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bestfriend//boy
Okay this question may be kind of long and confusing but i thank you in advance if you can read it and help me. I've liked this kid well say bob for 2 years.although hes 2 years older than me and i dont really know him , know him. Okay so i really like this kid and i cant figure out why and everything. Anyways somehow we got a hold of his number (me and my bestfriend) and called him , adn than my bestfriend started texting him. She said she likes him. I dont know if this has happened to anyone but it breaks my heart.we already went through this when she liked him the first time and she lied to me about it.Than she said it hurt too much that it hurt me , so she didnt like him anymore.Than she likes him again. She said she could see them going out and everything , and that makes me want to puke because i've never liked a guy this long. Trust me, I've tried talking to her. I was balling my eyes out and she still likes him and everything. What else can i do besides tell her that it kills me inside. All she says is " im sorry, and you cant help who you like." i really need help. thanks
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Although your friend is right, that you can't help who she likes it also means you also can't help who you like. If you like him then talk to him, tell him you like him and see what happens. At the end of the day it's fair enough you both like him but if he feels the same, he can only be with one of you - provided he even wants to be with either of you.
I'm not saying get into a competition with your friend here or try stab her in the back or anything but if you like him as well then by all means make sure he knows that. If you don't say anything or at least act on how you feel now you may never get the chance to again and if that happens it may be something you might end up regretting for a long time because it was when you had the chance to do something, but you didn't.
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I know you dont wanna hear this but she can't help who she likes. Shes right. Its not something you can help, all you can do is be happy for your friend.
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