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there is this guy i like that i send letters to but i was wondering should i ask him if he is single or would that be to rude of me?
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hmm difficult. has he answered the letters?? if he hasnt he may get a little eeked out by it...so wait until he answers your letters. if he has, then that means hes comfortable with you as a friend...so i'd say go for it! if you dont want to say stright out 'are you single', change the wording to something more comfortable for you to say.
hope i helped!!! good luck =D
dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT ]
No, that wouldn't be rude at all. Go for it and ask him. It's only a question, not much harm in that!
♥ Krissy ]
just ask him if hes single if he says hes not then say my mate likes u ]
Well you might as well find out if he has a gf or not...if he does and hes writing to you...what does that tell you about him? ]
it's just a question. so dunn worry ]
Nope, it wouldn't be rude at all to ask this guy if he is single. Most guys wouldn't think that would be rude and they don't mind being asked that question. Just go for it and ask him.
-Karen ]
nah, it wouldn't be, I'd kind of hide around the topic, like "oh man, you just reminded me of my ex boyfriend! but now I am a single girl, what about you, whose your chick?" I know you have no idea whether he has a girl, but just kind of assume it, like your not asking really. Good luck with the note.
-TheTeenGirl ]
Well, you like him, and you send letters to him.. lol Well, ask around, friends, but don't bug!! If you ask politely, it's not that bad. Just be like, "Do you have a girlfriend? If so, what's her name? What's she like?" you want to sound interested, not rude. Don't be pushy though. :) Smile and keep a good attitude no matter what!! God bless!
-FunnyCide ]
rude is asking him if he has ever had sex... ]
Its not rude!
♥ Michelle ]
No, its fine.
♥ Michelle ]
You already send him letters, and if that's not the ultimate injustice then I don't know what is.
Doesn't it somewhat depend on how far apart you are from each other? If he's down the block, make a jello mold and give it to him when you ask; if he's across the continental divide and then some, yeah sure ask away. ]
its not rude. go for it honey! ]
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