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How far I've gone
So I'm a teenage girl, don't say that i'm "young" or "naive" or immature or anything, because i'm not any of those things. I have the maturity of a college student and the appearance of one. (so i've been told)
So, my problem is this. The only things i've done are: kissing a guy on the cheek/neck (it was between the two) and I had phone sex a few times. And that's all I've done exept for cybering when i was a lot younger.
I told my "friend" this because we were talking about how far we've gone- and he says "aww. I feel bad for you." because he's fooled around with many different guys. (he's gay)
Is it normal that i've only done the things i've done? If I had a significant other, I'd go all the way in an instant, I don't have any religious reasons to hold back. I'd also fool around without protest. And i would be willing to make out on the first date even.
So why haven't I been able to lose my virginity? It's all I want out of life.
I masturbate regularly and I've been orgasmic for quite some time.
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If it's all you have to look forward to, you'll be mighty disappointed when it does happen. Your first time is never really that great!
I was in the same situation as you at one point, absolutely desperate to lose my virginity. I ended up having to wait because nobody was interested, and it's probably the best thing to ever happen to me. I lost it to my first love, and even though it sucked something awful, it was nice because we were in love.
It's absolutely normal. All this talk of twelve-year-olds having sex is sickening; you should only have sex once you can deal with the consequences.
Just think what you're missing out on; STDs, worrying about pregnancy, all the emotional crap that goes with it, etc.
Keep masturbating till it happens, but don't go leaping at the first opportunity. Make sure it's someone you care about, because it'll be that much better.
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If all you want out of life is to lose your virginity then you've not got much of a life to look forward to, especially if you think that's all life is about.
Also, as much as you'll hate me saying this, just because you act mature and look older than you are it *doesn't* mean you are. And judging by what you had said about all you wanting out of life is to lose your virginity it shows your ignorance and immaturity because clearly you have no idea what life is actually about.
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Wow that's really lame, all you want out of life is to lose your virginity? So you mean you would have sex with some random guy just to meet your needs? SLUTTYY! That might not be what you mean but from what I read you seem like a desperate whore. Maybe your still a virgin because you are so desperate. Just be patient and wait until your time comes.... maturity of a college student... yeah right.
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