whatzz the difference between windows live and windows messenger.
i have windows live messenger
i don't really get it
Windows messenger is a program that comes pre-installed with Windows XP (I'm not sure if it comes with Win2k) and has a very limited amount of features. If you're after just a very basic chatting tool on the MSN network then you can use Windows messenger without any problems. Windows live comes with a lot more features and additions and there's a lot of things you can do with it (play games, send audio clips, custom emotes etc, etc, etc).
Personally I prefer Live just because it has more features.
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my bf don't talk to me after what happened between us ... i live with his family but we hardly talk to eachother but i love him so much. i don't know after i leave from this house like 18 days after he will keep in touch with me or not but i really want to be in touch like the same way i did before.so what should i do to make him talk to me and give me one more chance to prove him that im not crazy i just acted crazy and i love him & im not going to create any problem but he don't talk to me he dont call me ? sorry if im annoying to you when you read it but im in so much in pain ...i start talking some medicine like anticol and sleeping pills ..?? please help me for god shake ???
Hi.
What was it exactly that happen between you and your bf? :/ What is the medicine for and were you prescribed the medicine to take?
I'm afraid it's a little hard to determine what's going on becuase you are obviously hurting about what is going on but it's hard to make sense of exactly what is going on for me.
All I can say initially is if you are still living with him and he is not talking to you then writing him a note will be the best bet. It will help you to htink about what you want to say and write it down and then recheck it to make sure you've said everything how you want to say it and he might be more willing to read a letter/note from you. I afraid I can't really say what you should say in the note or even suggest what you can say because I have no idea as to what is going on or the circumstances.
Lastly, don't take medicine just because you think it will help. Unless it has been prescribed to you (I've no idea what anticol is or what it's used for) then you may be doing more harm by taking medicine you shouldn't be. If you feel you need to take medicine then I strongly suggest you speak to your family doctor for advice o nthis beforehand.
Sorry I can't really help more without more information on what is going on. :[ I hope everything will be okay though. Feel free to write if you need more help though.
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Hello, I'm British and starting driving lessons next month I think.
The problem is I'm crap with locations, I'd find it difficult to go to local citys even if I go there quite often.
I don't know where most citys are and I'm just going to be really bad navigation wise on the road.
I also havent read a map before so if you can do anything to help I'll be thankful, websites or advice will be appreciated. Thanks
Hi.
I am exactly the same as you and thought the EXACT same thing when I started taking driving lessons. I no longer have that worry because I'm not allowed to drive (medical reasons not because I was dangerous on the road, hehe).
You honestly will just get used to it - try not to worry about it too much at all. You may get lost a few times but it's really no big deal at all. My sister thought the same as you too but as you get more confidence on the road this fear of yours will vanish.
One thing I can suggest is a GPS (Global Positioning System). This might be a bit expensive but it works really well especially when travelling a distance. A little unit that sits on your dashboard with a small screen which shows you exactly which way to go and when to turn so you can get to your desired destination (whioch you input at the start of the journey). It will even re-work the route for you if you make a wrong turn anywhere so you're back on route again. Very handy little thing and is in a lot of use by private hire cabs who deal with clients going to far out destinations.
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He is just not good in bed anymore. He doesn't do foreplay anymore, and he cums in nearly a minute and then he is done. I need help and quick! How can I get him to take more time and get more intimate. I am sick of the quickies!
You need to talk to him - that's about as simple as it really gets. Although he is satisfied I've always though of sex as something that works both ways.
You need to bring up your sex life in conversation and then bring it around to how you are not satisfied with how things are. There's a lot of things you both can do to make things more fun and perhaps make him last a lot longer (including foreplay). There's a lot of aids available to spice up sex lives as well as creams and such to prolong sex. All these are things that you and him can both explore but the starting point will be to talk to him about it. The only way he will know there's a problem is if you say something.
Good luck. :]
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Does anyone know of FREE downloadable programs where I can get an age progressed photo of myself? thnx.
Firstly I'd like to point out that asking the same question twice will not get people to answer it more quickly and if it does (like so) it's probably because you never gave someone enough time to find out the answer for you.
Age progression software is specialist software and thus far I have been unable to find any software that can be used/downloaded for free or even used on a trial basis. The best software out (APRIL) has no price tag to it and you need to contact the company direct for a quote so I would imagine the software would be very expensive. You might want to try contacting the company to ask them if there is similar software available for free use or if they offer any trial packages that you can try out (search for 'APRIL progression software' on google for the web site.
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a ton of bricks would hurt more than a ton of feathers right? i know its the same weight, but the bricks are harder, and have more force??
Not really... they would more than likely hurt equally although the bricks would cut more because of the corners and edges.
It's like diving into water from a great distance. Although you would think that it wouldn't normally hurt because it's water (a liquid) diving into water from a big distance hitting the surface of the water would be like hitting concrete.
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Ok I need to know if I'm overreacting when it comes to something that happened today.
This is the story.
Last week I left for a convention[for a week[ thats about 12 hours from where I currently live. I have a boyfriend of a year and a half and he couldn't come with me. Everytime I called him he was at this girl dianna's house. They have been friends for about a year now. But when I'm there he never goes to her house and not to mention it was prom weekend. Then today I came back from the convention intenting to get a warm welcome. I called him on the phone and the only thing he could say was that he was sooo tired. So finally he got off the phone and said he was going to bed. So about an hour later I had to go to wal-mart to pick up my brother but before I went I cruised by my boyfriends house because I wanted to give him a hug before he was too asleep but his car wasn't at his house..but guess who I saw at wal-mart when I got there?Him and Dianna, he sure was happy. He didn't even notice that I was there..he was so focused on her. And so now I don't know if I'm overreacting or if something might be going on or what. Please help me.
I'm not sure if there is or isn't anything going on but to be honest if he lied about something like that then there's no telling what he has been lying about. I've always thought that if you're innocent of any wrong just tell the truth since you've nothing to hide. He seems to have something to hide since he didn't tell you the truth - unless he went out to Wal-Mart after getting your call? There's no way of being able to tell and more to the point, there's no way of knowing if he is telling the truth or not. Thing is though he hasn't made any secret as to who he's been with when you've been away so he doesn't have any reason to start now. I'm guessing you didn't comfront him at the store - which may have been a good idea.
Only thing I can suggest is either try see what's going on (if anything is going on) or confront him about it and ask him what's going on. I'd say you have every right to ask and know since one second he's too tired to go out and is about to go bed and the next he's at Wal-Mart with his friend. I'm sorry I can't really be of more help on this but if this had happen to me I would want answers.
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I know this question has been asked a million times, but I'm still not sure. Me and a guy were dry-humping and I think he had an orgasm, but I didn't feel any wetness on his pants I was on top of him, but we were both completely clothed. Is there anyway that it could have gotten on my shorts and I could get pregnant? And for future reference...If this happens again and I DO feel a wetness? Can I really get pregnant? And is it immoral?
No, you can't get pregnant so I wouldn't worry at all. :] I don't really think it would be possible to be honest.
If you feel wet chances are it wasn't from your bf having an orgasm but was becuase you were wet from being excited. I honestly don't think that anyone can get pregnant thorugh clothes in the way you describe nor have I ever heard of any case of this happening.
I'm not sure what you mean by is it immoral? Do you mean the dry humping? I don't encourage underage sex so in a way what you are doing/did is far safer than actual sex on the other hand the only one who really has any right to decide if it's immoral or not is yourself. If you feel it was wrong to do then you have every right to stop it happening again.
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Well I am trying to loose weight so I will be thinner so I look good for cheerleading next year but I do not know if I am doing it in the right way or not here is basically what Im doing I eat half a bagel in the morning with a little cream cheese that is reduced fat, then I drink water at school for lunch because Im never real hungry because it is at 10a.m. then for dinner I eat a tiny bit of food so my mom thinks I am eating still because she gets mad at me when I say I want to loose weight but I need to because I am 5'5" and I weight like 135ish. I have lost 16 pounds in 3 weeks is that too much or is that good?
Hello.
I can see why your mom may be concerned. I'm guessing you are still pretty young and to be honest your body does need food - more so when you start cheerleading becuase that will take its toll on your body.
The most basic rule to remember when loosing weight *safely* is it's not how much you eat it's WHAT you eat. Eating less to the point your hardly eating much will only do damage to your body.
Firstly, breakfast is a very important meal - you should have a proper full meal. One full bagel with low fat cream cheese is a very good choice but also add to that something like a smoothie or a fruit juice drink (I drink freshly squeezed orange or make a smoothie - whichever I can really bother with, hehe). At lunch time I have sandwiches with tuna and a drink. Tuna doesn't taste awesome but it's filling as well as low in fat so it serves my diet really well. After this there is obviously dinner where again, I have a FULL meal which will include something healthy (i.e. not fried) as well as a portion of vegetables.
Although this seems like a lot it actually works really well for me and I'm actually limited on what I can do when it comes to physical exercise because of an accident. The above diet is what works for me personally so I am NOT saying you should copy it but you do need to eat. I stopped sodas, alcohol, chocolate and take aways (apart from once a week on the weekends when I get home too late to make something to eat). When I feel pecky and need a snack or have the urge for something sweet I have a bag of grapes next to me to nibble on. We have bananas, peaches, apples etc so whenever I feel a little hungry between meals I have one of those to eat. I eat healthy but I still am able to control my diet.
Since your age would be a major factor when it comes to dieting I would suggest that you seek advice from a professional dietician who can advise you on what kind of diet to do safely so you are having the maximum effect but still keeping yourself healthy. Although I am no professional I'd have to say the diet you are on currently seems very unhealthy because you are hardly eating much at all.
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Hi I really want to be organized, but I am so messy!!! If I finally clean my room, like the next day its messy again!!!!! i hate it but I am lazy and I hate that too!! please write back! my email is jenstewart2006@yahoo.com
There's not really anything I can say that will MAKE you be more clean or less lazy. This is something that is more something only YOU can do. No-one can force you and no-one should have to, to be honest.
I was always messy and hated cleaning up because 2 days later the place would be a total mess again exactly the same as you said. Partially because I was lazy and partially because I shared a room with my little brother who just expected everyone to clean up after him - that was something that made me angry. Over the years though you do get to the point where you say enough is enough, I don't want to live in a tip anymore. Especially when you want to bring friends back or bring a girl back to yours and they see what kind of a dump you live in.
At the end of the day you've a choice to make. Either just not do anything and leave things how they are or clean the place up and make sure you keep it that way by giving yourself some guidelines. Hopefully that should do it (it worked for me) but ultimately it really is all down to you and your willpower to want it.
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Ok well i think i might be depressed but i don't know?
I was looking back on old pictures and i used to always be so happy and peppy. And now i'm just not
I'm only 14 so can i be depressed?
I don't know i'm kinda confused and my mom and i arn't close. And i have no other adult to really get me help or whatever? idk what to do.
Hello.
Truth is depression is something that can happen to anyone regardless of age or you even knowing about it. Last time I was told that my headaches were probably the cause of depression I was actually very shocked because I didn't think I was under any kind of depression. :/
Maybe with how things have been going (if your mom and you were close and have gradually drifted apart) or how you feel you have no adult there to help you with things is the cause of your depression? Either way, maybe your school has a counselor that you can talk to in confidence which may help a great deal. Also, if you feel you and your mom have drifted apart why not try and repair that by trying to spend time with her or one day just give her a hand with house work which I'm sure she would appreciate. If she asks why then just tell her the truth - that you feel you both aren't as close as you were so you want to try change that.
Either way, I think talking to a counselor should be a big help if you are feeling down/depressed and they may be able to shed ore light on if you are or aren't suffering depression. If you ever need anyone to talk to about things feel free to message, there's always an adult here who's willing to listen and help in any way he can. :]
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ive had a Vivitar Digital Camera a little over a year and ive always used the USB cord to connect it to the computer, and have basically had no problems. Now, i havent used my camera since January.. and i recently took some pics. i just tried to upload them but apparently it isnt noticing the cord is connected? i dont know what to do. it made the little beep it makes when it connects, but then said the USB port was overloaded, so i reset it, nothing happened, so i switched ports. now its not doing anything. i turn it on and it just sits there. i switched ports again, and still nothing, but i know this port works because its the one i hook up my ipod to. whats wrong? please dont suggest buying a new cord.
If your computer has USB ports on the front as well as at the back and you had used the ports at the front I suggest restarting the computer (making sure the USB cord for the camera is not plugged in) and then once it's all booted up plug the cable into the back of the PC into one of the ports and then connecting the camera. Hopefully that should fix the problem. If problems still persist the best course of action I can think of is to uninstall the software (I'm guessing the software was editing software) and then trying again without the software installed. In WinXP the OS usually recognises that you have connected a digital camera and will auto retrieve the images stored on the camera for you to save. Just ensure the if there is a USB setting on the camera (for telling the camera when it's going to be plugged in for downloading pictures from it) that you set it to this after plugging it in. If this also doesn't work (camera isn't recognised) you may have to try again after re-installing the software but check to make sure there are no software updates available for it.
Hopefully one of those suggestions will fix the problem. :]
If it still persists I suggest trying it on a different computer before buying a new cable to see if it is indeed the cable that is the problem or if it's the computer being awkward.
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Hey! for school I'm doing a project, and I'm making Tzatziki and they say it tastes best with Greek yogurt. does anybody know any grocery stores that sell it like Shoppers, Safeway, Foodway, Giant, etc.? thanks.
I'm guessing you are in the USA but a lot of the bigger stores should stock it. It's become very popular over here in the UK so a lot of the stores now sell it along with the 'normal' yogurt. I have to admit it does taste better too (as well as having a better texture to it). I'm sorry I can't be very specific but I suggest trying the larger stores to see if they have it or asking staff whether they stock it. I'd actually be very surprised if it's hard to get hold of. :S
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ok does anyone know any good fast-like dance dance revolution songs? something like Butterfly and Waka Laka. i dunno i just some how developed a taste for this kind of music happened when i first tried that DDR machine :P. OH! while im talking about DDR is it possible to order/buy those machines? i want one in my basement lol. though are there..say shorter ones? cause the ones that are found at arcades seem pretty tall and maybe it wont fit well in my basement. i dont know about you guys, call me a loser but those things are kind of fun :P. also i think they might make a good addition to my excercising routines. if it is possible to buy one, what stores can they be possibly found at? i live in masschusetts if that helps.
Hiya! :D
I can't really think of any songs of that kind off the top my head but I'll edit my reply afterwards if I can compile a little list for you. :]
As for buying the DDR machine - I actually live in the UK so am not sure about prices over there in the US but I can say that the machines cost a LOT. Most arcade places usually have the machines on hire via a contract from companies as opposed to actually buying them because of how much they cost. You can always try and get hold of them second hand though but expect to pay a fair bit. They are available in various sizes and such so finding one to fit shouldn't be a problem. :]
Also, you can buy a lot of home versions now so you dont have to spend tons on the arcade machine. You can get the same (similar) games for a number of consoles (I've personally seen them for the PS2 but I'm certain other versions must also be available) for a fraction of the price and the game can also be brought with the grid type mat to make it more 'arcade' style. The very same game is also available as a box which plugs directly into your TV (you can't use any other games with it - it's designed to only run the DDR type game) and includes the dance mats as well. These you should be able to buy from game and/or toy stores or if need be, online.
As for using them to exercise they are awesome! I don't personally use them (I refuse to unless it's when I'm somewhere abroad, hehe) but they also are a great help with co-ordination and improving reflexes. :D
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How can I get tan and not get burnt?
Sunscreen would be a good thing to use so that you don't burn as well as not staying in the sun too long. Sunscreen is available in various strengths depending on your skin type and how sensitive it is to getting burnt in the sun - you should be able to get information about this when buying the sunscreen.
As an alternative there is always using those fake sun tan lotions (which I personally don't think look that good) as well as using a sun bed. :]
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Hey, it's x0xJENNiFERx0x. Recently I've really been hanging with my neighbors a lot. We like do EVERYTHING together. There's not a single thing we don't tell each other. We are both girls but there is a BIG age difference between us. Sara [ my neighbor ] is 19 and I am 14. See the difference.
Well one day, Sara's dad started to talk to my mom. Which is a casual thing since we are nieghbors. I figured they were talking about cars.
Well, when my mom was done, she came inside, and got REALLY mad because she thinks I am starving myself but I am not. My mom is the kind of mom that ALWAYS works. She never even sees me. In conclusion, she thinks I'm starving myself!!! I eat but not when she is home! She even told me 'EWWW your so fat!!!'
Sara's dad thinks the reason for that is because Sara one had an eating disorder. I WAS LIKE...WTF! THAT WAS LIKE 1 YEAR AGO!
They say we go on the computer and search on Froogle for food we can't have!!!
I got really mad because, since I am Asian, my parents are very strict. For my family doesn't have the greatest reputation, they want me to be this smart-stay away from boys- kinda girl.
Since Sara has a boyfriend [ Kyle ] my mom has become even more strict. Like, one time, Kyle was tickling me and my parents were like 'that young boy shouldn't be touching you that way.'
Okay, no offense to my parents, but I need a social life. I am excluded from school because I am an Asian so i really don't have close friends. Sara was the first to except that I am Asian and doesn't care.
Since Sara lives so close, I can just walk to her house to hang out. BUT, now it all changes because of her parents and MINE.
URRRGHHHHHHHH! :-[
Am I taking this too far? I just want to hang and chill with my best friend. What is a girl to do???
Sincerly,
FRANTIC FRIEND.
Hi x0xJENNiFERx0x.
I can relate, I am also asian and my parents were like that ALL the time. All my friends were friends I had at school. Out of school there were no friends and I had no one to really hang out with apart from my cousin. Even when one of my friends came by mine to see if I wanted to hang out (she was a girl, I'm a guy) my parents got really weird with me about hanging out with girls when I should be studying etc, etc, etc (I'm sure you get the idea). It's not just you it happens to I've also been there and to a degree am still stuck there which is a real pain in the ass.
All you can really do is try explain to your parents that you're not starving yourself because you're smarter than that. Telling your kids they are fat is a very stupid thing to do in my opinion and when my uncle used to say that to his daughter (younger than me but we get along really, really well) I remember how one my other family members 'told him off' about it saying how that can be very bad for a kids self esteem.
I wouldn't say you're taking this too far at all to be honest and as I said, I'm asian too so I know how it can be virtually impossible to try explain your side of things when parents just never listen and no matter what it is - they are right and you're wrong. All you can really do is try and talk to them and sort it out or come to some kind of arrangement (stress that you won't hang out with your friend unless it's just you and her and her bf won't be there) and how, if they want to, they can see what you look up on the internet and how it's nothing to do with stuff you shouldn't eat and such.
It's hard but at the end of the day they are trying to look out for you. Although I do appreciate it with my parents I have to admit a lot of things I do I can't even tell them the truth about because they just won't listen or understand my side of things. Doing it behind their back is all well and done but at the end of the day I feel if I'm not doing anything wrong I shouldn't have to lie about it. It's really stupid. Bare in mind though I am NOT saying to meet your friend behind their back and such. Trust me they WILL find out and it will just make you look even more guilty in their eyes. Just try and talk to them or try let them cool down and make them understand everything your friends dad is afraid of isn't true.
Good luck and feel free to write if I can heklp any more. :]
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Okay this question may be kind of long and confusing but i thank you in advance if you can read it and help me. I've liked this kid well say bob for 2 years.although hes 2 years older than me and i dont really know him , know him. Okay so i really like this kid and i cant figure out why and everything. Anyways somehow we got a hold of his number (me and my bestfriend) and called him , adn than my bestfriend started texting him. She said she likes him. I dont know if this has happened to anyone but it breaks my heart.we already went through this when she liked him the first time and she lied to me about it.Than she said it hurt too much that it hurt me , so she didnt like him anymore.Than she likes him again. She said she could see them going out and everything , and that makes me want to puke because i've never liked a guy this long. Trust me, I've tried talking to her. I was balling my eyes out and she still likes him and everything. What else can i do besides tell her that it kills me inside. All she says is " im sorry, and you cant help who you like." i really need help. thanks
Although your friend is right, that you can't help who she likes it also means you also can't help who you like. If you like him then talk to him, tell him you like him and see what happens. At the end of the day it's fair enough you both like him but if he feels the same, he can only be with one of you - provided he even wants to be with either of you.
I'm not saying get into a competition with your friend here or try stab her in the back or anything but if you like him as well then by all means make sure he knows that. If you don't say anything or at least act on how you feel now you may never get the chance to again and if that happens it may be something you might end up regretting for a long time because it was when you had the chance to do something, but you didn't.
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can you unsend a msg on myspace.. if it hasnt been read ?
Nope, once you've sent a message there's no way to get it back whether it's been read or not. Sorry.
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I'm looking to get a pre-paid cell phone. Here's what I need:
-Pre-paid
-Free nights and weekends (optional)
-free texting
I don't mind paying for the talking I do. It also needs to be a phone I can get at a store. Not ordered.
Thanks!!
Provided you're in the UK:
o2 offer a nice little pack on pre-paid packages where if you top up by £1- every month you will get 300 free txt messages. This can be changed for a number of other free 'gifts' instead though as well as o2 having a lot of other promotions going as well.
Orange offer the same deal with the added 2-4-1 cinema tickets every Wednesdays for participating cinemas which can be very helpful if you have a gf or a friend you want to go to the cinema with on a regular basis. Orange also offer free call time on certain pay and go packages but you will need to check at an Orange store about these.
Vodafone don't really offer any text messages as far as I know, but I am not certain onthis because I have not used my Vodafone sim in a very long time. If topped up though per month you will get free evening and weekend calls to any number and only pay for the first 3 mins of the call - after which the call will be free (up to an hour). After the hour is up you just hang up and call the person back. ;]
All these packages are available in their relative stores on the high streets and packages with phones can be pretty cheap (I think the cheapest I saw with a basic phone was about £40 or so) or you can buy just the SIM cards on their own for £5-10 per card (I personally have over 30 o2 SIM cards that havenot been opened as well as a dozen Orange SIM cards). Best thing is to check them all out at the stores, their salesmen are usually very eager to help. :]
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So I'm a teenage girl, don't say that i'm "young" or "naive" or immature or anything, because i'm not any of those things. I have the maturity of a college student and the appearance of one. (so i've been told)
So, my problem is this. The only things i've done are: kissing a guy on the cheek/neck (it was between the two) and I had phone sex a few times. And that's all I've done exept for cybering when i was a lot younger.
I told my "friend" this because we were talking about how far we've gone- and he says "aww. I feel bad for you." because he's fooled around with many different guys. (he's gay)
Is it normal that i've only done the things i've done? If I had a significant other, I'd go all the way in an instant, I don't have any religious reasons to hold back. I'd also fool around without protest. And i would be willing to make out on the first date even.
So why haven't I been able to lose my virginity? It's all I want out of life.
I masturbate regularly and I've been orgasmic for quite some time.
If all you want out of life is to lose your virginity then you've not got much of a life to look forward to, especially if you think that's all life is about.
Also, as much as you'll hate me saying this, just because you act mature and look older than you are it *doesn't* mean you are. And judging by what you had said about all you wanting out of life is to lose your virginity it shows your ignorance and immaturity because clearly you have no idea what life is actually about.
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