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How do I get my teacher to be interested in me?
I am 16 and I have a huge crush on my attractive female teachers who is like 28 I believe. I am flat out obsessed wit her I;d say, -I always walk by her room or try to go wherever she is and at the end of the day just to see her leave,.i 'm willing to buy any school related paper and yearbook just to see if any pictures of her are in it, I keep thinking she hates me or as a bad impression of me, I went searching for her Facebook account, and I found it and I find myself staring at a lot of pictures of her. I get mad just whenever I see another boy go up and talk to my teacher, but the worst thing of all is that she is married and I can't stand that she is. I have feelings of hate towards her husband just because she is married to him and want him to die and I sometimes like to rip papers up or something pretending it is him or taking a pencil and stabbing the paper with it. I am obsessed with this girl, and I will do anything to get her even it means I have to break up her marriage or something
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Seriously, this question has been asked numerous times.
You are a student, she is the teacher
No no no and NO
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You've asked a variation of this question several times now and from my perspective this went from an innocent crush to something a little scary. Having a crush on your teacher is fine - almost everyone I know has fantacized about a teacher/professor at some point, but you are letting it take over your life. What about other girls your age? Also, I agree with the other responders - you might benefit from talking to someone. What about your school guidance counselor or maybe an older sibling? I really hope you are listening to this advice.
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It is ok to have a crush on your teacher, but you are going overboard.
She is 28 and you are 16. 28 year old women are not interested in 16 year old boys.
You're stalking her, it's wrong. You look at her Facebook account and stare at her pictures. You can't do things like that with a teacher.
She is also married, she is committed to her husband that I'm sure she loves. It's selfish of you to try to break up a marriage.
If she even would consider you at all, which I doubt because she is married, you both could get into a lot of trouble. She could lose her job, she went through so much schooling to get that. There is a lot at risk if you got involved in any way.
You wanting her husband to die..it's not right. You need to talk to someone about this and get help.
Like I said, it's ok to have a crush but you have to leave it at that and just accept that you could never be with her. I'm sure she loves her husband and her job and wouldn't risk losing both.
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I believe we have seen this question before. The answers will not change.
You cannot have a relationship with this teacher. For one thing it is illegal for her to have any type of relationship other than student/teacher relationship with you. If she were to have any other type including a sexual relationship with you she would lose her job, go to jail and be labeled a sex offender for the rest of her life.
Your obsession over this teacher is wrong. In fact it is unhealthy for you as you describe it. You need professional help to get over it. You need to talk to your parents about how you feel so you can get the proper help.
It is one thing to have a crush on a teacher but you have gone way overboard. Get some help before you end up hurting yourself, her or her husband.
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You don't. 28 year old women don't tend to have much of an interest in 16 year old boys. You need to get some professional help for your obsession before it gets you into trouble.
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Oh No this is not good for you nor her. She is too old for you and she is your teacher and that is all that she is suppose to be. I think you should find interest in your own peers. You are sixteen and she is twenty-eight, if you care about her so much then you would acknowledge the fact that if she indulges in a relationship of any kind with you she will get in very big trouble. If you like her as much as you say you do then you will understand. Your behavior far as ripping papers or stabbing it with a pencil is pure mean. I will be praying for you.
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