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how do i stop the urge to text me ex?
my ex and i broke up 3 months ago after being together for about 4 years off and on. I've dated other guys since then but it never went anywhere with them cause I'd always somehow compare them to my ex although my ex was kind of a douche. so lately i've been obsessing over him?? like hardcore obsessing... like stalking his facebook, checking my phone (even though he hasn't texted me in 3 months and i know he's not going to start now), getting the courage to type a message and put in his number and then deleting the text... Should I text him just to say hey? I just miss him and I want to be able to talk to him again but I don't want him to think I'm desperately still in love with him... help. would it be ok to text him after 3 months of no contact? i've read so many different things every where and now i'm just super confused. oh he has a girlfriend btw
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hi there,
well first of all your obsession is completely normal. Most girls face it. The reason you seem so desperate is because 4years is aa really long time. Ofcourse you'l compare every other guy to him!
But as you said yourself, hes a douche and the reason you may be obsessed is because hes got a girl and you can't have him at the moment.
Well texting him will make you sound desperate and believe me hou don't wanna do that. I would suggest that you ignore him, and start searching for a good guy who'll really treasure you and make you feel wonderful. The past will remain there and you won't find the need to go back.
Delete him from your account, delete his number for a while, so even if you wanna see/text you wont! After a while when your over him it won't matter:)
all the best
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