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turn in my jersey or not?
this has been botherign the heck out of me for a week and a half now and i finalyl decided i cant handle it anymore. last week we had a b-ball game and we won and our coach expected us to run 13 suicides because we missed 13 lay up but we still won( 34-12) on that sunday i got a cold and was sick barely could breathe or anything. i couldnt miss school because i was having finals and had tog o. i had my dad talk to my coach and tell her that i didnt feel to good and i didnt want to show up feelin all shitty and get everyone on the team sick. so anyways she told my dad that i didnt have to go to pratice if i didnt feel good. adn honestly i ahvent felt good all week i showed up to one pratice but only stayed for 1 and 1/2 hours out of a 3 hour pratice. since i havent been going girls have been talkin shit about me behind me back and it isnt a rumors bc i heard them say it. i dont if i should go to pratice or nto. coach makes me feel liek the worest player by puttin peopel that dont go to pratice on the team instead me when i used to go to all pratice and i used to stay after and pratice extra. i am not used to quieting i never have and i dont know if i should. someone please tell me what to do. i feel like i am wasting my time for nothign.
p.s.
the captin is a snoby ..... and i dont like her. o and i already tryed tellin coach about the girls and she just blew me off and didnt care.
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its your decision, if you feel like you ''cant handle'' it then quit. Forget what other people say about you, just tell them off (nicely lol).
on the other hand, think about it like i do...if you lose a game and have to run, run your hardest and show everyone else up. when your real tired after practice, that just shows you how hard you tried. You gotta have lots of heart and desire to get good, and even if your coach is harsh, hes just out there to teach. basketball is a team sport too, so, if its possible, try to become a leader on the team and make friends with them all
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I think that you should put off making this decision until you get better and catch up with practices. Even if you are sick, if you don't go to practice the coach has every right to let someone take your spot on the team until you get back on track. Basketball can be really rough, I played all through middle school and high school. It will get better I promise and so will you. Just be strong and keep your chin up. I think that you'll feel really awful if you quit. Whatever you decide I wish you the best of luck.
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If you quit, then you have let them win.
So, don't quit, finish out the season and show them that even though they are talking shit behind your back and your getting downplayed for getting sick missing practice. If you stick with it, then you show them you aren't a quiter and can take the crap they throw at you and not be affected like they want you to be.
Then after the season, don't play for the team again. Simple as that.
I hope this helps and you finish out strong!
-Ryan
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its not good to quit. finish out the season and dont play for that team again. just think of what the girls say when you arent at one practice compared to what they would say if you quit. but you really shouldnt care what they think anyways because they sound like bitches and you know youre better then them. you seem like a good athlete and is deticated but you are just fed up with the situation. i would be too! i played club volleyball and i got switched onto a different coaches in the middle of the year and my first practice i had to run 9 suicides. and they for real are suicidal. no one quit that year but more then half the girls didnt come back the next year. put up with it until the seasons over. dont let people you hate stop you from doing something you love.
XO KALIE
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i was in the situation before and I quit. It's really up to you tho. <3
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why would you turn your jersey in?? i dont think that you should quit because of someone that you dont like and you need to prove the coach wrong, and show her that you can really play and then she will feel stupid and put you in more, but liek tis not fair that you arent going to the practices because sometimes paractice makes perfect and i think that you should go but if your sick like alot then you shouldnt go, but dont give up and keep your head up dont ever let them see you frown =), good luck hope everything works out..
[♥]DiNA
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