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i otld this kid that i liked him and he has a gf. Now hes saying hes gonna break up with her and then he started asking me all these nasty questions like "if we went out could we have sex" and "do you shave" and "would u let me finger you" and then i told him that no i wouldnt have sex with him and when i told him that and then hes like "dude this isnt even him bye" and then they got off but i kno it was him and now im afraid he'll tell everyone PLEASE HELP ME ASAP!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Weather it was him or one of his sicko friends it doesn't really matter. They had to have found out from someone if it WASN"T him. I think you forget the guy and find someone a little more mature than he is. If he calls and starts talking to you that way again. Get yourself a whistle and blow it into the phone. Or if you can do that loud whistle with your fingers do that. Hangs 'em right up. :)
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ok here the thing.this one girl that i like is on the war path with me.she doesn't talk to me & makes stuff up about me.but i really like her. so wat do i do? do i say the heck with her or wat?
HELP A POOR BROTHER OUT!!
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I think you should find out what he problem is for starters. Why is she on the war path? Did you unwittingly piss her off somehow? Get to the bottom of that. Then, once you fix that little problem ask her out (make sure she is smiling first!). If she continues to make stuff up about you and stays on the war path then I'd look elsewhere for someone a little nicer to know! :)
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most people say im too young to be in love, but there's this guy, i've known him for as long as i can remember.he's one of my really good friends.i find myself daydreaming about him all the time. i get all these weird emotions around him. lik when he smiles, and laughs. when he looks at me with his soft blue eyes.i want to tell him but i dont no, could it mess up our friendship??wat should i do? tell him? or keep it to myself? (link)
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It will only mess up your friendship if you let it. I think you need to ask him how he feels about you. If the feeling is mutual then give it a try. Agree up front that if either feels to brotherly or sisterly about the relationship you will just remain friends. :)
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Well my brother is 18 just turned recently and he has this friend he is also 18 or 17 not sure yet.Well he is so nice and really understanding. I can talk to him just about anything.He is like one of my brothers bestfriend and he is so cool. I like him very much i'm about to turn 15 I don't know if i should stay quiet about it and keep it as a crush or let him know.Or how can i get tips if he likes me or not. plz help thanks. (link)
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His being 18 and you being 15 could pose a problem. If you date and things get heavy he could face going to jail for contributing to the delinquency of a minor ( for starters). I think you'll just have to be friends for about 3 more years. Sorry.
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there is this guy and ive known him for 2yrs and we've always been close as freinds like i can help him with problems and vice versa but we always flirt and i think he likes me hes been droping signals and i think i like him to. schools out and i dont see him as much but when we talk or hang out we flirt im goin to a party next week i think he'll be there--could u tell em somthings i could do to really send the message (link)
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I think you just need to tell him how you feel about him. If hes flirting you know that he at least likes you some. Maybe hes wondering the same thing about you! Talk to him at the party and find out for sure. :)
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This guy I know and I have had a really weird relationship...
When he met me, he told me I was fit and was flirting with me for a few weeks. Then he got a girlfriend and forgot that I existed.
The day that he split up with his girlfriend,he came and was talking to me...but I just got a boyfriend so I didn't exist again.
Then, a while after I became single again, his friend asked me out. I said yes, but during the VERY short "relationship", this guy paid more attention to me than my boyfriend did. Got dumped by said boyfriend...
Then this guy started flirting like hell with me again. I got off with him once (drunk), and now I don't exist again.
What is WITH this guy? (link)
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Why don't you ask him? Just tell him like you did here and say hes sending some pretty mixed signals. You'll have an answer one way or the other! :)
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What the hell is a break...I am a 16 year old female and my boyfriend(or w/e hes called at the moment is 18) and he said that i hurt him (inside on this is that...we were talking and he said i dont trust him but i really do trust him i just made a joke after he said it saying i didnt), and that he really wants things to work, but we are going to go on a break for this week and then talk and see where we stand as a couple and what we want to do about the realtionship. Im really hurting, i cry all the time, and i want to stop...what should i do to stop the pain? What is a break? and how can i save the realtionship?? GUYS HELP PLEASE (link)
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Sounds like he wants a week to think things over and see if he truly wants to continue dating you. Doesn't mean he is going to break up necessarily. I think you should sit down and write him a long letter letting him know how you feel about him and give it to him BEFORE he makes a decision. By the way, be sure you talk to him at the end of the week so you don't drift apart due to lack of communication. Good luck to you! :)
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i had this boyfriend and after about 2 months I broke up with him because i thought i didnt like him anymore!but then i started realizing i do but before i had a chance to tell him, he got a new girlfriend!now i am really jealous and i just can't get over it!!!!!how can i?help!!!! (link)
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I think you need to tell him how you feel. You may have to wait until the current girlfriend is history though.
The only other option is to go out and find another guy to turn your attention to. Hope it works out for you. :)
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umm I’m turning 16 in a couple of months and I haven’t really had a real boyfriend. I mean I did when I was in 6th grade and only for a week and we did nothing it was a waste. I have never had my real kiss but all my friends have and they think I have too even my best friend thinks so. Also all the guys I talk to think I have to because I’m very flirty. I never really set my friends right about all this because I was scared to tell them. But I’m going into freshman year and I haven’t had a boyfriend, my real kiss or anything and I’m really sad about that im also scared to kiss someone now because i could be bad at it and that scares me a little. I don’t know what to do. Guys have asked me out and guys have hit on me but I just never liked those guys that have. My question is: what is my problem is there anything wrong with me?? and I’m VERY picky about guys if that helps u answer my question. thanks for the help.
P.S Sorry that it is so long I'll rate high thanks!!
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There is nothing wrong with being picky about the guys you go out with. As a matter of fact its the way to be. I think a lot of girls just date someone to say they have a boyfriend anyway.
Don't worry about the kissing part. When it happens you will do fine. It just sort of happens and I don't think there is a right or wrong way to do it. Well, unless you slobber all over the guy or something! Not likely.
Let your friends think what they will. Your going to meet the right guy for you soon and get your kiss. :)
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ok see im 16/f and my mom hates my boyfriend. like when we first started talkin she was ok then out of no where she hated him. then she changed her mind and let me go to his moms wedding reception. so we were ok. then he called me a fag on the answering machine(just playing around)she got upset he apologized and we were ok now she hates him and wont let him call my house, so he calls my cell. i love this kid and he loves me but shes messing things up. what should i do? (link)
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Sounds like you need to talk to her and see what she has against the guy. Tell her she needs to stop with the roller coastering because she's driving you nuts. :)
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ok so..i broke up w/ my bf cuz his friends threaten me and fight w/ me and stuff and i just couldnt take it anymore..and now i think it was a bad idea to break up w/ him..wat should i do? (link)
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What kind of boyfriend allows his friends to threaten you? Not a good one I don't think. You did the right thing. If you want to go out with him again make sure he keeps his friends on a leash or it will never work. :)
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my boyfriend is the type of guy to cheat on his girlfriend. so me and him both have myspace accounts.. we both know the passwords to eachothers and everything. today, i was curious to see who he's been talking to because i don't really trust him. i saw him saying stuff to a couple girls and i'm really pissed. i don't know what to say to him, because i know if he found out i went on his account, he'll be mad at me. so what do i do? i can't just keep this in, and i know that i shouldn't of went on his name but i want to know if he's doing stuff behind my back.. help! (link)
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If you don't trust him then you need to get out of the relationship. Trust is very big when it comes to a relationship and if you don't have it in each other there is really no point in continuing.
Something said in a conversation is not cheating. Unless he actually went out and dated someone else behind your back then what he wrote shouldn't make a big difference.
You need to have a long talk with him about how you feel. If you want a relationship with this guy then you have to learn to trust each other. He may get mad because you went into his site, then again, if he were trying to hide anything why would he have given you his password? Talk to him. :)
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when i was younger i feel in love with this guy.we broke up and not too long after he moved.that was about three years ago.now he is back in my life.we dont go together but we still kiss and stuff.but now we both are in relationships with other people.and this new guy is really great,but he doesnt compare to the other.when i kiss him i feel nothing.and if i could i would go back with the other guy,but i dont no what to say to him.it seem like we both moved on buti really didnt and sometimes i feel like he didnt either.how could i tell him my feelings?????? (link)
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You just sit down with him sometime when you are alone and explain what you feel. See if he feels the same. If he does then you need to break up with the guy you are with a pursue a relationship with him. :)
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do girls where condoms? (link)
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No. Only guys can wear condoms. Girls should maybe buy them though and keep some handy if they think something might happen between them and a boy. Always be prepared to protect yourself. :)
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Okay well recently i started dating my brothers best friend. We're in the mountains right now. Well earlier today, we were snow boarding, and we both fell because well were like that. So anyway the people we were with, [my brother, his girlfriend, his friend, and his friends friend] told us to go to the cabin. so we did, and we fell asleep. so later everyone woke us up when they came back. so we were just sitting there, bored. he asked what i wanted to watch, cuz we decided to watch a DVD. so i was just joking around, and i said the notebook. so he told me to put it in. that surprised me and i told him it was a chick flick. he told me that was okay because he loved me and its what i wanted to watch. So i kissed him and he got me some hott chocolate. So we watched the movie, and at the end he cried. I mean, i did too, but i just thought it was so cute that he cried! i mean, he wasnt bawling or anything, just a tear rolling down his cheek. the girls thought that that was just stupid. And then another time, at his basketball game, we were fighting at half time, for some stupid reason, i cant remember why. And i left and walked out into the parking lot and when he was supposed to be practicing he was talking to me. Anyway, i think he really loves me, and i kmow i love him. But whenever i say this my brother says that its just a spur of the moment thing. Why do you think hes saying this and how can i get him to stop saying it? (link)
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He's just saying it because he is your brother and they are all warped when it comes to sisters.
Since your boyfriend is his best friend...don't discuss them with each other. Keep the boyfriend stuff private between the two of you. :)
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I've loved the same guy for a very long time now and I've made it clear on several occasions that i did. i don't like to be pushy so I just act as his friend.. I love him so much though.. What do I do? (link)
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If you've made it clear enough you shouldn't have to keep after him about it. Maybe he just doesn't feel the same. Keep up the friendship and maybe something will come of it later on. :)
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My boyfriend and I broke up about 5 weeks ago and i had BIG problems getting over him because we really really loved eachother and then he broke it off saying "I'm not ready to b attached to someone right not" after 4 months. I'm not even sure if I'm totally over him now, but there's this guy who I've known since kindergarden who I think i like, but not just as a rebound thing. The thing is that he has a girlfriend, but she's moving to chicago this summer so they're gonna break it off. What should I do: go on liking him because he's an amazign guy and its REALLY helping me take the sting out of the old boyfriend...or just 4get about it. and if i should still like him, shoudl i tell him or do anything? (link)
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If you like him I don't so any harm in letting him know about it after the girlfriend is gone. Will take the sting out of that for him. Be careful YOU don't become the rebound fling though. :)
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OK i have like all these guys wanting me.. I have guy 1 that lives right around the corner from me I dated him before but nothing serious cause he was the player type..but now we are just the best of friends and his Mom and sister love me like im part of the family. Then i have this other guy 2 that i've known for like 2 years but he lives far from me but he really really loves me. Then this guy 3 i been with for 10 months and i absoulty love him and we both lost our virginity to each other, but hes talking to another girl right now but i know he still loves me, but i'm the type of girl to have fun so..i wanna have fun. whatguy to choose and have fun with? should i be patient and wait for guy 3 or have fun with guy 1? or wait for the faithful guy 2? (link)
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You know there isn't any reason why you have to strap yourself with any one guy. You could date them all until one or the other of them became someone really special to you. I know people don't do that much any more, but it would keep you from having to pick just one right away. :)
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ok me & my gf has beenin planing to go out for a long time now. i was wondering where a good place to take her would be?
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Movies, out to eat, a picnic, goofy golf, arcade, zoo. She will probably go wherever you decide to take her. Have fun! :)
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well i was walking home from school and an old man came up to me he groped me so i punched him in his nose it was the first thing that came into my head,and it started bleeding he told me he was going to press charges what should i do? (link)
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Don't worry about it. I doubt he wants to get in trouble for groping you so I don't think he is going to press charges. If for some reason he does...well, press charges on him for groping you. You probably should file a police report anyway, then it will be on record if he does try to press charges. I honestly don't think he will though. :)
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