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i really wanna get into modeling im 13 and im 5 10.5 and alot of people tell me id b a perfect for a model..it sounds fun and pays well cause neone tell me how to ask your parents[ my mom and family alreayd say i should model] and how to get into modeling skool and recommend ne skools to go to..? i live near boston by the way i am skinny and a lil muscular + african american[dark skin] please help and give me all u can!
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try going to
www.barbizonmodeling.com

that should give you a ton of information

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i write lyrics to songs and i write poetry and stuff a lot but i don't know where i can show it off without it getting stolen from me. do any of you know where i can display my poems/songs to where people won't take them and say they are thiers? (link)
you could put it on xanga and put in a code so people cant steal it

if you want the code IM me anytime and ill give it to you

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what are some good screamo bands.. for example slipnot otep etc. ... will rate 5's for anyone who answers.. thanks ;-) (link)
story of the year

3 days grace

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Okay. I've gone out with this boy 3 times. We've been broken up for about 4 months but I still love him very much. I told him I liked him still and he told me that he liked me too. We'll talk online a lot but the weird thing is that once in awhile, he won't IM me. Almost like he doesn't want to talk to me. When we do talk though, he'll say that we need to hang out and he actually talks to me and we get into a conversation. He asked me out on Thursday but I said no because I just couldn't figure out what was going on and I'd rather have him ask me out on the phone or something and not online. So basically my question is..does he like me or not? What exactly is goin on?? I'll rate 5's for good answers and 1's for smartass ones. THANKS! (link)
you should talk to him about this
give him a call and tell him all you have to say or you guys could just hang out as friends and talk
and there is nothing wrong with asking a person out though IM but i understand its coming more from them if it was on the phone
just hang out with him as friends
but i think he still might like you just doesnt know how to get his feelings out

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well i got my cell like two weeks ago.. and i set up my voicemail to the original verizon message thing... and i want to create my own.. but i don't know what to do.. i odn't really want to be like hey this is ____ please leave a message blah blah or like hey... who is this... ohh hey whats up... ohh well im not here right now so leave a message .. i want something else.. can you help me out? easy 5 (link)
you could put your favorite song (or any song) as your voicemail i have that and its really cute

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This might sound weird but i am 15 and turning 16 in May 06'. One thing that i'm concerned about is that i haven't gotten my period yet:-/! is that not normal? is it bad that i haven't gotten it yet? I mean im going to be a sophmore and i still haven't gotten it...please helpp! (link)
hey sweety
i used to have a friend and she told me her mom didnt get hers until she was 16 so if i were you i wouldnt worry
but if you really want to know more then go to see a doctor

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hello...
the other night i went to my friends b-day party and the girls(and guys) triple dog dared me to call up this guy (hes kinda a nerd) and ask him out just to see what he would say...
so i called him (not thinking of what i was getting into) and he said yes. so anyway i saw him at the coffee shop the next day and told him what my friends dared me to do...and BIG MISTAKE i told him who dared me. now he is "plotting revenge" against them...
do i tell my friends what is going to happen to them or not?

BTW: im 13/f and dont tell me that i was retarded for doing that because i already know that. WILL RATE enless its a smartass answer. (link)
you should tell your friend what happened and try to talk the guy out of the whole "plotting revenge"
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i was reading this thing that said most guys like to have the girl make the first move -- guys, is this true??

and when do you kno when to make the first move?? i usually dont do it, i wait for the guy
but like, say your sitting in the movies...and your holding hands or something...when do you kno when the "right time" is to kiss him? (link)
in my opinion i think the guy should make the first move but there is nothing wrong with a girl making the first move
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condom packages always say that they are like 99% effective if used correctly and stuff, but in school we learned that since condoms are latex like balloons, they have tiny holes in them that sperm can swim through. wtf. how effictive is that? (link)
hey hun your school is teaching you the wrong thing
maybe they are just trying to scare you guys
but condoms are 99% effective and they dont have holes in them that sperm can swim through

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i had unprotected sex about 3 days ago. he didn't cum inside me, so i know i'm not pregnant. but could i still have gotten any stds, even though there haven't been any signs so far? (link)
yea there is a chance you could have gotten an STD if he has one

go to the doctors and get tested

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Aight, which girl should I go with? Here are my options:

-Sort of preppy, very smart, I like her, she likes me as a friend
-Best friend's sister. Sort of tom-girl-ish
-Internet girl. 2 years older than me. I like her, she likes me. We share similar interests. Don't know what country she lives in. Haven't seen her in 2 months.
-Tomgirl. Known her since I was a year and a half old. Fairly smart.

Please help, I usually rate 5s if I choose to rate, and I'll leave comments. Wiseasses get 1s. (link)
i dont think its a decision we can make
this decision has to be your own
but dont even think about going for the internet girl because you said you dont even know what country she lives in
but if you really want a girl chosen then go for the tomgirl since you have know her for a very long time

but like i said only you can make this decision
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How do you make words bigger or bold or italics and everything on myspace? like on "about me" or "general" or whatever. kthnx! (link)
www.myspacehtml.net

go to that site and you will find it

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I am kind of sad because all of my friends have a b/f and I dont...... I know it sounds child like but it has been this way for a year now... I mean I am not the best looking but I still want someone.... idk what I should do..... btw 15/female (link)
hey sweety your not the only one in this world that feels this way believe me

there are so many girls/guys that wish they had somebody just because their friends do

i used to be like that about 2 years ago but i learned to live with it and i told my self my time will come and you should too!

your time will come you just have to wait

for now enjoy being single flirt with as many guys as you want and just enjoy living life to the fullest

you dont always need a guy to make you happy

but your time will come trust me on that one

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So I got side swept bangs today. My hairdresser didnt really make the bangs thick enough, she hardly used any hair. I want to cut a little bit of my hair just so I can make it a little thicker. She used sort of a razor looking thing to cut the hair with, so maybe I could use a razor to cut my hair with? This is probably a bad idea but has anyone ever done it? (link)
i have never done such a thing
and i recommand you dont either it might demage your hair

if you are really not pleased with what the hairdresser did with your hair go back to the salon and ask her to fix it the way you want

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me and my parents are on the cingular family plan.. the 2 yr contract is up so were gettin new phone n all that soon. my mom didnt put text messaging on my phone before but now shes lettin me have it on the new one. shes psycho and gets detailed billing and checks who im talking to and when .. so my question is, does text messaging come up on the bill? like what number or screen name im texting n all that? (link)
i have cingular as well and only the number, cost, and date shows up


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Well, for the past week or so I've been discharging heavily, this is nothing new, but my discharge is brown. It's usually not that color, at all. What could be wrong? I'm no sexually active at all, but is around the time I usually get my period. Is something wrong? (link)
no nothing is wrong that just means that your going to get your period in a few days or sooner

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I have liked this guy for a year. He said he liked me and to wait till summer so we can be together. Well its summer and he still never asked me out or anything. Hes hurt me soo many times. I met this other great guy and i think we have something. And I know that he'll never hurt me. I dont know who to like!!! (link)
hey sweety

you should go for the new guy that you met

forget about the other guy who said that you could be together in the summer

if he didnt ask you out then hes not worth it

but no one can really tell you who to like the heart makes that decision

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hi ive been using proactive for about 3 weeks. at first my acne was just around my nose, eyebrowns, and mouth. now its still there and alot started to form on my cheeks and forehead! This really depreses and upsets me because i thought this would work and ive been putting up with this for a while and im really starting to get really low self esteem because i see people with perfect skin and i just want that so bad. i dont know what i should do, i also tried on the spot neautrogena acne treatment, but it made me acne really red. Should i keep using the proactiv and just wait a little longer and see if it clears my face up? I dont know what to do, i have no more money i spent it all on the proactiv so i dont realy no what to do.

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dont give up on proactive it does work

i use it too and its been 2 weeks

and right now its been getting pretty bad

thats the way it works

it gets worser then it gets better

so keep using it

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well...okay. One time i talked to this guy that i had never met b4, and he was pretty cool. and the more we started talking the more i liked him. And one of the things we talked about was his GF had broken up with him. And i thought well...maybe we could online date...after we get to know each other...and now i talked to him agian yesterday and he said hes found a new gf. and shes awesome and tall and stuff. And my ? is...should i still try to flirt with him and stuff to get him to like me? or stay there as a friend? or what??i REALLY like him too!!! HELP! (link)
well if its online go ahead and flirt

but since he does have a girlfriend your chances of getting with him are pretty slim

but give it a try

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does anyone know any html sites that i could use to make my myspace more interesting? like boxes, layouts, fonts etc..

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http://www.myspacehtml.net

hope that helps you out

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