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mixed emotions
my [ex] boyfriend just got back from vacation. he broke up with me while he was there. and now that he's back -- he's confusing me. we did talk about what happened, and why he broke up with me and he says it was for the best. but then he acts like he doesn't even want to give me a chance to get over him. it's like, he doesn't want to be with me -- but then he doesn't want anyone else to be with me either. so what do i do ? i already waited for him to decide if he even still wanted to be with me for almost four weeks. i'm tired of waiting . what message am i getting here ? i'm really confused.
thanks.
<33 jessica
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It isn't nice for him to keep stringing you along like that. Sometimes people, guys or girls, will string someone along so if they can't find someone they consider "better" they have a fall back. Don't play that game. You have given this guy plenty of time to decide if he wants to be with you. Hard as it will be, you need to forget him and move on to someone who will treat you right. :)
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Dear <33 jessica
Maybe he just does not want no one in his life right now maybe hes going through a stage in life where he doesnt like no one.
Hope advice helps!!!!!!!!!
Good luck in your journey in life!!
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you should just move one because he is just having trouble letting go.
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Hey Hun! I know how you feel when my boyfriend cheated on me I was tore all to pieces. And we were on vacation too, but when we got back he told me why he did it and all that but I started talkin to other ppl and he didnt like it at all. But my advice for you is to just get over him you will find someone better on down the road.
Hope I Helped!
Britt
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Okay, I was very very [less than a week ago] in your situation. My boyfriend went to Brazil for a month, and broke up with me before he left. If he's STILL deciding, then he's either saying something, or there's someone else. Just talk to him and if he still can't decide, find someone else!
♥ Melissa
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my ex boyfriend did the sameee thingg dont let him use you like that he probably doesnt want you to find someone before he does guys are like that. Either he doesnt want you to find a new guy, or he just likes all the attention you're giving him. so just dont act all into him act more as friends if he puts ur arm around u move his arm off.
hope i helped..good luck.
ashley<3
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The message is that human beings are jealous and petty. Even after they've broken up with someone, they don't want to see that person end up with anyone else.
That's not particularly admirable, but it's very human. All you can do is try to ignore him and move on. If he decides that he wants to be with you again, he can TELL you so - no games, no BS. But I'd suggest thinking twice about taking him back if he DOES want to make up, because after one breakup, the odds are really good that it will happen again and again whenever it's convenient for him.
It's time to lead your own life.
Good luck!
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