Question Posted Saturday January 14 2006, 12:25 am
I'm in love with this kid. No, I don't "think" I am, I KNOW I am. lol anyways..we've gone out about 4 or 5 times, we just split about a month ago. He said that he liked another girl that he always said he HATED. Anyways, I went to his football game the other night and they lost really bad so they were in a team huddle kind of thing and half his back and side were to me so he was supposed to be facing in the circle. But he kept turning his head a little and I knew for a fact he was looking at me. He did this a few times and I accidentally made eye contact with him almost twice.Don't you think that he's supposed to be listening to his coach instead of looking at me or something? Do you think maybe that he still has something for me? I dont know if I'm over reacting but I know if I didn't like a guy that much at my game I wouldn't be looking at him like he did to me. Any Ideas? thank yoouuu!<3
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? flyingtomato317 answered Saturday January 14 2006, 3:07 pm: well sweetie, we've got something to tell you. It might break your heart, or it might not. You may feel like you're in love, but you're not. It's more of an infatuation dealio. Trust us, we both went through this before and if you two were meant to be together, then he wouldn't keep breaking up with you. But now about the secretive looks he's giving you. He very well could be interested in you because you end up with someone, usually your feelings towards them aren't all gone so you are definitely in a sticky position, but just smile and be happy about it. If you want to know if he likes you or not, do some under cover work with his friends and see how much he actually likes this other girl. Good luck! We're always here for help. [ flyingtomato317's advice column | Ask flyingtomato317 A Question ]
H0LDM3CL0S3 answered Saturday January 14 2006, 11:07 am: it does sound like hes likes you still. its hard to erase feelings for people. especially if you guys went out more then one time. talk to him about the game and see what was up with that. and he shoulda definatly been paying attention to the coach...! lol!
buzzie answered Saturday January 14 2006, 1:14 am: Yes, I think from what you've described that he still has feelings for you. Why else would he be sneaking looks at you during a football game? But I also think he might be playing games with you too. If you broke up because he said he liked another girl that he always said he hated, well that sounds like just an excuse he used to dump you. Maybe he really likes you but got scared of how close you were getting-some guys are afraid of committment. He's also really young and still in highschool. My personal opinion is that maybe because he's a jock and on the football team, he was being pressured by his friends to dump you so he could "play the field".
The fact that he's still looking at you tells me that he still probably has feelings for you and is feeling quilty about dumping you.
But the more important thing is how do you feel about him? You need to talk to him, don't do it over the phone or email. Wait until you get him all alone without his jock friends. Tell him that you'd like another chance with him. See how he reacts. Remember to make sure you do this when the two of you are alone, and do it in person so you can see his facial expression and body language. I think your chances are pretty good. Go for it!
Xo_NeSmiiRa_Xo answered Saturday January 14 2006, 1:03 am: you need to sit down with this guy and tell hhim dat you love him.. and ask him if he still loves you.. and if he would ever go back out with out.. but from what i see at the football game it seems as if he still has feeling for you as well..
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