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Alright .. There is this guy and I guess you can say we both like each other. We both have hearts in our AIM profile with kissy faces next to it. We talk on the phone at night and stuff like that. Well one of my friends came up to me and said! You didnt tell me you were going out with him!.. I was just like what? cause technicly we arent going out. Well then I found out that this girl name Alex told my friend I was going out with him (also I forgot he goes to a different school) .. well alexes boyfriend is like bestfriends with him. So my friend thinks that he might have told alexes boyfriend and alexes boyfriend told alex... but im not sure.. We arent officialy going out right? do you think he told people we were? does he even want people to know!?
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The only way to know what he is saying is to ask him. You need to do that. Ask him everything when you talk to him next. Explain what happened and see what he has to say. :)
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I CANNOT break up with anyone. I used to be able to but now I just CAN'T! I can't stand the fact that I'm breaking up with someone that I still want to be friends with. Usually I have my friends break up with the guy for me, but it just doesn't seem...I dunno. The guy I want to break up with now is awesome and I CAN'T and i mean Can't stand to break up with him but I have my reasons and I want to. Does anyone have any ideas of how I can dump him with out being mean? (link)
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It is always best to break up with someone yourself. They may have questions they want to ask. Its called closure. So, do it yourself.
There is no easy way to do it. Just tell them your reason even if it is I have no reason! Tell them you'd like to stay friends if that is true. Just do it. :)
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at my school theres some people that think im hot but they are more like the losers and the popular people ignore me and tell me im ugly.. why is this? but people outside my school think im pretty good looking ..why do people do this (link)
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Jealousy maybe. Could be they are just not very nice people. Anyway, you really need to stop seeing people in categories. The ones you call losers seem to be the least popular...that doesn't make them losers. I think you could find some really good friends there. Why not look? At least they seem to be nicer than the popular crowd. :)
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i used to like this guy a long time ago and i got over him. but now i think hes hitting on me. he slaps my butt and hugs me all the time. i've never had a boyfiend before so i dont feelcomfortable when he touches me. he acts all pervertive and stuf and wherever i go he goes and its annoying!hes had many girlfriends in the past and i dont know if hes doing this to other girls and not just me. please help. i dont know what to do anymore. he wont give me space to breathe! Help! (link)
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You need to tell him to back off. Like you really mean it! It doesn't matter if he likes you or not, if you aren't comfortable then you need to tell him so. If he doesn't stop then go to an adult that can give him the message.
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me and my boyfrind have been together for almost 10 months now. we never really argue, except when i talk to other males on the telephone. i tell him, they are only friends, but he feels uncomfortable with me talking to them. should i give in, and not talk to my friends or should i continue being friends with my male friends? besides i dont understand why he's uncomfortable anyways. (link)
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Is he there why you are talking to them on the phone? If so then don't talk to him why he is there. He deserves your attention when he is with you and has a right to be upset if you are giving your attention to someone else.
If he is not with you when you are talking to them, then just don't give him a run down of who you talk to on the phone.
Yes, you should continue to talk to all your friends. Nothing wrong with that if you are considerate of your boyfriends feelings while he is with you.
He is uncomfortable because they have your attention and he doesn't.
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Hey! Well there is this boy I really like and he is like perfect in every way and I really want to go out with him. Well, there is one problem....he is going out with my best friend. They keep ALMOST breaking up and then they don't. I really can't wait for them to break up(i kno that sounds really mean). Well even if they do break up I can't go out with him right away or my friend willl be hurt....so what do I do? I really want him.. (link)
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You wait. Hard to do I know but thats about all you can do. Do you think he date you after they break up? He may feel you are to much like your girlfriend. Work on your friendship now, before they ever break up so he will consider you later. :)
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look i kissed my boi_friend lastnight and me and him have been friends for a while and i felt like i kissed my brother. i dont no what i should do i asked one of my friends and she said that i should break up w/ him what should i do! (link)
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Your friend might be right. Give it another chance and if you feel the same then just remain friends with him. Not all our guy friends can be boyfriend material! :)
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I have never had any guys that have really liked me except for one. And I don't mean to sound self cenetered or anything but I am pretty. I have so many friends that are guys too, and they always say I'm hot. But everytime I like a guy I always end up getting hurt. Like I like a person and they don't like me or someone likes me and then when I finally like them they don't like me anymore. Is there any way I can prevent myself from getting hurt so much? (link)
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Not really. Its just a part of it I'm afraid. When you find someone that you really like and who likes you back...kinda makes it worth all the hurt. Just keep trying and you'll find they right guy for you. :)
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okay well my boyfriend loves me and im not sure if i lvooe him like sometimes i reallly do and sometimes its iffy! we barely ever see eachother because we both play for select teams! or im with my family in branson or illinois! well tell me what to do pleeeaaassee!!! (link)
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Don't rush it. People like to throw the word love around a lot like it is meaningless. You will know if and when you are in love with him. Until then just enjoy dating him. Love is not required. :)
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ok i went to this dance with my guy friend. first off when we were dancing he started grinding wiht me and then with slow dancing we were dancing really my face was right against his. also when we were grinding there was a point where he kind of backed off. why was that do you think?? and do you think he likes me?? Should i tell him i like him?? (link)
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He probably got a bit aroused by all that grinding. Maybe didn't want you to know it. I think he probably likes you. If you like him by all means say something. :)
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ok...me and this guy broke up like 4 months ago. and scince then i have still been in love with him. but he dosent even think i like him more than a freind. ok newayz...scince we broke up he hasnt shown any signs watsoever of still liking me.but then all of the sudden out of the blue last night hes like i love you so much and he was just gushing about how much he loved me. is this for real? or is he just being stupid and getting my hopes up? wat should i do? (link)
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Ask him. Could be hes had a change of heart abouot breaking up. You won't know unless you ask him. Best to do it in person so you can see his face. :)
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omg i was so surprised when my bf said it was okay that i wanna take it slow and we can go at my pace..but i dont have a pace..so wut exactly is to slow to go with a guy without them getting annoyed or thinking ur not ready for the relationship or ur too immature? (link)
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You just don't do anything you are uncomfortable with. Even if it takes years! If he cares he will still be waiting with you. Don't rush it. :)
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Well this guy I have liked for a while seemed like he liked me to, but all that time he had a girlfriend. Now after getting my heart broken and crying, I want to meet new guys or somehow get him to like me again. Does anyone know of where I could meet new guys and how I could just forget about Cam (the guy I used to like)? If you really give me your best advice, I'll rate high! (link)
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You need to get over Cam. He has already proven himself to be dishonest by leading you on while he had a girlfriend.
You can meet guys anywhere you go! Think of your favorite places and meet guys there that share your intrests. Swimming, library, school, church, etc. They are out there, go find someone! :)
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Okay, Well there is this guy let's bane him Billy I went out witih him 3 times already. And He has a girlfriend let's name her Mary. Well I hung out with Billy and I am best friends with him, he is also my ex-boyfriend of numerous times (3 or 4) We started to hangout out of school agian. I never truely got over him. Well He recently told me, that he is starting to have feelings for me agian. And He is going to break up with his girlfriend. I feel really bad But I love him. What should I do? Should I go with him? Should we tell her? (link)
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If he wants to break up with his girlfriend then hes the one that needs to tell her what he feels is right.
I don't know if you should go out with him or not. The track record you guys have isn't that good. If you want it to last you need to figure out why you've broken up so many times in the past and get those things fixed. If you don't then you will probably just break up again. :)
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Okay I really like this guy, Albert. He's one of my best friends. He tells me alot of things, he trusts me alot. My friend says me and him are getting closer and closer and that something will happen if he breaks up with Emma (his girlfriend) but she doesn’t know that I like him. Thats the problem. I really like him but he has a girlfriend. 2 of my friends know that I like him. Him and I do everything together in class, like we sit together in class and all. His girlfriend only likes him, she doesnt love him, but Albert says he loves her. Im not sure though and my friend thinks that he’s hiding behind her but really likes me. Everytime I say something he ALWAYS looks at it the gross way. Like if I accidently touch someone’s hand he goes “Someone wants to get it on” and that stuff. At a party, he put his arm around me but just playing (not seriously). And once in class I was turning around to face the teacher and my knee’s touched his knee’s and he did this funny look at me. Is there something wrong with him or does he like me? Coz he says he loves his girlfriend. Oh and his girlfriend is one of my good friends. (link)
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I think you have to take him at his word. If he says he loves his girlfriend then he probably does. He likes you as a friend for now. If he ever breaks up with Emma then you may have a shot, but for now just be a good friend. :)
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Well, there is this girl that I'm okay friends with, but now don't really like her that much anymore. My boyfriend is starting to hang out with her more and talk to her more. Sometimes talking to her more on AOL than me. While I was away for two weeks my boyfriend went on a choir trip to Six Flags. Ashley (the girl that I'm okay friends with) and my boyfriend hung out the whole time. IE. Rode rides together, walked together, got food and ate it together. That doesn't make you're girlfriend feel very good, but now she's in his info. It's an inside joke with her, but surprisingly it's about the same lenght as me in his info. Well, my whole info is about him. Am I being stupid to be mad, that's what he said. (link)
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I don't think you are being stupid. I think it sounds like a reasonable reaction. Talk to him and ask him what is up with him and Ashley. :)
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Okay i need advice!My school is stupid because when a girl dates a boy evryone knows and starts to sread rumors and it is so stupid because when they see there boyfriend they freak out and like hide its so aggervating!!! What should i tell them?? (link)
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Everyone wants to know who is dating who. They like gossip. That's why all those shows on celebrities are so popular! There is no sense hiding, they will find it out and talk anyway. If they are ashamed of who they are dating maybe they should break up and stop hiding. :)
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My friend's first and only boyfriend is now in my youth gruop and was hitting on me all through the session, i tried to hint that i wasnt interested, but he still follows me around and stuff, and now my friend (his ex) hates me, thinking i hit on him just to get back at her for something, i try to tell her what happened but she refuses to listen, help me? (link)
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Give her a little time. Once she gets over him a little more she will probably be more able to listen to the truth. Shes just got hurt feelings at the moment and is looking for someone other than him to blame. :)
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Ok et me see how I can make this short. I have this bestfriend and he is so sweet! I mean I liked him since the first day I saw him. But He didnt know. come to find out on the last week of school he likes me to! So we dated for two days. Then I broke up with him. IT was hard to date him bc if fellt like my brother. And I mean I didnt like his reputation. So I broke up with him. Therewas 3 days left of school and everyone and him told me he was gonig to move to his grannies house to go to the same Highschool as me and live closer to me bc I moved. And i Just feltso bad. So on the last day I planned to tell hiM I was sorry and I wanted him back. Ididnt go the last day bc I moved. It sucked! well yesterday I talked to him on the phone and I found out hes going out with one of his ex gfs and he got her pregnant again. So I still wanna tell him but now I dont ant him to leave her. What should I do? plz I rate so high if yo even just give me a short answer Ill give you a 3-5 plz!
help!!!!!!
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Did I read you right that he got his ex pregnant "AGAIN"? If so then I think you should leave well enough alone. You can be friends with him but he really needs to take responsibility for his actions elsewhere. Sounds like he has to much baggage. You don't need all that at your age. :)
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how would you go about breaking a bone but it needs to work anything will do thanks (link)
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Are you nuts? Really, are you? You don't want to break a bone. It is painful. If you really break one and have to get screws put in the bone you're really in trouble. They unscrew them without anesthesia and you'll be screaming your lungs out. Are you nuts? Sorry, I'm dumbfounded.
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