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Am I still a virgin??
16/F
Me and my boyfriend I guess had sex but I don't think he "popped my cherry" so am I still a virgin or no? My friend says since his dick was inside of me im not.. and how do I know if he popped my cherry or not??/:
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Sorry, but breaking your Hyman is easy and often it is done by things where you don't realize you did it. This was taken from a web site, "Its been told that the hyman is located at the opening of the vagina. but from personal experience, the hyman is actually located no more than 3-4inches within a womans vagina. Also, the hyman does not always determine wheather are not a girl is a virgin. The hyman is a delacate layer of skin, which can be torn by doing vigarouse activities, such as bike riding,masterbation with a dildo, doing splits,getting hit near it and etc... So the hyman does not always determine virginity." This is taken from Wikipedia, "The hymen is a membrane that surrounds or partially covers the external vaginal opening. It forms part of the vulva, or external genitalia, and is similar in structure to the vagina.[1][2][3] In children, although a common appearance of the hymen is crescent-shaped, many shapes are possible.[1]
The effects of sexual intercourse and childbirth on the hymen are variable. If the hymen is sufficiently elastic, it may return to nearly its original condition. In other cases, there may be remnants (carunculae myrtiformes), or it may appear completely absent after repeated penetration.[3][4][5] Additionally, the hymen may be lacerated by disease, injury, medical examination, masturbation or even physical exercise. For these reasons, it is not possible to definitively determine whether or not a girl or woman is a virgin by examining her hymen"
As you can see, The Hyman can be shallow to 3 or 4 inches in, though the 3 to 4 inches comes from personal experience. Everything I know about it says it is much closer and I know from my wife's experience as a little girl that you can tear the Hyman by bike riding etc... I also know that the bleeding can be anything from next none, to what some would consider a lot. The pain of your Hyman breaking can be anything from very little to none, or a fairly good amount of pain, much depends on how you break it. To sum up; this means if your boyfriend has a member longer then 3-4 inches and entered you all the way, it is not likely that you still have your Hyman intact, but it could happen depending on its shape. As too, are you a virgin, I think these articles statements on the fact that the Hyman is not a good indicator of virginity answers that.
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By definition you are a non-virgin. Once you have had intercourse; which by definition is the penetration of your vagina by a penis. You have lost your virginity.
Losing of you hyman can happen without intercourse. If you use tampons you could have broken you hymen. As a young girl you could have lost your Hyman, bike riding, horseback riding or through a variety of sports or dancing.
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If you had sex, then you are not a virgin. You don't have to "pop your cherry" to lose your virginity, because there are girls who have sex and they have never bled. You could "pop your cherry" by horseback riding, bike riding, or any other kind of exercises.
If he went inside of you, you are not a virgin.
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Virginity is not based on "popping your cherry" if you had sexual intercourse then you are not.
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