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is it possible to be to "nice"? like here is an example: i can't tell someone they are annoying cause im afriad it mite hurt their feelings... or ... i can't hang out with more than one friend (that's a girl) cause i think i might ignore one of them... it bothers me sometimes
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it is possible to be "nice" as you put it, but a lot of people would take it the wrong way and tell other people what you said and people would think you are a bitch for telling the truth. and i understand not being able to hang out with more than one friend because you might leave them out but if they are both friends with eathother it shouldnt be a problem just do things that all of you like to do just dont tell one person something and not tell the other person while they're there or something like that and no inside jokes unless they are both included it might get weird. hope i helped a little
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Yess there sucha thinq as beinq t0o nice .. but what your doinq is just carinq for your friends.. and they should appricate that
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Ok, I'm not sure whether you're a guy or a girl, but hey, that's ok. It's actually good that you don't want to hurt their feelings, even if the person is really annoying. You wouldn't want someone to tell you that you're annoying (even if you were driving them crazy!), so you probably shouldn't tell them. I can understand why it would bother you that you can't hang out with more than one girl at a time, because you might leave one of them out. It's natural to want to be nice to all partys, but the silly cliche is true: "Three's a crowd". Because two start hanging out, and the third feels left out, no matter how hard you try to include everyone. It's better to hang out in even numbers because then you've got people hanging out with each other, and no one feels left out. (I know how it is to feel left out, it's not cool) You seem like a "nice" person, because of your question. Don't worry about it. If it bothers you, you should talk to God. (Talk to God anyway, but talk about this specifically) Take it to the head man, He'll tell you everything you need to know. God bless
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I think it is possible to be to nice i wish i was to nice but im not LoL well i think you are to nice so you should start notXacly being mean but juss dont be to nice.. like start hanging out with groups of friends and try to talk to all of them juss as much as you talk to the others. Hope i helped
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<33 Amber
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I am a nice person, or I think i just have a lot of patience...=P
Anyway, try to think of it like this: you know how it feels to be annoyed, so if you were annoying, you would want someone to tell you right?(even though you might feel offended)
I believe there's nothing wrong with telling someone something like that as long as you're not too rude.
As for the friend thing, try to think of it like this:
Your friends have more friends than just you, and everything fine!(I hope) You don't sound like you are feeling left out. So don't worry=)
But try not to let it bother you so much.
Hope I helped some.
*Diamyn*
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Well if your asking I want to do the opposite of these things then be meaner but not too mean but if your asking how to do these things then whatever....sry but your question doesn't really make sense
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