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Never had a boyfriend or my real kiss!! HELP!!
umm I’m turning 16 in a couple of months and I haven’t really had a real boyfriend. I mean I did when I was in 6th grade and only for a week and we did nothing it was a waste. I have never had my real kiss but all my friends have and they think I have too even my best friend thinks so. Also all the guys I talk to think I have to because I’m very flirty. I never really set my friends right about all this because I was scared to tell them. But I’m going into freshman year and I haven’t had a boyfriend, my real kiss or anything and I’m really sad about that im also scared to kiss someone now because i could be bad at it and that scares me a little. I don’t know what to do. Guys have asked me out and guys have hit on me but I just never liked those guys that have. My question is: what is my problem is there anything wrong with me?? and I’m VERY picky about guys if that helps u answer my question. thanks for the help.
P.S Sorry that it is so long I'll rate high thanks!!
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hey the same thing kinda happened with me but i made sure my first kiss was with this boy who had never kissed anyone before so we was both bad and i still remember it to today its kinda funny when i look back it was only last year i got my first kiss i am 16!!Don't worry about it i am sure the perfect boy will come along soon a first kiss you always remember so make sure its someone you like.I used to be so scared of kissing and i was so scared that i rejected my first bfs kiss so many times until i just kissed him.Don't worry about being bad i thought i was so bad at kissing but to be honest i don't think if the boy likes you he will care if you are bad at kissing.Wait for the boy to kiss you and then its less scary!!!there is nothing wrong with you don't worry i am sure when a boy you like goes to kiss you,you will be fine good luck lv sweetcornxx
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you dont have a problem you just know what you want and dont settle for less and there isnt much wrong with that just try to think of one person who fits all of those qualities it probably rare you will find someone my advice to you would be set your standards a little lower no guy is perfect they all have their imperfections but you can find one whos near perfect and you will never know if you are a good kisser unless you give it a try but dont go and give your first kiss to just any guy you see make sure its special..and the whole never having a boyfriend really isnt bad because well think about all the good times you had flirting with other guys come on being single isnt that bad..telling your friends you havent kissed a guy before isnt bad either some of them probably havent and they say they have because they feel the same way as you do..hope i helped
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Aww!! Absolutely NOTHING is "wRong" with you!! Being picky isn't always a bad thing; you need to make shoRe you'Re with someone who will be honest, loyal, and good to you. Just make shoRe you don't WAY oveR do it and cheat youRself out of quality time with an amazing peRson!! And you'Re only 15!! I have many fRiends who aRe 16 - AND OLDER and they STILL haven't kissed anyone!!! Honestly, if you'Re woRRied that you may be "behind" oR something theRe's no Reason you should woRRie about this. Just because SOMEONE else has done ceRtain things does NOT mean you should have alReady done them also!! You have PLENTY of time still. I know *TONS* and *TONS* of people who aRe aRound 20-21, and have still neveR even held hands with someone. But be it 13, 17, oR 20... it's not as big of a deal as you might assume. Hopefully this bRings you some ReassuRance!! :)
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There is nothing wrong with being picky about the guys you go out with. As a matter of fact its the way to be. I think a lot of girls just date someone to say they have a boyfriend anyway.
Don't worry about the kissing part. When it happens you will do fine. It just sort of happens and I don't think there is a right or wrong way to do it. Well, unless you slobber all over the guy or something! Not likely.
Let your friends think what they will. Your going to meet the right guy for you soon and get your kiss. :)
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K,
I'm 15 too and I've never had a boyfriend/ kiss. Wait for the right guy, he'll come along.
~*Tiffany*~
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You shouldnt worry about if you had a real boyfriend or even a real kiss.. The first kiss is something that you will want to remember for ever.And your first real boyfriend is the one that you will never forget.Dont worry there will be that special someone that will come into your life and you will be the most happiest person a live so dont think that there is anything wrong with you.
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hey hey hey i can completly relate to you to this question i fifteen almost sixteen til i actually had my first real relationship and first kiss.. yea i was pretty scared and thought id mess up and be bad at it but all i did is go along with what he did when he kissed me.. and yes im also very very picky about guys too not looks but mainly their personality and i always want to get to know a guy before going with them.. i have stuck with my standards and always will.. i think if you have your own set of standards in what you want in a guy stick to em.. or you'll always run into bad relationships.. what ever you do dont just jump into a relationship just so you get a first kiss and a boyfriend cause im sure you want your first actual kiss to be special.. so if time is needed then let it be.. ♥ Dez
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First: NOTHING IS WRONG WITH YOU! You have standards, something most people lack.
Now for the advice: Don't be scared. People with tons of kissing experience can still be wretched. Experience is not what makes you a good or bad kisser. What is important is that you pay attention to your partner and more or less copy what they are doing. If it is bad it is most likely because they have no idea what they are doing either. As you kiss more and more people you will develop your own technique.
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i kno alot of people with the same situation i am 13 [[ a week ]] so i may not be able to help to much. ok wat to do is ask a friend of urs to get you set up with a guy but ask her to sho pics first or at least describe him. that always works, and let the realationship go, if u get kissed you get kissed, if you dont you dont
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