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so here's the deal. my current ex boyfriend and i broke up after being on a break for almost 4 weeks. we were together for about a year. a month before this all happened my bessie dumped her ex because she wasn't happy with him and because she started to like another guy. so when they broke up, i was there for him -- and while my ex and i were on break/broken up, he was there for me. and i guess he started to like me A LOT. i have a few feelings for him, but i'm not sure if it's just because i miss having someone care about me. so here's the question, would it be wrong if me and him dated after i get over my ex [ which might take me a while. ] or would that be really disrespectful to my bessie ? i'm not sure. we're happy together. but first i need to make sure that what i'm feeling is true -- and not just rebound feelings. and then i need to get over the ex. so my main problem is what do i do about my best friend ? (link)
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Your best friend is no longer in the picture with him. They are broke up so they are both free to date whoever they please. If you want to date the friends ex, then go right ahead. It would be the polite thing to tell her about it, but it isn't her place to decide if you date him or not. It is yours. :)
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my [ex] boyfriend just got back from vacation. he broke up with me while he was there. and now that he's back -- he's confusing me. we did talk about what happened, and why he broke up with me and he says it was for the best. but then he acts like he doesn't even want to give me a chance to get over him. it's like, he doesn't want to be with me -- but then he doesn't want anyone else to be with me either. so what do i do ? i already waited for him to decide if he even still wanted to be with me for almost four weeks. i'm tired of waiting . what message am i getting here ? i'm really confused.
thanks.
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It isn't nice for him to keep stringing you along like that. Sometimes people, guys or girls, will string someone along so if they can't find someone they consider "better" they have a fall back. Don't play that game. You have given this guy plenty of time to decide if he wants to be with you. Hard as it will be, you need to forget him and move on to someone who will treat you right. :)
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I am starting high school this year. My mom told me she was in FHA club when she was in school. What other kinds of clubs are there? Does anybody belong to one that would be fun for me to try? I am a girl. (link)
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High school has a lot of different clubs. FHA, FFA, Golf, chess. They have things for any intrest you might think of. I didn't join any myself because I just wasn't the club joining type, but today you can find one for almost anything you might be interested in. :)
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Dear Younggrandma,
Recently my family went to the beach for the day with another family who had a 14 year old son and an 11 year old girl. I'm 13 and after the day was through I realized I'd fallen in love with the boy. His personality was perfect and he made me laugh and smile. His little sister has my SN but I doubt the boy would ask for it from his little sister. I don't know his SN or his sister's! I don't know what to do! I'm young and he lives far away from us and we only see him once a year. I've been thinking about him a lot! I've never liked anyone this much before!! What should I do? (link)
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If you went to the beach with this other family, someone must know where they live. Try looking up the dads name in the phone book. If you can get a phone number you can call the girl. Get her address and maybe even her brothers if you are brave enough to ask for it! If you can't find them that way then hopefully she will IM or email you soon. When she does, get her brothers info. Write them a note telling them you had a good time meeting them...that should get the ball rolling! Good Luck! :)
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can you get rid of STD's? like without seeing a doctor. and please just answer with a yes or no. no long paragraphs. didn't mean to be rude! (link)
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no
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how could start to flirt wit someone like what could u start off wit im a guy who needs help! (link)
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here is a link that may be of help.
http://www.romantic-lyrics.com/flirtideas.shtml
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i had sex with my boyfriend lastnight for the first time and the condom got stuck in me:( he wouldnt even try to get it out im really scared what shuld i do?!?!?! HELP ME!!!!!! (link)
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If this is true, go to an ER and have it removed.
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i have had thought of suicide in my mind about 6 times now. i have attempted it, but i dont think i have really tried hard enough to kill myself. do you think i would be concidered suicidal? (link)
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Yes I do.
su·i·cid·al (sū'ĭ-sīd'l)
adj.
Causing, intending, or relating to suicide: a suicidal act; suicidal impulses.
Dangerous to oneself or to one's interests; self-destructive or ruinous: a suicidal corporate takeover strategy.
You need to find someone to talk to about your problems. Preferably someone older who can help you get through it. You are probably having depression. It is easily treated. Set up an appointment with your family doctor and get some help immediately. Tell your doctor exactly what you're feeling. They keep it confidential so you don't need to worry about them telling anyone your business.
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i have been cutting myself for about 4 months now, i dont know how to stop, but i dont want to do it anymore. how do i stop and deal with my emotions in other ways? (link)
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There is a lot of good info to be found on this site. It gives tips on how to occupy yourself to keep from cutting, among other things. Hope you find it helpful. :)
http://health.discovery.com/centers/teen/cutters/cutters.html
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I've had an eating disorder for a couple years now. I start to get over it during the summer, then it all comes back like nothing ever happened during school. It's so bad that my clothes actually fit alot looser on me at the end of the day, that's how much weight i'm losing. But i dont' realy care. My question is, i need something to keep me going. I don't care what, but it's gonna have to be something that is like a normal drug (not a bad drug..but you know what i mean) that just..gives you a high or something. I just need ideas because i've almost fainted before and my friends know what's going on. I just need a way to stay awake and feeling really good so they won't realize. Any suggestions other than start eating again?!?!?! I'll rate high and sorry cuz it's so long. (link)
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You really do need to get some help. Not eating is very dangerous and even life threatening. Please check these sites for info. :)
http://familydoctor.org/277.xml
http://www.fda.gov/fdac/reprints/eatdis.html
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ok.. like.. i have a boyfriend and all. we have not kissed yet.. but he keeps on telling me online that he wants to... so when i go on the dates with him im always nervous and cautious and stuff. i mean i never kissed anyone before. and i don't now how to do it .. like i dun want to just like stay there frozen... like.. when you normally get your first kiss like even if you don't know how like do you just do it.. or.. cuz i am like really nervous and stuff...
im so confused
Rissa
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im 13 (link)
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Its not at all hard to do. No reason to be nervous. I have found a website that can help you out if you'd like to take a look. :)
http://www.links2love.com/teens_kissing.htm
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wut is the order of puberty?
btw im a guy so wut is the order and how long does it take 2 go throw it?
i know im going throw it and i want 2 know wut comes first and last and how long it takes.....? (link)
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I have just the website for all your puberty questions.
http://www.coolnurse.com/puberty.htm
This site will answer all your questions...and probably some you haven't thought of yet. :)
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a friend of mine said dr pepper will make a girls "stuff" stink. is that true? (link)
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I don't know what "stuff" your talking about...but it doesn't make anything stink! Drink Dr Pepper if you want to. I don't think it will be a problem. :)
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okay i think about sex like all the time and i really really really wanna have it..but i dont at the same time ya know? i do just because i have fingered myself before and well i liked it. alot. so i was just wondering if there is any other way i can release my "sexual tension" or w/e otherwords other ways of getting the an orgasm without a guy...thanks in advanced! (link)
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http://www.coolnurse.com/masturbation.htm
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okay.. well i think i started my peroid lol.. okay well .. i had this reddish brown discharge since saturday and now today and yesterday its been pure red.. did i start ? and its only noticable when i wipe and theres alot on the tp.. but none comes out in to the toilet .. can you explain that? (link)
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Its probably just because its your first period. Nothing to worry about. Here is a site for you to read up on things. I'm sure you'll have more questions so, give it a look. :)
http://www.coolnurse.com/menstrual.htm
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Hi- Ever since I got my first period almost three years ago I've had a strange depository in my underwear. Im 15 and a female and I don't think that it's a yeast infection because the depository is not "clumps" or "chunks" nor is my vagina itchy, the depository is a white gooey liquid that I always see. I eat healthy and I'm still a virgin. I expected it to go away but Im starting to realise that it may actually be a problem.
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I think you are probably just fine. Here is a site that may help you understand things.
http://www.coolnurse.com/vagina.htm
Do some looking around on the site, it contains lots of useful information. :)
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My boyfriend sits by like all girls in most of his classes, and he always seems to be flirtin with them. It also doesnt help that they're prettier than me. I was wondering if it's normal to feel jealous about this, and if so what should i do? I already tried talking to him about it, and he just kind of blew the subject off saying 'o no we werent flirting', evne though it looked like him and the girls were. Help please! (link)
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Yes it is normal to be jealous. He probably means nothing by it though. He may not even realize what hes doing is flirting. Try not to let it bother you to much, if hes a real flirty guy he probably won't stop. That doesn't mean he feels different toward you though, or even that he likes the other girls. :)
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i wrote...i keep going for a wee the last few days, i've been at least 8-10 times just today i did have unprotected sex just over 2 week ago but he did pull out before he came i know people do get pregnant from the "pull out" method also im 10 days late for a period it isn't unsual for me tho but could i be pregnant?
but i would like to add...
this is really scaring me now still no period... 15 days late and today i've been geting this clear odorless liquid even when its dry its still clear not like dischanrge! i keep feeling a bit sick normally around the morning/lunch time and i kinda fainted the other day like i was sitting on the chair then i found myself on the floor :| (link)
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I think you really need a pregnancy test. If you can't get to a doctor or clinic then get a home test. You can get them anywhere. Here is a link if I didn't give it to you last time. It has symptoms, tells about the home test, and has some 800 numbers and a lot of info.
http://www.coolnurse.com/pregnancy.htm
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my girlfriend wants me to kiss her. i don't quite know how...what i'm supposed to exactly... where my arms/hands go? how long... and i don't want to seem that bad at it. any tips? (link)
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How about a link. They explian it much better than I can! :)
http://www.links2love.com/teens_kissing.htm
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what are the symtoms to a yeist infection?
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Rather than write it all out I will give you a site link. I'm sure you will have more questions
once you know the symptoms. This site will answer them all for you. :)
http://www.coolnurse.com/yeast.htm
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