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I am honest, I am blunt, At times an asshole but one thing I can promise, I'll never lie.












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I'm a stay at home mom that's still in school I'm currently in 12th grade with no job because transportation would be hard for me and I don't trust just trust anyone to babysit my child so I was wondering are there any real jobs I can apply for online until I am able to have the transportation I need and a babysitter I trust? Thanks in advance.



If your taking about online employment work from home, Nope. They aren't trust worthy and I would recommended it.

Try Walmart, Stop n Shop, Target, Khols etc.

As for the babysitter I don't blame you. I would require a background check and cpr certified ;-)

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I have been Married for24 drs. My husband is verd RESPONSABLE hardware morning mando. The problema is after I turno 35drs told My lavito want high. And His completo went donwn. IM allwadways angry in a Badajoz mode. he tres to impress comen when he Cant eventos pliss me WHAT can I do



Is your husband under stress? Depressed. Or taking medication? These could be a possibility of a low sex drive. It is also possible he may have erectile dysfunction but only a doctor would ve able to determine that. I suggest talking to him about the problem and possibly see a doctor.

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The guy I'm talking to is always talking about girls he'd like to have sex with. We'll be talking about something and all of a sudden he'll send me a pic of a celebrity and be like "I would last 3 seconds man those legs she'd be mad but I would be the happiest man alive". Am I wrong to have my feelings hurt? Everytime he does that i just want to cry and i dont really know why. hes not one of those guys you can be emotionally vulnerable eith either so im stuck keeping it bottled in. I know we're not technically dating but I just think its disrespectful i never do that to him so why does he do that to me? I can't help but think maybe hes not even really interested in me. I get guys are naturally sexual people but does he have to always tell me about all the girls he'd like to screw? I'm 22 and he's 19 btw



He isn't exactly would I would call boyfriend material. Sounds like you got your answer, He is all about sex not commitment. If he is talking to you one minute then sending you pictures and talking about sex, he isn't listening nor showing interest in you. Basically he is rude and very immature. Take a pass

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So its starts at the beginning of January after winter break:
I joined the play cause Susan(the girl i likED)joined and in the play we should be flirty and all. But then at the start of rehearsals, i started ignoring Susan and thinking about another girl called Victoria. I thought about her day and night, and i was really falling for her, but before i knew it we became good friends and we started hugging and kissing on the cheeks(by the way, she is a brave person and hugs many people.) so we became very good friends and i was also a very good friend of her best-friend. Then the valentines dance came, and she came up to me and her best-friend and asked us to go with her to the dance, which means 2 girls and 1 boy. We both accepted... but there is always a bigger fish!
So another guy asked her(hes like 3 years older than her, but he is also a friend of mine.)and she eventually ditched us two. Then one of our cast members dropped out and we had to search for a new member which eventually became Tom, the one victoria went to the dance with. He started acting flirty with her, and of course there was some jealousy within me, but she didn't stop the hugging and kissing on the cheek. After the play we were still friends and life went on.
March:
Another dance came up, and i recently found out that she likes Tom. I asked her out to the dance no-matter what, and she responded saying:
"I LOVE YOU!! you have a cute but,lol!"
and i was thinking if this is a rejection or if she accepted. But then she said she was going to the dance with nobody. So i thought that it was a kind way of rejecting me, but i also thought that maybe just maybe she was waiting for Tom to ask her, and if he didn't she would go with me.
My question is:
what should i do? i know i should not ask her out to a real date, but Tom is graduating this year.Should i just wait for next year? What should i do???
*all the names here are made up names.



Now that you gave more detail I am also going to say move on.

Victoria likes Tom, " I love you" is not even a straight answer. If she was interested in you then she would be focused on you. Your right, Sounds like she is waiting for Tom to ask. Stop wasting your time.

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Hey guys,

My husband hates the taste of mayo so I was wondering if there was substitutes I could use in things like macaroni salads etc etc. I don't need ideas for what to put on sandwiches, because that's an easy fix. However for recipes that call for it in a sauce for example, I have no idea what to use instead.

Thanks a bunch!



Miracle Whip

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16/F

Me and my boyfriend I guess had sex but I don't think he "popped my cherry" so am I still a virgin or no? My friend says since his dick was inside of me im not.. and how do I know if he popped my cherry or not??/:


Virginity is not based on "popping your cherry" if you had sexual intercourse then you are not.

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I'm a 14 year old girl from south africa i like this guy he told me he like me to but he has a GF and she is like a sister to me I don't want her to get hurt but I really like this guy he is turning 14 so am I and he's GF is turning 12 how do I get rid of her with out hurting her



If you are close with the girl then you should value your friendship enough to not hurt her. This boy is her boyfriend and to come between her relationship like that is bot cool and not something someone would do if they care about. Someone.

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so first of all i hope you know what ask.fm is, if not its a social network where u can ask people questions and they will answer.So we are close friends, we hug and she kisses me on the cheek sometimes, but she does that to many other guys, so you can call her a brave girl.There is a dance the 23 of march and i asked her if she wanted to go with me on ask.fm. and she responded not in public but sent it to me privately:
"I love you *schel!!You have a nice butt!! LOL



We already told you she said yes. If you really wabt to know then ask her

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He saw me going to the shooting range with his 12 year old brother and now he wants to shoot my rifle. It is a .22LR Henry Lever Action. Should I let him?



Really? I mean really?!...

This question is a matter of common sense

No, You don't allow a child to shoot guns even if you are at a gun range. What exactly do you think your teaching them by showing them how to use a weapon?....


Failed parenting of the year in my eyes..

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Long story short, 2 of my nephews got into a small fight with some other kids. I don't know who started it, but my brother in law was mad. He was so mad that he said: "Next time that n*qqer b**ch hits you, you hit them back." My mom and some other ppl heard him. His wife (my sister) is black, his sons are half black and his 2 step sons are black. He hates to be around my family, but he's married to my sister. He told my mom to excuse his language and that what he said didn't matter because the family is black except him. Wasn't he wrong for saying that?



Yes.

What he said was very rude and offensive.

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I cheated on my boyfriend of 8 years for a period of a year and a half with a guy at work and two times with a guy half my age. He knew before i told him and still took care of my kids that he has helped raised. He has had a meth problem but was clean for 5 years but went back to it and left for about 4 months. Now that he is back and we are trying he thinks that things are going on here at the house all the time. He has gotten high a couple times since then and when he does it gets really bad. I am not doing anything but he has recorded some voices that i have no clue about and i dont know what to tell him. He is going crazy and i understand but i really havent done anything in over a year. What do i do? Are we totally doomed?



Put your kids first, Do what is best for them.

Just like the user said before me, I can't tell you what to do either. However I sure as hell would think about whether you really want them around someone who has a history of drug use. You and your children should be in a healthy, safe environment. You are a parent you need to start thinking like one.

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Hey. So in 14F and I like a 20 year old* he is really nice. I want to know if he likes me 2? We were at the mall 2day. And the hole yime he sits close 2 me and so on* is it wrong 2 like hom? And do he like me? ----> ME



This is legally and morally unacceptable.

This man is legally an adult who by law could be arrested for dating a 14 year old. You are a minor and by law are not legally able to even consent to sex. Meaning, this man could be charged for rape and forced to register as a sex offender.

You see, When someone who is 20 years old likes a 14 year old there is something very wrong there. Think about it... he is to old for you and what he is doing is wrong.

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I like this girl and i asked her to the upcoming dance, she responded saying "i love u!!" is it a kind rejection or a acception? girls, HELP!!



It's a yes

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My 12 year old son recently told me that he had no friends and i just thought it was a phase until i popped into the lunchroom one day and he was sitting alone with no one at his table.

Sorry for such brief details but my iphone has 2% battery



It is possible there is more to the story then what your son has told you. Is he possibly being bullied?

Like the user said below me, he may be introverted. However, If this was the case I do not think he would of told you as most introverts like being alone most of the time.

The best thing would be to talk to your son. Ask him if he thought about joining an after school club or sport that he would be interested in. Maybe if he has any cousins around his age he could start there as they would be a good resource for him to develope social skills. Perhaps his cousins have friends etc.

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I was told I had eczema by my doctor a few years back and after about a year, it went away. I can't remember what I was given or what I took to make it go away.

But recently, it's coming back and it's appearing on my upper arms, inner thighs, and it's starting to appear on my belly and on the sides of my breasts. I currently do not have a doctor as I just turned eighteen last year and need to find a new one. I'm assuming I have to solve this problem on my own right now until I can find a doctor. So, are there any creams I can buy at a pharmacy or tablets I can take to try and make it go away or would I really need to see a doctor as soon as possible?



I also suffer from eczema and man what a bitch it can be.

I find that antibiotic cream helps wonders. If you use lotion to keep your skin hydrated try using hypoallergenic.

Alveeno has some good lotion

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Mormons believe there are 3 levels of Heaven, but the Bible only mentions Heaven and Hell?

The Bible doesn't say anything about the Celestial Kingdom, Terrestrial Kingdom, and Telestial Kingdom. It just says Heaven & Hell.

Are there 3 degrees of heaven?



This is an interesting question, but the answers you receive will be based on others views and perspectives.

I personally believe in one heaven and I do not believe in hell. However, I do not believe in the bible.

There is no way anyone on this earth can tell us a guaranteed answer to what is beyond human living. A possibility of a 3 heavens is based on whether you choose to believe it or not.
The bible in my opinion was written by people wirh perspectives and beliefs.

In my aspect - God is not a person, God is not a thing, God is everywhere.

It's what you want to believe

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my mood is fucking with me all the time,one moment im happy,then im sad,then angry,then happy again and etc. im gemini so maybe thats the reason,but i realy dont like how i change my mood and opinion on things all the time,one moment im with my friend and i think shes really cool and funny and the next moment she annoys me so much and i feel this anger,it makes me want to kill her,and it changes all the time for everything and i change all the time,how can i know who i am if i change myself every moment,oh and on top of this im fucking deperessed. any suggestions,any pills that might help? im 15,f

-ghostgirl7



Have you ever been diagnosed with bipolar?

I am not a doctor but the best thing I can tell you is to schedule an appointment to see someone who can prescive medication.

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ive asked myself this a lot of times,why am i depressed?
i have great parents that are so openminded,i have friends,i go to an awsome private school that i love,i have nice clothes,i have a pet that i love,ive traveled,i get almost anything that i wont,i have sort of good grades,im not insecure,not a skinny gurl,but i love myself the way i am,sooooo why am i so sad,why do i spent nigh after night crying for hours and hours? what went wrong? whats the reason for this unhappiness? it hurts so much and the only reason that i dont kill myself are my oarents,it would ruin them. but i dont know if ill make it,im 15 and already so damaged,what will that turn into after a few years? will i take it,im strong,very string,but im feeling like ill break,can you help me please



Sounds like depression

Depression is a mental disorder, doesn't matter how good of a life you have.

I am in college, have my own place, financially doing very well but I too suffer from depression.

You see, It really could be a number of things really...

You are 15 and when I was that age I sure had my ups and downs. It is not easy because at that age you are not a kid and you are not an adult.


Tell your parents you are depressed and you cry often g yo to a

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I am 16 and I have a huge crush on my attractive female teachers who is like 28 I believe. I am flat out obsessed wit her I;d say, -I always walk by her room or try to go wherever she is and at the end of the day just to see her leave,.i 'm willing to buy any school related paper and yearbook just to see if any pictures of her are in it, I keep thinking she hates me or as a bad impression of me, I went searching for her Facebook account, and I found it and I find myself staring at a lot of pictures of her. I get mad just whenever I see another boy go up and talk to my teacher, but the worst thing of all is that she is married and I can't stand that she is. I have feelings of hate towards her husband just because she is married to him and want him to die and I sometimes like to rip papers up or something pretending it is him or taking a pencil and stabbing the paper with it. I am obsessed with this girl, and I will do anything to get her even it means I have to break up her marriage or something



G.e.t. o.v.e.r I.t.

Seriously, this question has been asked numerous times.

You are a student, she is the teacher

No no no and NO

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so we have a female gym coach and a male gym coach at our school. im a girl and the female coach told me to give the male coach a note and he was in the boys locker room so i asked her to wait until he got out but she told me to go in there and give it to him. so i walked through a room full of naked 13 year old boys all staring at me and my guy friend, who i have a crush on, was in there. once they saw me they made a dash for cover and my friend and a couple of other boys werent quick enough so they were in the open and i couldnt find the coach so i had to ask my friend where he was so it was super awkward. that was last period so we went straight home after that. so how can we talk tomorrow without it being awkward?



It is a bit inappropriate seeing the coach had told you to enter the boys locker room. No matter what the teacher or coach said you do not enter a boys locker room. The right thing to do would of been to wait until the other coach was back from the locker room or give it to a male classmates to give to the coach.

This incident should be reported to the principal of the school.

As for your friend, Act like it never happened. To be honest it really is no big deal. It is only a big deal if yoi act immature about the situation. I would definitely let the principal become aware of what happened though

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