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my crush likes me but has a GF


Question Posted Sunday March 17 2013, 12:53 am

I'm a 14 year old girl from south africa i like this guy he told me he like me to but he has a GF and she is like a sister to me I don't want her to get hurt but I really like this guy he is turning 14 so am I and he's GF is turning 12 how do I get rid of her with out hurting her

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lightoftruth answered Monday March 18 2013, 3:15 am:
You said his girlfriend is like a sister to you. So if you care about her and you don't want to hurt her, don't get together with your crush.
He doesn't sound like a solid, stable guy. It was rude of him to tell you he likes you when he already has a girlfriend.
What if you two got together but then he told another girl he liked her?
If he really cared about you or her, he'd break up with her first.
But if I were you, I would back out. Friends are more reliable than boyfriends.

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Xui answered Sunday March 17 2013, 8:42 pm:
If you are close with the girl then you should value your friendship enough to not hurt her. This boy is her boyfriend and to come between her relationship like that is bot cool and not something someone would do if they care about. Someone.

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JGolden answered Sunday March 17 2013, 2:36 pm:
Hi there!

I'm going to honest with you, if this girl is like a sister then you should stay away from that guy there is no way that you get date her bf without hurting her. I think you need to let things be someone else will come along. Focus on you you're only 14 boys will come and go.

JGolden

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juliet132132 answered Sunday March 17 2013, 3:15 am:
If you really cared about this girl, you wouldn't want to get in the way of her happiness. And if this guy cared about her, then he wouldn't have said that to you. Anyone that hits on someone when they are in a relationship will do it in the next relationship as well. And the next, and so on and so forth. You need to figure out your priorities and think about what's more important to you. A friendship that could last a lifetime? Or a relationship that will last a few months. Choice is yours.

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