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How can I get my boyfriend to masturbate in front of me?
Ok so been with him for over a year... I love him to death and I'd love to be wanting to "play" with him too. For one he's in a different state than me so kinda only able to do any of that more pleasurable stuff over Skype. It sucks. I love getting off with him but its ALWAYS just me showing him more skin. I loved it when we first started dating and he would go and let me see him jerking off. Now he won't do that at all. What can I do to hint it towards him? I told him something like I haven't been able to cum as hard as I used to. But now he is thinking I will need a toy. I don't even know if I want one but I just said sure because he seemed so excited about the idea. I guess I'm just asking for a lot here but I don't know what else I can do. Our relationship is really hurting and I'm so afraid to loose him. Please help me figure out what I can do.
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I think you need to find out what's caused his change of mind over letting you watch him. He was happy with the set-up previously. Do you feel able to confront it head on? If so, tell him outright that watching him masturbate was an 'essential part of the kit' as it were, for your enjoyment. He might not realise that it was. Hinting that it's not as good for you has led to him suggesting a toy...so there's a chance he might have gone down the wrong path as you might say. It's tricky, and it's clearly not having a good effect on your relationship. But I reckon you've got to get this bit (why no more watching YOU??) resolved. And go from there. If you get a result and he resumes, don't lose the opprtunity to give him lots of encouragement and let him know how much you love seeing him 'come'. Give his ego a bit boost, eh?? There could be other reasons, but until you get stuck in with a direct attack and find them, there's not much further you can go I reckon. Good luck...you've invested over a year in the relationship so it's worth your best shot!
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