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School dance


Question Posted Tuesday February 15 2005, 10:40 pm

my mom works at the same school i go 2. there is a dance and i want to go with this guy. i don't know if my mom would approve. what should i do?



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cloudy_conscience answered Saturday April 17 2010, 2:32 pm:
Totally know how you feel, my mother was the librarian at my school, but we made a deal that she would not chaperone whenever I was going to an event lol. As for if your mom would approve, I think the only thing you can do there is to sit down and ask her about it. Tell her why you want to go with him and that you are going to be smart and careful, assure her that you are mature and can handle it.
Hope I Helped :)

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AdviceAlison answered Thursday February 17 2005, 12:38 pm:
You should talk to your mom about it. See if she approves of the guy. You can't reject a social life just because you dont want your mom finding out about the people you hang out with. If you dont think you could go home and introduce them to your mom, then obviously they aren't a good person to be with....

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CraziForRey619 answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 10:04 pm:
Is she gona be at the dance? I think you should just go ahead and dance, there isn't anything wrong with dancing.

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Mksangel1316 answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 6:27 pm:
Well- myself, I would try to explore all the options of doing it without her finding out. If you find some sort of hole in the plan, then you should definatly sit down with her and say, Look. I really want to go to this dance with a guy. I didn't know if you would approve, but I want to give him a chance. So, are you cool with us two going?

Good luck.

-x- Anja -x-

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charmed-cherry21 answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 3:16 pm:
You should be like Mom I would like to go to the dance with "John Doe" (his name tho) May I please go.

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Charmed-Cherry21

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Sp0iLeD_SheDeViL answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 3:14 pm:
Talk to her about it.


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Karen answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 7:04 am:
If you don't think your mom would approve of you going to the dance with him, why don't you invite him over so your mom can get to know him a little bit more? You just need to talk to her and just tell her that you really want to go. If your mom isn't working at the dance, then you don't have to ask her if you can go to the dance with this guy but if she is, you do need to talk to her. Hope I helped :)
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FunnyCide answered Wednesday February 16 2005, 12:38 am:
Well, considering that you could go with the guy and try and avoid your mom, or you could not go. OR (best option)you can just ask your mom if it would be ok to go to the dance with ****. (Whatever his name is) If she says "no", it's for a good reason, probably for your own safety. Respect that. But, if the boy is a decent kid, doesn't hurt people or have a bad reputation, she probably wont mind. My mom accepts the fact that I dance with guys, and I have a pretty uptight mom. Just be nice when you ask, and your mom will probably be so happy that you asked her that she wont mind. Have fun at the dance and don't get into any trouble!!
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monkeygirl answered Tuesday February 15 2005, 11:57 pm:
sit your mom down and tell her the situation... tell her you really wanna go to the dance with him... and it would mean alot to you.. moms arent as tough if you calmly sit down and talk to them.. well hope i helped keep me updated..

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angieroonie answered Tuesday February 15 2005, 11:54 pm:
yuo have to come clean with your mum. tell her you want to go. dont go behind her back because mums always find out in the end. :)

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hello315 answered Tuesday February 15 2005, 11:05 pm:
Is ur mom going to the dance?? If shes not, then you have nothing to worry about. If she is, then just show up with this guy, and try to avoid her. It's your life.. if she doesn't even know the guy, then she can't disapprove can she??

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bucsbaby6969 answered Tuesday February 15 2005, 10:47 pm:
Explain to her if she says no that there are very good qualities in him that you like and name them, tell him you really like him and that later on she can get to kno him better :)

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XxLiiLSiiNgErXX answered Tuesday February 15 2005, 10:46 pm:
Well. you could tell the guy at the dance to meet you there... and since its dark in there usually(i dont know about your school) you guys could chyl there!

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