Gurl I am the same boat you are... there's pretty much nothing you can do... but one thing you can do is let her know you still exist (w/o being mean) ask her honestly if she would choose you over him... if not, then you know she's not your friend. And if her and her bf break-up (I wouldn't have no sympathy but) she would come right back to you... you gotta let her know when he's gone don't come running back to me, or you can be a bigger person than me and be there for her..... that's jux my opinion... hope I somewhat helped... God Bless and Good Luck!
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Girl, tell your friend that she should start hanging out with you cuz best friends are forever, but boyfriends come and go. When she and him breakup, you might not be there for her like you are now. $$$Babii D$$$
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Hiya,
When she got a boyfriend, she didn't get extra hours in the day to hang out with him without cutting out her time with you :) She's having to share her time between you now, and although that doesn't really seem fair, put yourself in her shoes...wouldn't you want to spend time with your boyfriend? Be honest! :P
As they've only been together a couple of months, it should calm down a little. Try and find places you can all go out together (bring along another friend for you though so that you don't feel left out!), or have a quick word with your friend (don't confront her, talk to her calmly :) Do this over MSN/Yahoo etc if you think you'll find it difficult to stay calm in person), saying how much you miss you two spending time together like you always used to. Make sure that she understands you're OK with her spending time with this guy - but you want to be around too! Try and remember some of the good times with her and tell her how much you are missing them!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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