My friend's first and only boyfriend is now in my youth gruop and was hitting on me all through the session, i tried to hint that i wasnt interested, but he still follows me around and stuff, and now my friend (his ex) hates me, thinking i hit on him just to get back at her for something, i try to tell her what happened but she refuses to listen, help me?
LoveNJstyle answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 1:02 pm: tell your friend what really happened...text or call her, tell her online ..ANYTHING! guys will do that and it seems like theres nothing you can do to get rid of them. dont try doing anything stupid...trust me, it will usually confuse them and theyll end up thinkin you like them.
an idea to tell you friend is send an email ike it was to someone else but "accidently" send it to your friend telling someone bout how the guy was hitting on you and you didnt wanna hurt your friend or somthing or ask the person what you should do and make it seem all good. if you need a better exp. let me know. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
monkeygrl05 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 10:51 am: i think you should ask him if he will talk to her about it and tell him what he should tell her or if she wont listen to him you could find someone that is friends with you and her and ask her to tlak to her for you [ monkeygrl05's advice column | Ask monkeygrl05 A Question ]
Van_10 answered Wednesday June 15 2005, 10:47 am: hi there
i am sorry for your pain, well you'll going have to talk to her sooner or later and let her know what's up.
why didnt you tell her when you found out that he was in your youth group
my idvise is to talk to her and be honest , maybe the boyfriend is trying to come between two of you
if she i your bestriend i think she owes you that much an explanation to put her mind and rest
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