I got advise on what I needed but I need more I really still dont know what to do I always keep my promises and I really dont know what to do in this siguation you know what I mean I made a promise to my closest cusin that I would save my virginity till I got married I have a b/f right now and I love him dearly I want to lose it to him but I know love isnt all about losing virginity but I want to lose it to him can some one help me PLEASE
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? FunnyCide answered Friday February 25 2005, 3:15 pm: Don't. Do not lose it!! There is a chance of getting pregnant, even if you do use condems and such. Then you have a baby, and it's not really wanted. Don't. Keep your promise to your cousin and do not lose your virginity. I know that you love your boyfriend, but, it's probably gonna be a while before you can get married, and alot of things can happen between now and then. Maybe you will marry your boyfriend, but then sex will be that much better because you know you waited. If you don't marry him, then you'll be glad you didn't have sex with him 'cause you've saved yourself for the one that you love forever!! (that's why you're married to him..) So, save yourself. Just give your boyfriend a kiss and say "No." If he really loves you, he'll understand and respect you for it.
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MummuM answered Friday February 25 2005, 3:12 pm: If you are 100% ready for losing your virginity to this boy, do so. Just because you made a promise to one of your best cousins, doesn't mean he/she will understand. If you really love this boy and you both have talked about it and your 100%, there's nothing wrong with it. Make sure your ready though, so your not going to regret this. If you still don't feel comfortable with the hole thing, because of your cousin, talk to her/him.
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toastnbutter answered Friday February 25 2005, 2:59 pm: i think it you should wait a little longer and see if you still wanana lose it 2 him.cause my friend did the same thing she said she really loved him but now she regrets losing it.please rate lol [ toastnbutter's advice column | Ask toastnbutter A Question ]
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