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i want to know how to put eye liner on good . anytips? and how thick (link)
well you didnt say how thick you wanted it. i would suggest starting out with just a little, like on the inner eyelid. basically, put black eyeliner where your inner eyelid is, like the space above the eyelashes. it will make your eyes pop


Hi,

I recently bought some clothes from the Hollister at my mall. I am a 17 year old boy and think the clothes are nice.

When I got home and showed my 13 year old brother the clothes I got (a polo and a sweatshirt) he started screaming at me and said that only posers and gays were Hollister.

I know quite a few people don't like Hollister and quite a few people do.

I am wondering what people think of boys who wear Hollister? (link)
i know tons of guys that wear hollister.


i think im fat.
i got my phisical like a week ago
and im 62 inches and i weighed 104 .
i think i gained like a pound or maybe lost idk.
but is that fat for me
tell the truth ♥ (link)
since your 5'2, 104 is pretty much perfect. an average is about like 100-102, but 2 pounds is whatever.


For some reason, I find that running on the treadmill is much easier than running outside, like on an actual track.

For example, I can run for over 30 minutes nonstop on the treadmill, but I can only run for less than 15 on the track.

Anyone know why the treadmill is easier than running on the track? (link)
there could be many reasons. for track, you could feel very self consious, and want to run quicker. or if there are people, you may feel awkward, like they are all watching you (which they probably arent..)


hi there. i'm a 15 year old girl, 5'2, with a 36DD bust. i also weigh 142lbs. the thing is though i dont think i look that heavy. i'm bigger framed than most of my friends i guess you could say, but i dont exactly have like..a HUGE stomach. i'm in proportion with my chest, haha. i was wondering if this weight was normal for my age. i've been to doctors and they all said i am overweight..but if i work out i'll gain more by building muscle. i want to get down to about 135lbs by october or sooner. so my questions are.

1. am i overweight? and by how much?
2. does anyone know of any good diets?


thank you all so much (link)
I think I can help. You are 5 feet with 36DD? OMG, wow, you are busty! I'm 5 feet, two inches shorter, and only wear a 34A!

The sight I've reasearched says you are overweight. For your short height and that large of pounds, you maybe are.

Here's the site
http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/nutrition/weight/weight_height.html

Slim Fast are a good easy start to lose weight. You might need to lose at least 10 pounds, which might be difficult, but stay at it.
Slim fast are those drinks you subitute as a meal and they are okay in flavor. Exercise each day and will get results. Your reg. meal without slim fast can be like a salad with light dressing. Stay away from sweets and POP at all time. Drink a lot of water. Do a lot of sports if you do and at the gym will be fine. Don't do a harmful diet because I've heard someone didn't eat for a while and lost the pounds, but by the time it at regular, it gained that many pounds again.

good luck!


I'm a 15 year old girl...and i was just wondering how far you think i should go with a boy (please dont say "whatever i'm comfortable with")

and how far did you go when you were 15??

THANKS (link)
Girl, not even close! Your only 15 years old. Why are girls at 13,14, 15, 16, 17 are having sex? Virginity one lasts once, and live it until you are fully ready. YOU AREN'T READY...and probably don't care what I say!
I'm telling you, you arne't ready until you are at least 18!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WAIT...or be those stupid sluts on t.v.
(Not to be offensive or anything...if I am...sorry!)

:(


Aight i liked this girl and we went out a couple of times to the movies and dinner but i dont know how or if i should make a move to kiss her. We go out to the movies a lot so when would be the perfect time to make my move???? PLZ HELP!!! (link)
I see you are in serious help...totally fine. Many guys are nervous when is it the best time to kiss her? Women will only kiss back if it's the good time.
1. Movies or a restraunt. Kind of talk about romance and include kissing...give her a idea
2. After eating or the movie, outside (the places you go must be nice) give her some candy or rose for her house.
3. Go for it...only if she's in the romantic mood.
If not
4. Invite her over and just lounge and have fun
5. Go for it!


Hope you get your kiss!!!


On July 24, I had a procedure where I was put to sleep for over 5 hours. Since then, I have not had my period. I am now about two weeks late. I am a virgin so there is no way I could be pregnant. Does anyone know if this could be a side effect of anesthesia?

Thanks in advance. (link)
I actually tired researching and but couldn't find anything for sure.


But I do know that sometimes, after getting surgery, it throws your body off a little. So it's most likely not the anesthesia but the actual surgery that is delaying your period.


Just wait it out, and it should come after a little while.


Hey, my boyfriend and I just broke up after 2 years. He doesn't really care anymore, yet i'm still torn after the whole thing, so i need songs to make me feel better.

What are good break-up songs (that aren't slow) that'll make me feel better? (link)
i dont have a lot but i know of maybe one song because im having a brain fart but So Sick by Ne-Yo might be good

lol sorry i couldnt think of more


I've tried doing my eye make up a lot of times but it just never looks right. I love this girls eye make up right here, and I'm wondering what she did to make it look so pretty and what she used. http://i89.photobucket.com/albums/k226/sexiigurl94/blahhhhh.jpg How do I get my eye make up like hers?? (link)
she put black eyeliner on the inner lid and used mascara then she put a grayish color LIgHTLY around the lashes


Does anyone know how to figure out your bra size at home? I hate going into the stores and having the people measure you. (link)
Too much to explain SOOO....


http://www.afraidtoask.com/breast/breastmeasuringcup.html


And yeah I just do it at home when I need to as well. :D


Uhm,ok this is random advice, what do you guys think about it?

Even though It is normal for guys [and girls :s] to like porn, it doesn't necessaraly mean that it's right. Think of it this way, in Gods eyes does he think it would be correct to do something sinful, even though you have the total conscience and controle over your hormones.

Think. (link)
I'm not really a fan of porn but my brothers look at it, most of my guys friends, and my ex bf. Even though I don't like it and refuse to look at it, I have to accept that they do because I really have no control over them. And plus, nowadays, so many people do things that are sinful and God wouldn't like (like how sex outside of marriage is now just a part of society).


If you think it's immoral and sinful, then stick to your beliefs. But you just have to realize that not everyone thinks that way and you can't change that. Sure, in God's eyes it's wrong but so many other things are as well.


they are going to show this episode on a three year old obssessed with her looks...and I was just wondering what is normal age that many people start getting concerned with how they look?weight,height,etc...etc... (link)
I actually think it's when they start middle school. Well, for girls anyway, guys probably don't care until maybe 8th grade but I wouldn't know.


I remember when I stared middle school, all the older girls (7th and 8th graders) looked so much older and put together. I didn't wear make up in 6th grade and I still shopped at Limited Too so my clothes were all girly and kiddish. So all the 6th grade girls would look up to them and be like *they look so cool* and try acting like them. Like, compare their height and weight to the older girls and pay more attention to make up and clothes.


what are some new bands that i can check out? my fave celebs, are jesse mccartney, the jonas brothers, the red jumpsuit apparatus, panic! at the disco, any thing close to any of those guys!! (link)
well um i have soo many i could name but one of my favorites is Cartel, The Afters, Sugarcult, and Hellogoodbye..

i dont know if theyre EXACTLY what youre looking for but theyre great

i hope i helped :)


okay, well, im sooo against abortions. the reasons most people have abortions are because they are:
-retarted
-the parent's too young
-they cant support the baby
all of which are NOT the babies fault in any way, so why kill it? its like killing any other human being!! what can i do to get this to stop? (link)
I'm not for abortions either but you can't really do anything about it. People can sign all the petitions they want but in the end, it's all in the hands of the government. You can still sign them because I'm sure it'll make you feel as if you've done a difference which is a good thing but there's only so much you can do. I live in Texas and here, they are illegal but in other stats they are legal. It's up to the federal government to decide to make them illegal in all of the United States.


For a big portion, it's easy to ask your mom for a bra. I only wear a 34A and she thinks I don't need to buy a bra that much. I only have two, and I want more...but how do I drum up a conversation to ask her? I'm almost 14 (I know, I should be already familar with this) but I'm nervous. What's a great way to ask?
*Stupid Question, I know* (link)
Just because you have small boobs doesn't mean you don't need bras so I don't know why she thinks that.


When you're at the mall with her, pass whatever store you go to for bras and say something like *Hey mom, the two bras I have are kind of getting worn out, can you buy me another one or two?* They don't have to actually be worn out, just tell her. If she says that you don't need a bra anyway tell her that it looks wear when you wear a shirt with out one. If they actually are worn out, show her.


I have big boobs and a small waist. So I have a problem with buying shirts. They either don't fit over my boob and the shirt ends up looking short. Or they do fit over my boobs but its all saggy and too big around my waist.

Does anyone know any stores or styles that could help me out here? (link)
Well I'm a 34C with a small waist. Are your boobs bigger than that? My friend is a 36D so I'm just going to assume you're between us or larger. We mostly wear fitted tees. They're shirts that kind of stretch so they go along all your curves. And if you get a bigger size so your shirt isn't too short, they still go with your curves so it isn't too big at the bottom. Most of Hollister and Abercrombie & Fitch's shirts do this. But, I don't know if you shop there. Many other stores have that type of shirts as well though.


okay, well, im sooo against abortions. the reasons most people have abortions are because they are:
-retarted
-the parent's too young
-they cant support the baby
all of which are NOT the babies fault in any way, so why kill it? its like killing any other human being!! what can i do to get this to stop? (link)
i know you are probably going to rate this a 1, but please jsut be open minded the other way. true, it isnt the babies fault for those, but if the parents can't support it, it could turn out to be really trashy, and maybe even become a murderer of druggie or something.
*if they cant support the baby, when its born, it could possibly die. this way, if you get an abortion, at least its before the baby even HAS LUNGS.

its not YOUR baby, so its not your choice. if you get pregnant and decide to keep the baby, go ahead, but realize that if a teenager has a baby, it could ruin there lives: no jobs, no college.

go ahead, give me a 1, i couldnt really care less about ratings, but i do think you should look at the other point of view


to get pimples between breasts? i was just wondering.. (link)
yea some people get it. or i could be heat rash


when my friend is telling me something online, sometimes i will just be like, "alrightty" or "kay". i dont do it alot, either. then she thinks i'm mad or annoyed, when im not. there's just nothing else to say. what should i do? i tell her im not mad but i dont thinks she believes me. (link)
well i could see how she gets annoyed, but its wayyy over reacting.

when you say things like alrighty of k, its kind of ending a conversation.

if you say that, you should think of something else to say, be like kay, anyways you will never believe who i saw at the mall eysterday or something




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