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Ok, so theres a guy in my class named *Justin* (name changed) and I HATE him. He always makes fun of me liking his best friend, he stinks like Michael Jackson's butt, and he always tries to do things to humiliate me. I wanna get revenge on him, you know, give him a taste of his own medicine. But..I dont have a flamethrower or a pistol or anything. I'm on a budget. so PLEASE HELP ME!
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VOODOO.DOLLS (link)
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Voodoo Dolls,
Stay away from Voodoo!! You're sick of Justin making fun of you, but you probably don't know why he keeps on doing it, do you? You probably make it very clear that you do not like what he's doing, you don't like it that he's making fun of you. (no one likes to be made fun of) And you want to get revenge. Does that make sense according to the Golden Rule? "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you". Now, while he's making fun of you, according to the Golden Rule, you can make fun of him too. But by doing that, he has a right to make fun of you right back.. and if you get revenge, he has the right to get revenge on you. That's not what you want. It's good that you don't have a flamethrower, but I have a pistol.. and a rifle.. and a shotgun.. and.. ok, but that's not the point. Just ignore him. That's his medicine. Justin gets pleasure out of making fun of you because you don't like it! If you make it clear that you could care less, he'll eventually leave you alone. You say, "He always makes fun of me liking his best friend...", enhance that! Say, "so? You've got a nice best friend, it's my business if I like him or not, thanks." Or you could just ignore him. Don't say anything back, don't look at him, pretend he doesn't exist. (I know how hard this is, I've dealt with this before) Tell someone (teacher, parent) about him teasing you, and maybe they can (and/or will) help you with this problem. Give it to God. He'll know what to do! God bless
-FunnyCide
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is it possible to be to "nice"? like here is an example: i can't tell someone they are annoying cause im afriad it mite hurt their feelings... or ... i can't hang out with more than one friend (that's a girl) cause i think i might ignore one of them... it bothers me sometimes
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Ok, I'm not sure whether you're a guy or a girl, but hey, that's ok. It's actually good that you don't want to hurt their feelings, even if the person is really annoying. You wouldn't want someone to tell you that you're annoying (even if you were driving them crazy!), so you probably shouldn't tell them. I can understand why it would bother you that you can't hang out with more than one girl at a time, because you might leave one of them out. It's natural to want to be nice to all partys, but the silly cliche is true: "Three's a crowd". Because two start hanging out, and the third feels left out, no matter how hard you try to include everyone. It's better to hang out in even numbers because then you've got people hanging out with each other, and no one feels left out. (I know how it is to feel left out, it's not cool) You seem like a "nice" person, because of your question. Don't worry about it. If it bothers you, you should talk to God. (Talk to God anyway, but talk about this specifically) Take it to the head man, He'll tell you everything you need to know. God bless
-FunnyCide
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well, tell me please how to make a girl love you truly madly deeply and sincerely till the eternity?
apart from sex? what other things impresses a girl for long? (link)
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Well, I'm a girl, and I think it's really, really sweet when a guy will call you just to talk. Don't have sex with this girl that you love! It's not worth it, and what if she isn't ready? Even if she says she is, she might not be, and premarital sex just isn't a good idea anyway. (baby...) Well, if you want this girl to love you forever, why don't you make it clear that you love her? Tell her that you love her! She will go nuts for that. (respectively) That is so sweet that you want to make a girl love you that much!! (and that you love her that much too!) That is amazing! Some may say that gifts are what will win a girl over, but I don't think so. Being sweet to her, telling her that she looks nice, telling her that you love her. On her birthday, call her just to say, "Happy birthday, sweet heart! I love you." That would probably make her heart sing! (it would make mine anyway) So, I hope this has helped you, I don't know what else to say, other than to say to call her often, talk about anything she wants to talk about... yeah. Talk to God, He'll give you some ideas! God bless
-FunnyCide
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I am 13 and in the 8th grade. I am homeschooled and want to go back to school. I have been homeschooled since I was in the 6th grade (just in time to start Jr.High). I miss getting to hang out with all my friends from 5th grade. Yes, I've made friends through homeschool but it just not the same. I don't live a normal life. I mean I never have homework, i don't have to get up as early as my friends, If I want to I can extra school work and move up a grade, I'm even doing 9th grade History. My mom wants me to stay homeschooled, she has even tried to bribe me with a trip to Jersulem (which I really want to go there), but only if stay homeschooled all the way through school. I really want to go back to school, but I also want to stay homeschooled. What should I do???? (link)
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Woohoo!! Homeschoolers rock!! (I'm homeschooled!) Ok, I think you should stay homeschooled. I've never been to a public school, so it's a little different for me. I'm going to be homeschooled all the way through highschool. I used to be the same way, not really have the friends and stuff, wanting to go to public school and all, but I know now that homeschooling is so much BETTER!!! Boo ya!! You can be just as close to homeschoolers as you can public schoolers. (my friends and I are so close that we call each other "brother" and "sister".. cause we're weird like that!) I think homeschoolers have better educations normally too, because they have a one-on-one time with the teacher (which is mom, usually) and can work more at their own pace. I'm in two different grades in different subjects, and it's not because I'm just plain smart. (though I'd like to say that it's because I'm just plain smart!) A trip to Jersulem sounds awesome!! I'd take that!! And you mentioned some awesome things about homeschooling, "you never have homework" and "don't have to get up as early". But you forgot some.
-can sit anywhere (basically) to do school
-don't have to tie your shoes
-don't have to ask for permission to go to the bathroom
-don't need a hall pass
-can finish work at lunchtime (I do sometimes)
-don't have to change clothes in front of other people for PE
-don't have to worry about pimples showing at school
-bad hair days don't really matter
-don't have to wear fashionable clothes
-not as much peer pressure all the time
There's more, but you get the idea. You can still talk to your friends from grade school, you don't have to give that up!! Get thier AIM screen names and e-mail addresses, and talk!! You could probably visit them and stuff too! When you're homeschooled, you don't have as much temptation to have premarital sex, do drugs, drink, shoplift and more; because you're not around the bad influences all the time. It's your descision, but I'd stay homeschooled. Set a good example!! Pray about it, take it to God. He wants to hear it from you! God bless
-FunnyCide
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What do you do if your friend tells you to find someone new, because they like the same person you do and say they like them back? I believe it to be a bit harsh. If your friend cared for you, wouldn't they just leave it alone instead of saying something like that? (link)
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Wow... I hate this situation that you're in. This must smurf! Wow.. I think it's very harsh, and rude. Yeah, if your friend cared for you, they'd probably leave it alone, and just say, "hey, I like that person too, that's cool. Just remember that..". I know this is sortof weird, but I've been in a similar situation before. If your friend doesn't care that you have feelings for this person too, then you should speak with them. Tell them gently that you like this person too, and that you respect their feelings, but they should respect yours too. (I know that was sortof confusing..) And if that doesn't work, (and I hate saying this..) you need to find a more loyal and true friend. (that doesn't mean completely ditch your friend, just keep the "doors open" for new friends to come into) Remember: You do not have to listen to your friend when they say you've got to find a new person 'cause they like the same person as you. YOU do not answer to THEM. You answer to GOD. Pray about your situation, take it to the head man. Ask for wisdom and guidence. And if you like this person, dude, be friends with them!! I hate that you're in this mess.. it stinks. Talk to your friend and God!!
-FunnyCide
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I got advise on what I needed but I need more I really still dont know what to do I always keep my promises and I really dont know what to do in this siguation you know what I mean I made a promise to my closest cusin that I would save my virginity till I got married I have a b/f right now and I love him dearly I want to lose it to him but I know love isnt all about losing virginity but I want to lose it to him can some one help me PLEASE (link)
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Don't. Do not lose it!! There is a chance of getting pregnant, even if you do use condems and such. Then you have a baby, and it's not really wanted. Don't. Keep your promise to your cousin and do not lose your virginity. I know that you love your boyfriend, but, it's probably gonna be a while before you can get married, and alot of things can happen between now and then. Maybe you will marry your boyfriend, but then sex will be that much better because you know you waited. If you don't marry him, then you'll be glad you didn't have sex with him 'cause you've saved yourself for the one that you love forever!! (that's why you're married to him..) So, save yourself. Just give your boyfriend a kiss and say "No." If he really loves you, he'll understand and respect you for it.
-FunnyCide
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I have this guy friend that i used to like. He's nice and all and we talk on email a lot. Then he said that my best friend (basically my "sister") and her (really cool) guy cousin sucked at hockey, were wimps, adn were on steriods because they talk funny. I was about to cuss him out but then i maintained control because they are two of my best friends. I really got pissed when he said that her guy cousin was on steriods. REALLY pissed. What should i do to this kid to teach him a lesson? (link)
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Don't do anything to him, just tell him! That'll make him feel bad enough! If he's a friend (at all!) then he'll feel bad that he hurt your feelings by dissing your family and "sister". (that's what I call my best friend too! lol) But, it's not enough to tell him that you're friends with that girl and her cousin, but you've got to tell him that it offended you! Tell him gently, just be like, "Hey, that was my best friend you were talking about. She's not that way. She's really nice... it sortof hurt my feelings when you said that, but I forgive you." He'll feel bad enough that he's hurt your feelings that it wouldn't be right to "get back at him". (plus the Bible says "'Vengeance is mine", says the Lord'")
-FunnyCide
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so i was at school to day well pretty much like i am everyday and i realised that i really dont have any close friends sure ive got friends but no close friends i should really change that you no.but i dont know how (link)
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Take a friend that you already have, and talk alot to them. (Without being annoying lol) Confide in them, invite them over, throw parties, give gifts, talk on the phone, talk on the computer... you get the idea. Just tell them stuff, and they'll pretty soon become closer to you. It's not really as simple as it sounds, but that's really all I can say to do.
-FunnyCide
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ok im really shy around guys. And when i like them i end to ignore them... i hate it!
There's this guy i like, i see him every once and a while but when i do i get all nervus and i shake and i ignore him! I dont want to but even just looking into his beautiful eyes is hard for me.. how can i get over this ignoring??? PLZ help! (link)
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WOW!!! We're like, the same!!!! That is so weird!! Ok, so, you like this guy, and you have problems even looking into his eyes. Dude, that's ok. I have problems even looking into my best friend's eyes!! I think it's because when you look someone in the eye, they know you're thinking about them, want to talk (or more..), and it reveals your feelings and emotions. Build a friendship with this guy. When I'm with my guy friends, sometimes I get so nervous that my knee shakes up and down (annoying nervous habit that I can't break), and I basically stare at the floor the whole time. It smurfs when that happens. Even so, normally, because I've built friendships with these guys, I can talk to them like they're normal people. (even though we all know that guys are everything but normal! lol) All I can say is that it's normal for you to be shy around guys, in fact, it's good! If you're shy around guys, then the guy that you go out with (eventually) wont be afraid that you'll run off with another guy, and it'll make your relationships better. But, being shy isn't fun. It's ok to open up!! Try to get some friends of yours and his to hang out somewhere, even if it's only for a few minutes, where you can talk in a group setting, and maybe find something in common with him so that you have a conversation starter. Try and get his AIM screen name and/or e-mail address. It's easier to get to know someone over the internet, where your face and emotions don't show. Just try and be friends with the guy you like, there's nothing wrong with that. Don't believe the world when they say that a guy and a girl can't be JUST friends. They can be JUST friends, I have several JUST guy friends. Start off as JUST friends, that way you'll know whether you want to go out with him or not. Don't let your emotions run wild and rule your thoughts, try and be nice and friendly. (This is hard for me, not because I'm mean, but because I'm shy. I don't like being the first to say "Hi", but I do it anyway, because I want to talk to someone) Remember to smile alot!! Smiles make you seem much more friendly and happy to be alive!! I can't really help you any more than this I don't think. I'm sorry. Take it to God. Tell Him about it. Tell God about the guy that you like, and that you'd like to be able to talk with him more freely. (God already knows, but He wants to hear it from you!) I've included a poem at the bottom of this answer, because I like it alot. It really sortof describes how I am becoming. I'm a "Nothing Girl" if that pleases you, but, more specifically, I'm not caring that people think I'm weird, or that I'm ugly or mean, because I know that God has made me the way He wants me to be. God bless!!
"Nothing Girl"
Maybe I wear baggies
And white socks with flip-flops,
Maybe I don't like listening to rave
And I'm not on the social mountaintops,
Maybe I don't care about the things
That make your worlds twirl,
Maybe you look at me and think:
Gee, what a nothing girl.
Maybe I like giving smiles
Which seems to be a sin today,
And maybe I allow my imagination
To sometimes run away,
Maybe you don't understand this
And that's why you cannot see,
If this make me a nothing girl,
Hey, that's ok with me!
The world makes you believe
Your personality mustn't be detected,
Your face must be picture perfect
And wear cloths just the best, to be accepted.
Maybe I look at you
And feel sorry that you're blind,
Robots you have became,
Yourself you'll never find.
God made you, as well as me,
This means I am something,
The world is a liar
And if I must be a nothing
For you to see it,
Then so be it!
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I didn't write this, I got it out of a friends buddy profile, so yeah. They get the credit, not me!! But think about it. It doesn't seem to apply, but it really does. Don't be afraid to live up to what God wants you to be!!!
-FunnyCide
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I'm Bored OUt Of My Mind!! Does Anyone Know Any Sites or Anything I can Do So I won't Be Bored?!
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Hmm... try:
http://www.coffeebreakarcade.com - arcade style games
http://www.homestarrunner.com - crazy and funny cartoons and games.
http://www.runescape,com - MMORPG
http://www.advicenators.com - this keeps me entertained!
http://www.HorseCity.com - heck, I like horses. Sorry.. there's games and info there...lol
http://www.popcap.com - an assorted selection of games
http://www.stupidvideos.com - they're (as the name suggests) stupid videos. Hilarious though..
http://www.christianrock.net - Christian rock internet radio. Keeps me busy..
http://www.purevolume.com - all sorts of music, scremo, emo, rock, pop, hardcore, everything.
have fun!! Be responsible with your computer time too. Remember, there is this thing called "outside". It's very nice there, I go there often... you might want to visit Outside, you might find some stuff to do. (I do random things like sitting on the shavings pile with a good book. If you don't have shavings, this is hard though) You can do alot of stuff outside.. paint, draw, read, play games, just... stare. (I do this too) lol
-FunnyCide
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hey does anyone know any good sites to play games on i am soo bored Febuary Vacation sucks so boring (link)
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Hmm... try:
http://www.coffeebreakarcade.com - arcade style games
http://www.homestarrunner.com - crazy and funny cartoons and games.
http://www.runescape,com - MMORPG
http://www.advicenators.com - this keeps me entertained!
http://www.HorseCity.com - heck, I like horses. Sorry.. there's games and info there...lol
http://www.popcap.com - an assorted selection of games
have fun!! Be responsible about your computer time.
-FunnyCide
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i know this is a stupid question, but what kind of music is emo? (link)
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"emo" music is "EMOtional" music. It can be anything from a boyfriend singing a love song to his girlfriend, a song dedicated to a deceased person/pet, a song that is depressing and the like. An emo song is basically any sort of music that shows alot of emotion, no matter really what kind. (anger too) happy listening!!
-FunnyCide
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i've been with my current boyfriend for a long time and he means sooo much to me. but lately, i've become really good friends with my ex. i don't want to give up the bond we've made, but i'm starting to have stronger feelings for him than just friendship and i DON'T want to make a mistake that could hurt my boyfriend who i love! i really need some suggestions on how to clear up any fuzzy boundaries between a friendship and a relationship, please! (link)
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This is a tough descision that you have to make, all I can do is walk you through the steps and give you ideas on how to do that.
1)Think about who you love. - do you love your current boyfriend enough that you would die for him? (tragic and not likely to happen, but think about it.)
2)Think about why you broke up with your ex in the first place. - if it was because he was mean or spiteful to you, I would say that it isn't wise to even talk to him.
Think about who you love the most, if you even love your ex. (it wasn't clear about this.) As you said, you don't want to make a mistake, so this is a toughie. Talk to your boyfriend about this. I know that it'll be hard, considering that he's your boyfriend, and you don't want to hurt him or lose him, but honesty is the best policy. It might hurt him (and you) worse in the end if you don't talk to him about it. He can help you decide if it is wise to be so close to your ex, and if he's not comfortable with you talking and being so close to your ex, then you have to make a descision on weather to pull away from your ex or to ignore your boyfriends feelings. (not a good idea to ignore his feelings.) You should also talk to your ex. Ask him if he still has feelings for you, and if so, what kind and how strong. Tell him how you feel too, and that you don't want to hurt your boyfriend. (make it clear that you only want to be friends!) This is a hard situation to be in, but this is what I'd do if I was faced with this. God bless
-FunnyCide
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there is this guy i like that i send letters to but i was wondering should i ask him if he is single or would that be to rude of me? (link)
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Well, you like him, and you send letters to him.. lol Well, ask around, friends, but don't bug!! If you ask politely, it's not that bad. Just be like, "Do you have a girlfriend? If so, what's her name? What's she like?" you want to sound interested, not rude. Don't be pushy though. :) Smile and keep a good attitude no matter what!! God bless!
-FunnyCide
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SAMM! you know me... i injured my ankle over the presidents day weekend and it suxx butt....hole. i have track tryouts soon and the physicals are on friday... i have to wear this brace for 2 weeks and i hate it. is there anyway i can make it heal faster before tryouts?
you know you love me,
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Ice it every night, heat on it every morning, stretch it slowly three or four times a day, don't use it alot for about a week. Stay off of it as much as you can, but don't "over-stay" off of it, because it will become week. You should be able to do the tryouts, and the physicals, but be careful on the physicals. The tryouts should be ok though. Wear the brace with pride, your ankle will heal better (and faster, with less complications) if you wear the brace properly. If your ankle hurts, take meds. (like advil) stretch slowly for about 15 min a few times a day, walk a little bit, but not too much (like, walk around the block or whatever) Don't just ice one side, be sure to wrap the ice around your ankle. (same with heat) hope you make track!!
-FunnyCide
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Hiya,
I was just wondering...what's the point of a hidden track on a CD? I know they're there and how to get at them and all that, but WHY are they there?
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I guess to make people think they're getting more than their moneys worth for the cd. Like having 20 songs for the price of 19. I guess that's the point, sometimes it does seem silly, but they're the most fun to sing because you don't have the words written out for you.
-FunnyCide
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my family owes the bank alot of money and i wanna help them. i'm only 13 so what can i do to help them get money? please help, this is important (link)
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Try babysitting and dogstitting/walking/washing. There aren't many things you can do because you're young, but those things are good. Just make little flyiers about having a babysitting service or a pet walking service, including name, number, and hours you can work. Good luck!!
-FunnyCide
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Okay I have like a ton of art stuff but I am starting to run out of ideas of what I should make.I was wondering if you guys have any ideas on what I could make.By the way I always rate a five for anyone who helps me!!! (link)
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Art stuff? Like with paper and paint? I am assuming that's what you mean, so I'll throw off some ideas.
Bookmarks
Doorhangers
Name plates
Portraits
Landscapes
In-honor-of (a memorial)
In-memory-of (yet another memorial)
Collage
Random paint/glitter/ribbons on a page
T-shirts (with fabric paint/glitter/markers)
Masks
Paper Mache(spelling?)
Statues
Models
think of something you like and model something after it!! You can do so much with art, you can make it... almost perfect. It rocks!! :) Have fun!
-FunnyCide
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The concert is this Sunday. It was really hard to get tickets, because it was sold out fast. But we got tickets! 800 people will be there, it is going to be pact. I'm gonna die. I listened to Mae on pure volume and I like a few of their songs, pretty excited for that...still havent heard name taken but yeah I'm mostly going for relient k. What songs did relinet k play?? I'm glad you had fun! I know imma have fun too:D (link)
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This Sunday? Wow! It wasn't really hard for us to get tickets, but, then again, we got them in early January!! lol 800 people! Wow. I think there were like, 550 or so at the concert I went to. That's alot of people! I went for Relient k, but I ended up liking Mae. Name Taken just didn't strike me as wonderful, but hey. Umm.. RK played
Be My Escape
Penny Loafers
Am I Understood
Mood Rings
Which to Bury, Us or the Hatchet
Let It All Out
Chap Stick, Chapped Lips, and Things Like Chemistry
they played alot more, but I am really bad at remembering which ones ... I think they played The One I'm Waiting For too... They played like, 13 songs. They'll do some from every album. So, yeah.
Have a blast!!! =D
-FunnyCide
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my mom works at the same school i go 2. there is a dance and i want to go with this guy. i don't know if my mom would approve. what should i do?
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Well, considering that you could go with the guy and try and avoid your mom, or you could not go. OR (best option)you can just ask your mom if it would be ok to go to the dance with ****. (Whatever his name is) If she says "no", it's for a good reason, probably for your own safety. Respect that. But, if the boy is a decent kid, doesn't hurt people or have a bad reputation, she probably wont mind. My mom accepts the fact that I dance with guys, and I have a pretty uptight mom. Just be nice when you ask, and your mom will probably be so happy that you asked her that she wont mind. Have fun at the dance and don't get into any trouble!!
-FunnyCide
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