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Hey everybody ! I'm Callie. I'm from St. Louis Missouri.. yes yes SoCo,Mo. I'm 16. sophomore at MHS. 2010 bitchesss. I'm involed in a whole bunch of shit at school .. I'm class president for the 2nd year and a StuCo officer. StuCo is more than a club, it`s a passion. I`m in Paws & Peace, STL, yearbook, A+ tutoring, Sophomore Executive, cheerleading. I`m an over achiever and I love it.




I LOvE to give advice; if you ask me a question you will get an answer. If you ask a dumb question, you will get a dumb answer. Easy as that. You can ask me about anything; I know what I should for my age, maybe more. I've been through alot.. maybe not all personally but I've seen alot of shit happen with my friends and just people around school. I'll help as best as I can. Any question you ask I will answer it as best that I possibly can.. even if it's just and honest answer of " I don't know. "



Don't rate me bad because you feel like it. If I don't answer your question the way you wanted me to, then don't rate me bad.. just don't rate me. If you honsetly think that my advice to you was absolutly horrible then okay rate me bad. I don't mind. Please comment when you rate me thought :)


If you wanna want to ask me anything at all, I have an AIM screen name. Don't send me messages on here saying ILY or HAPPY BIRTHDAY or THANKS or anything like that. Send me an IM or comment. Advicenators gets mad if you send it in my inbox. I also have facebook that I'm compleatly addicted to, it's kinda sad. But if you have a question that you want answered right away, send me a message on facebook. I'm on there atleast twice a day.. not on here so much. If you're not old enought to have facebook.. I also have myspace. I'm on there about once a week. But still.. more than this. I'm really gonna try and start this up again. I really enjoy giving and receiving advice so I'm gonna try hard. My screen name is on the bar along the side. If you IM me I'll tell you my usernames for myspace and what not.


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Heyy. There is this guy that i REALLY like, but i'm too scared to talk to him and i have no idea what to say. He's not in any of my classes, i only see him in the hallway. Some of my friends say they think he likes me because he blushes sometimes when he sees me and stares and me sometimes, but he is really shy too so he wont talk to me. Honestly, I have no idea if he likes me or not. I want to say something to him and maybe become friends. but i dont want it to be ackward. Please help. ♥

just aproach him. be yourself and dont make it awekard by bring nervous and thinking about it. just let it happen the way it does. start talking and become friends to see if you really like him/he really likes you.

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Well this is my first time babysitting by myself w/ younger kids. I have done a little 6 year old with my friend, but now i have a 2 year old girl and a 4 year old boy. Im sorta nervous b/c i just saw when a stranger calls! lol. So my question is: is there anything i need to know before i go? How much to charge, emergencies, cautions, questions to ask the parents? ill rate! thanks so much!

oooohh! i babysit alot and i refused to see that movie for that reason!! ooh! well anyways... before the parents leave make sure you ask:
1) emergency phone numbers ; cell numbers
2) bed times
3) what time they plan to be home
4) ask about what foods they can/cant eat

and make sure you pay attention to both of them and give them equal attention, especailly because ones a girl and ones a boy. younger kids will be more difficult to keep your eyes on but dont sweat it. and about money, usually go by per kid, per hour but just accept what they give you; maybe they'll give you more then you ask for! good luck and have fun!
X0 ' KALIE

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what can a girl who doesnt have a bf do to feel better on valentines day? Every valentines day I get really depressed because I never have a bf. I only had one bf and when it was valentines day he could ask me if he could borrow 10 dollars from me so he could buy me a gift!! When I see all my friends get excited about what their bf's will get for them it just further plummets me into depression. Does anyone have any ideas to make me feel better?

valentines day is just another gay holiday that hallmark made up to make girls like us feel lowsey. dont worrie about it. there will be plenty of other valentines days and plenty of other guys to spend them with. you have plenty of time! spend it hanging out with your single friends and have a good time. dont let stupid boys get in the way of having a good time. if that doesnt work, treat it like anyother day of the year; pretend its not valentines day!
X0 ' CALLIE

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sorry, but this is really long, but its easy to understand...
ok so ive liked this boy since like september, and we started going out last week, on tuesday. hes a really shy person, and hes only had a few gf's before. our relationship...isnt what i would call.."normal". well like at first when we werent going out, we barely talked. and then when we did start going out, we talked a lil more. and i was like getting pissed, because he was so shy, and he like couldnt sit with me at lunch, he was to shy to walk to class with me, and like to shy to even come over to talk with me. but now our relatoinship is getting a little better because all of my friends kept telling him that i was getting pissed, and he said he would try and talk to me more. and ive been talking to him online about talking to me more, and he said he would to. so now hes talking to me more, and like hes actually started waiting for me after we get out of a class, and walking with me, but we sorta walk in silence sometimes. he barely talks, he just says cool about everything i say, and laughs, and i know he really does like me because hes told me. and like i really want our relationship to work because i really like him. but i seriously cant take this anymore, all the silent walking, the no hugs, or barely any talking, he doesnt really come over to me unless i ask him to..and i like said at the end of this week, if he doesnt start changeing then im going to have to break up with him because i cnt go through with this. but then i thought like i really like him and i dotn want to have to sit tehre everyday looking at him thinking that i had the chance to stay with him but i like blew it off. so please i need some advice on what to do...

okay its only been a week! give it some time!! sometimes he needs that 'push' .. you know..! well until he gets the picture.. make the first move; hug him and start convos with him. when your friends tell him that you get mad, it might give him the impression that you dont like him anymore. although it might seem as a 'threat' to him to do something before you break up with him, he still might get the wrong message. he sounds like a nice time but hes just shy. give it some time. it might have something to do with not talking alot before you started going out that it might take him a while to get 'warmed up'
exx oooh! callie

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i like sex, my gf like sex, my name jake, gf dont like jake, how jake change name?

i dont understand what youre saying?!!

X0' KALLAYY

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My really close friend Amanda is obsessing over this hot kid at school. Every conversation is spent talking about that he looked at her! I mean he just looked at ya! She claims she "loves" him. She doesn't even know what that means! She has talked to the guy ONCE and all it was was him asking her what period an assembly was!! She says that was the best moment of her life! In her profile she writes all this love crap...its pathetic. How can I tell her she should stop claiming she's in "love" and focuz on whats really important??

no offence but its her life not yours. if the guy was a bad person then i could see your concern but its just a crush! she should be over him soon (maybe when she sees him with a girlfriend) until then just let her drool! lol! just kidding!

eEX-0Ooh CALLiE-FORNiA

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please help me i was sexualy abused when i was younger by my grandad and i hate him for it but i cant stay mad at him i still talk to him and everthing and then all the memories all come back to me i know i am not to blame but i just want to know why he done this to me but i am scared to ask him because he will not admit it and i want to be mad at him but i am the kind of person who forgives people no matter what they have done what can i do please help me.

i know someone who the same thing happened to her and she told her parents and took him to court. it sounds like you havent told your parents about it so i really think you should. they might not believe you since it was when you were younger and if it does go to court then it might be hard to have evidence if he wont admit it because it was so long ago anything that would have got inside of you isnt visable anymore. what he did is wrong and nasty and you cant just forgive someone as perverted as that. even if he is family.

eEX-0Oo KALAYY '

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i got my period about a year ago and i still have discharge even 2 or 3 weeks before my period comes..i know its not a yeast infection..is this normal?? 13/f

totally normal! dont worrie about it! happens all the time!

♥ KALEE ♥

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 years now. His father was diagnosed with cancer back in May and when the finally did catch it, it was too advanced.

Today they officially gave him 6 months to live.

My boyfriend was all out crying when he told me. I've known him since we were 12 (we're both 18 now) and I've never seen him cry.

His brother committed suicide in October and even then I saw no tears.

I don't know what to do here. I don't know what to say and I don't know how to act. You'd think that after I've known him and his family so long that I would. But I don't. Not even after his brother.

you cant do anything to make his dad better or make him feel good. just let him know that you are always gonna be there for him and you will help him through this and you love him and youll do anything he wants. make sure that he knows that you are there for him.

' KALAYY ♥

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Why is it so wrong to be chauvanistic, but OMG SO COOL AND TRENDY!!!!1! to be feminst?
Why is that it's wrong for a man to hit a woman, but if the chick hits the guy, it's considered cute?
Why can girls get away with calling guys every sexist name under the sun but if a man dare say the word chick (ZOMG!!!1!! NOT CHICK!!!! *gasp*) he is called a sexist, and that is not ok?

dont really get your question but i think i get the idea.. but still not sure. ohh and please no big words! lol! anyways some girls arent like that.. if a guy would hit a girl the girl would be like 'oww' not 'youre not supposed to hit me ima girl' either way the girl is most likely to hit the guy back anyways! well theres like certain 'expectations' that guys have like to pay for girls or open doors for them or all pull out a chair for them and all that good stuff but although it is polite.. some girls dont like it. they are independant people and they dont need guys ALWAYS and CONSTANTLY taking care of them. i dont let my bf do that crap for me.. even if he trys i dont let him. lol! sry i tryed to help on what i thought the question was! sorry if it wasnt what you were looking for!

'KALAYY

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what is the best medicine/pills for mentrual pains (im 13 and overweight if that matters)

midol!!!!

XO KALIE

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for the past 3 months ive been doing 100 situps a day. (2 diff. kinds) and they work a little, but i still have a little bit of fat i want to get rid of. anyone know any good exercises for a flatter stomach?

you could walk or run everyday. it gets harder since its winter and its cold outside tho! do it with a friend who lives in your neighorhood and it wont seem like that big of a deal.

XO KALIE

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14/f.. alright can I please have some help. i'm really not sure what to get my boyfriend for valentines day (he's 15) so if you can give me some help it'd really be appreciated.thanks. I'll rate you♥

alot of people said cologne and that is a fabulous idea! make the holiday seem special too. if you guys were together for christmas , make sure what you did for that celebration is different. lol!

XO KALIE

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Hello, I've looked up Limewire and everything I've read says it's legal. But I still can't help but wonder...
So does anyone know if it really is legal? Because I want to download it, I just don't know if I'll get in trouble for it.

its legal! i googled it for someone asking the same question a couple weeks back and every site that i went to said it was perfectly legal!

XO KALIE

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this has been botherign the heck out of me for a week and a half now and i finalyl decided i cant handle it anymore. last week we had a b-ball game and we won and our coach expected us to run 13 suicides because we missed 13 lay up but we still won( 34-12) on that sunday i got a cold and was sick barely could breathe or anything. i couldnt miss school because i was having finals and had tog o. i had my dad talk to my coach and tell her that i didnt feel to good and i didnt want to show up feelin all shitty and get everyone on the team sick. so anyways she told my dad that i didnt have to go to pratice if i didnt feel good. adn honestly i ahvent felt good all week i showed up to one pratice but only stayed for 1 and 1/2 hours out of a 3 hour pratice. since i havent been going girls have been talkin shit about me behind me back and it isnt a rumors bc i heard them say it. i dont if i should go to pratice or nto. coach makes me feel liek the worest player by puttin peopel that dont go to pratice on the team instead me when i used to go to all pratice and i used to stay after and pratice extra. i am not used to quieting i never have and i dont know if i should. someone please tell me what to do. i feel like i am wasting my time for nothign.
p.s.
the captin is a snoby ..... and i dont like her. o and i already tryed tellin coach about the girls and she just blew me off and didnt care.

its not good to quit. finish out the season and dont play for that team again. just think of what the girls say when you arent at one practice compared to what they would say if you quit. but you really shouldnt care what they think anyways because they sound like bitches and you know youre better then them. you seem like a good athlete and is deticated but you are just fed up with the situation. i would be too! i played club volleyball and i got switched onto a different coaches in the middle of the year and my first practice i had to run 9 suicides. and they for real are suicidal. no one quit that year but more then half the girls didnt come back the next year. put up with it until the seasons over. dont let people you hate stop you from doing something you love.

XO KALIE

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here is goes ...
i have a guy friend and he tells me what him and his gf do when theyr home alone ... and hes telling a lot of other people. well it wasnt that many people but it was people with "big mouths" and im also like good friends with his gf... i dont know if i should tell her what hes doing ... because its really none of my business and i dont want to see her reputation to get hurt. or should i talk to him and tell him to stop telling people ??? if i told one of them would the other get mad at me???ugh i feel like im being torn betwenn 2 friends!!!! HELP!
14/female

tell him to stop and also tell your friend that hes saying stuff and you didn't know if it was true/didnt know if she wanted people to know. she should thank you for caring about her rep instead of get mad at you!

XO KALIE

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Today at my job I got to work a bit early as I always do, but then got distracted by my boss. She told me to go to receiving ( which is in the very back of this huge store) and to find all the boxes for our department and then bring them back to our section. While I was busy doing this I totally forgot to sign in!!! It was 15 minutes past when my shift started. We are on a computer system. We have id cards, sort of like bank cards that we have to swipe on our till. So anyways I RAN to the nearest till to log in. Now I'm freaked out because she made a huge deal about a month ago because once I had logged out 1 minute early. She knows I was on time but she'll probablly forget, and when she gets the computer records she's going to have a hissy. I found out that she's leaving on a holiday for 9 days. What should I do? I didnt want to say anything to her today. Should I go to the store mangager and explain what happened?

definatly explain what happened. i mean you shouldnt get punished for howing up early and doing what your boss says right?!?!

XO KALIE

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If a friend is doing idiotic things that are endangering her health, how far must you go to stop them before it becomes "nagging"? Urge them to change their ways once? Twice? Get other friends and gang up on them? In the opinions of the great Advicenators, when do such actions go past the point of being helpful and instead become merely annoying and likely to irritate the person you're trying to help?

tell someone with more power (couldnt think of the right word) over her, like her parents. if its really dangerous then you shouldnt stop doing it. it might seem annoying to your friend but it could save her life depending on what shes doing.

XO KALIE

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I'm in love with this kid. No, I don't "think" I am, I KNOW I am. lol anyways..we've gone out about 4 or 5 times, we just split about a month ago. He said that he liked another girl that he always said he HATED. Anyways, I went to his football game the other night and they lost really bad so they were in a team huddle kind of thing and half his back and side were to me so he was supposed to be facing in the circle. But he kept turning his head a little and I knew for a fact he was looking at me. He did this a few times and I accidentally made eye contact with him almost twice.Don't you think that he's supposed to be listening to his coach instead of looking at me or something? Do you think maybe that he still has something for me? I dont know if I'm over reacting but I know if I didn't like a guy that much at my game I wouldn't be looking at him like he did to me. Any Ideas? thank yoouuu!

it does sound like hes likes you still. its hard to erase feelings for people. especially if you guys went out more then one time. talk to him about the game and see what was up with that. and he shoulda definatly been paying attention to the coach...! lol!

XO KALIE

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Im gay and I dont know how to tell my family. I overheard that my dad will kill someone in the family if he found out they were gay. I feel horrible. I know that my whole family would hate me. I already messed everything up with half of my friends. If any of my friends find out im gay no one will want to be near me. They'll hate me. Half of my friends already hate me from something a while ago. I feel horrible. I told one of my friends and they told me that they will always be my friend. I love her so much. I dont want to lose my friends. How do I tell them?

theres no way to tell them that will make them happy. you cant be something that youre not. stop pretending and dont be scared to be yourself. your parents have to accept you and they will love you no matter what. and if your friends will just drop you like that then they arent worth having anyway, they arent good friends. judgemental. if you already told one friend then think of how you told her and talk to her about how to tell your other friends.

XO KALIE

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