okay well my boyfriend loves me and im not sure if i lvooe him like sometimes i reallly do and sometimes its iffy! we barely ever see eachother because we both play for select teams! or im with my family in branson or illinois! well tell me what to do pleeeaaassee!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? BBALLGURL67 answered Saturday June 18 2005, 10:13 am: ok, welll you cant always control your feelings.....but maybe your feeling this way because you two cant always get alone time a ton or watever....but talk on the phone at least whenever u cam or AIM.... but i hate to say his but maybe you were just ment to be friends because maybe y your feeling this way (iffy sumtimes) is because you dont have the same feelings you did when you first met and they are not as strong...but i say try the first solution I gave you and see if seeing or talking to him more wld help change those feelings to stronger ones......
hope I helped
henderson09 answered Saturday June 18 2005, 9:33 am: When you don't get to see each other, do you miss him A LOT? if you do that shows that you care for him a lot. also, imagine if he broke up with you, would you be crushed? that would prove how you really feel. but sometimes when you imagine things they come out different then they really would, but that SHOULD help. [ henderson09's advice column | Ask henderson09 A Question ]
mooch789 answered Thursday June 16 2005, 5:11 pm: Long distance relationships are tough. Next time you see him, explain to him you don't feel the same way about him. [ mooch789's advice column | Ask mooch789 A Question ]
shake answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 5:59 pm: I would say you're dumb. The only reason you dont see him is because you play for select teams. [ shake's advice column | Ask shake A Question ]
karenR answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 4:55 pm: Don't rush it. People like to throw the word love around a lot like it is meaningless. You will know if and when you are in love with him. Until then just enjoy dating him. Love is not required. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
needadvice answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 2:59 pm: maybe it's because of your untseady relationship and you need to be with someone who you can be close with all the time and your okay with by going away [ needadvice's advice column | Ask needadvice A Question ]
*ashlee* answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 2:40 pm: you can love him and not be IN LOVE with him. you just need to ask yourself which it is, and wether or not he is who you want to be with. is he something you will settle for or do you want something else. seeing eachother has nothing to do with anything besides just that, you dont see eachother. apparently "absence makes the heart grow fonder." this is something you should discuss with him. do what you feel you need to do. [ *ashlee*'s advice column | Ask *ashlee* A Question ]
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