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I have gone from younggrandma to just yg. Now,
I am using my real name.
I don't think anyone who knows me will have trouble figuring out who that is!


I have been gone a while dealing with things in my own life. I am back now to help once again. Do not expect answers from me that just tell you what you want to hear. Life is to short for nonsense. :)
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how do you spell
supercalafragilistickexpeeallidoeshis properly?
i rate high if you arent snobby when you answer (link)
SUPERCALIFRAGILISTICKEXPIALIDOCIOUS

There you go. From Mary Poppins right? :)



how do you give yourself orgasms
personal opinions help and so do websites. (link)
Here is a link.
http://www.coolnurse.com/masturbation.htm


This may sound odd, but how do you grind? (link)
It means to dance by rotating the pelvis in an erotically suggestive way. :)


I think my dad is going to ask Jan to marry him? What do I do. I like her but am I possitive?
ill rate! (link)
If your dad is in love with Jan and asks her to marry him, you'll just have to try and get along.
You don't have to like her, you just need to get along for dads sake.


how do i masterbate?
im female! (link)
http://www.coolnurse.com/masturbation.htm


Ok WEll when ever im at my house and i do something god without being told my mom is always proud of me and if i ask her for something like a shirt of the internet she will say yes since ive done so much work well today i went online and found 2 things i really liked and i was going to do stuff like vacume and mow the lawn to get it but unfornalty my mom already hired someone to mow the lawn and she already cleaned the whole house. I know you guys dont know what my house looks like but do u think you could like give me some suggestions on somethings to clean up or somethings good that you know you can thnk of thx!ill rate on anyones good advice
Sarah (link)
Lets see...cleaning the inside of the fridge is something I hate doing. Mom may like that!

How about straightening up a closet or two? Hope that helps a little. :)


how do you get "stars" like you have 4 1/2 stars in your info when you browse culumnists (link)
You get the stars based on what your rating is.
My rating is 4.74 (last I looked), so I have no quite 5 stars. :)


How do you get rid of pimples.. fast as possible that is. (link)
You can't really get rid of acne real fast. Here is a link though that will help you figure out what might be done to prevent it in the first place, as well as how to treat it. :)

http://familydoctor.org/001.xml


Ok so my friend had a guy she barely knew go down on her like 2 months ago...and yesterday she noticed a red bump on her vagina..she was sorta worried about it but wasnt sure if it was an std from the guy or just a bump. If someone transfer an std to you..will symptoms show up right away? (link)
Here are two site links. I really don't think its Genital herpes because it would be more of a blister. Do some reading though so you know what to look for. :)

http://www.coolnurse.com/genital_herpes.htm

http://kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/stds/std_herpes.html


okay i know this may be a stupid question, but on myspace one of the choices for your relationship status is "swinger", what does that mean? i rate 5's for REAL answers. (link)
swing·er (swĭng'ər)
n.
One that swings: a good swinger of baseball bats.
Slang.
A person who actively seeks excitement and moves with the latest trends.
A person who engages freely in promiscuous sex.
A member of a couple, especially a married couple, who exchanges sexual partners.




is there anything wrong with being a guy and listing to britney spears. (link)
Of course there isn't. Music is there for everyone to enjoy. Besides, think she dresses the way she does for the girls in her audience? I don't think you are alone! :)


Is it bad for you to use a tampon when your not actually menustrating? I am supposed to start today or tomorrow and i just don't want to get caught by suprise. Would it be harmful if i put on in while i was still clean? (link)
Probably won't hurt anything. Be sure to change it every so often, just as you would if you were on your period. :)


So we just started school back up this Tuesday and I like it just fine. But the only problem is that I don't have any friends. And I sit alone at lunch, and all the kids look at me like "OMG what a loser.." I actually heard some kid behind me say to one of his friends about "oh look at the girl sitting by herself" and he laughed like it was the funniest thing in the world.

I am a very shy person, and I have actually tried to go up to a few people and ask if I can sit with them. They say yes but don't talk to me and make me feel really uncomfortable around them so it's pointless to sit with them. I have contemplated just going to sit in the bathroom or library at lunch.

But the only problem with that is I have to eat during lunch, because if I don't, when I come home I'll eat alot. My mom and I get food stamps and every month they lower the price so I can't eat all the food. What do I do? Do I just suck it up and sit by myself everyday? Or do I just not eat so much? Please help! I will rate! (link)
You definitely need to eat your lunch. I found a site that has really good tips for shy people. See if there is anything useful here you can use to help you strike up some conversations.

http://www.shykids.com/shykidschitchat.htm

http://www.shykids.com/shykidsconfidence.htm

I really think you'll find some useful stuff on those sites. Let me know if they are helpful. :)


Ok see im 13 and im normal weight for a 13 yr old girl, but it seems like all the boys in my grade are smaller.. i mean literly smaller than me- shorter and less weight. i don't no what the " deal " .

Help so i can undersatnd (link)
Girls just mature faster than boys. They will soon catch up. Everything is normal. :)


Is an orgasm the same thing as cumming? If it helps I am 13/f
Thanks! (link)
or·gasm (ôr'găz'əm)
n.
The highest point of sexual excitement, marked by strong feelings of pleasure and marked normally by ejaculation of semen by the male and by vaginal contractions within the female. Also called climax.

The noun coming has 4 meanings:

Meaning #1: the act of drawing spatially closer to something
Synonyms: approach, approaching


Meaning #2: arrival that has been awaited (especially of something momentous)
Synonym: advent


Meaning #3: the temporal property of becoming nearer in time
Synonyms: approach, approaching


Meaning #4: the moment of most intense pleasure in sexual intercourse
Synonyms: orgasm, climax, sexual climax



Looks like it. :)


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Why do guys have to turn and cough when they get their physical? (link)
So the doctor can check their prostate gland.


what is herpes??
(link)
herpes (hur-peez)

A group of related diseases and the viruses that cause them. These diseases are marked by the development of blisterlike sores on the skin or mucous membranes of the body. The herpes virus may invade the mouth region, producing fever blisters or cold sores, or may cause a sexually transmitted disease in which the painful sores appear on the genitals. Chicken pox is another disease caused by a herpes virus.


After an infection, the virus remains dormant and may return at a later time. Shingles, for example, is a recurrence of the chicken pox virus, and outbreaks of genital herpes recur over time.



Okay..skool starts on monday and im freakin out..im about to go into highskool and i only know my 1 of my friends that are going to the same skool..and we have 3 classes together plus lunch..okay..my question is..how can i talk to more people?! i dont wanna be the little quiet shy girl..i mean..im really crazy if you get the chance to get to know me..(seriously..) but when i meet knew people my face gets red and i don't really know how to start up a conversation actually..its just that like..i dont like talkin to people i don't know. gahh its soo bad..anndd pleassee!! dont tell me to be more outgoing becuz i am..well mayb not the first day of skool..but..can yall give me sum advice?? tell me what i need to do to start talkin to people..and how to be like..the class clown and stuff in class! PLEASE I`LL RATE HIGH FOR GOOD ANSWERS!! (link)
Here is a site some others have told me is very helpful. :)

http://www.shykids.com/shykidschitchat.htm


ok this may sound stupid and sound like im totally clueless but can someone please tell me what these mean.....

kinky
titty f***ing
pussy
clit
cunt
and also does anyone know if you've never been high before if you do it will you get as high as someone who has been high a lot?

please someone tell me and i'll rate high!!!
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kink·y (kĭng'kē)
adj., -i·er, -i·est.
Tightly twisted or curled: kinky hair.
Slang. Showing or appealing to bizarre or deviant tastes, especially of a sexual or erotic nature: “his appetite for kinky filmmaking, unmitigated by any artistry” (John Simon).

Mammary intercourse or breast fucking is a form of outercourse. In this act, the man's penis is squeezed between the woman's breasts and stimulated. It is considered to be a form of safer sex; however, some women consider the act degrading because of the tendency to abrade the woman's skin in a sensitive area, and because the woman cannot achieve orgasm. References to "tit-fucking" are generally taboo in English-speaking countries.

The noun pussy has 2 meanings:

Meaning #1: obscene terms for female genitals
Synonyms: cunt, puss, slit, snatch, twat


Meaning #2: informal terms
Synonyms: kitty, kitty-cat, puss, pussycat

clit·o·ris (klĭt'ər-ĭs, klī'tər-)
n., pl. cli·to·ri·des (klĭ-tôr'ĭ-dēz').
A small erectile body situated at the anterior portion of the vulva and projecting between the branched extremities of the labia minora forming its prepuce and frenulum.
cunt (kŭnt)
n. Vulgar Slang.
The female genital organs.
Sexual intercourse with a woman.

cunt (kŭnt)
n. Vulgar Slang.
The female genital organs.
Sexual intercourse with a woman.

Offensive. Used as a disparaging term for a woman.
Used as a disparaging term for a person one dislikes or finds extremely disagreeable.

We don't give advice for getting high.


would it be considered taboo.. or incest for me to date my brothers fiances sister? i mean there is no blood connection.. hmm please help.. i dont knwo what to do (link)
No it wouldn't be taboo. Go for it. :)




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