i used to like this guy a long time ago and i got over him. but now i think hes hitting on me. he slaps my butt and hugs me all the time. i've never had a boyfiend before so i dont feelcomfortable when he touches me. he acts all pervertive and stuf and wherever i go he goes and its annoying!hes had many girlfriends in the past and i dont know if hes doing this to other girls and not just me. please help. i dont know what to do anymore. he wont give me space to breathe! Help!
karenR answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 5:18 pm: You need to tell him to back off. Like you really mean it! It doesn't matter if he likes you or not, if you aren't comfortable then you need to tell him so. If he doesn't stop then go to an adult that can give him the message. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
ilovepink101 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 10:23 am: girl you need to go talk to some body about this..he slaps your butt..o pleassse...you dont ever let anyone do that to you!!you respect your body..dont let boys hit on ir like that..he is such a frako..those are the kinda ones who are going to beacome rapers..so you better solve it now before it gets real serious..and no im not trying to scare you..but next time anyone does that yuo comfront themm and tell them whos boss...because i no its not them..and you better start respecting your body more..sorry so harsh....it just disgustie me how boys out there can do that..you no why hes doing it right??because he wonts you to like him again..so you dont fall in his traps you satnd up for you self!!hope i helped..
love always,
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lilaquidas18 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 8:56 am: I used to go through that same thing with guys I got so tired of them smacking my ass and 4 them talking so nasty to me its like how old are you gus again? just let him know that your sick of it and he needs to stop or you can always scare him and tell him that you can get him for harrassment and trust me he wont do it again. Hope I helped rate me [ lilaquidas18's advice column | Ask lilaquidas18 A Question ]
Peachgirly answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 4:25 am: I've had a situation like this before. But, when I asked other girls they told me that it was just his way of flirting and hes just like that. And the girls were used to it. You should tell him to back off whenever he touches you and just be really mean. Like the next time he touches you say something like wtf? what the hell is your f-ing problem? Or you can just confront him telling him to stop following you and touching you. If he doesn't stop then tell one of your teachers or your guidance counseler. ♥ Peachgirly [ Peachgirly's advice column | Ask Peachgirly A Question ]
IPIiINIkI_my_anti_drug answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 2:39 am: Well he is deff. a stalker. If you dont like it then jsut tell him to stop but like in a lafing way be like stop hahaha stop it.. If you want to find out if he is doing this to other girls ask around. Ps he isnt woth your time.
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