Member Since: March 16, 2013
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So its starts at the beginning of January after winter break:
I joined the play cause Susan(the girl i likED)joined and in the play we should be flirty and all. But then at the start of rehearsals, i started ignoring Susan and thinking about another girl called Victoria. I thought about her day and night, and i was really falling for her, but before i knew it we became good friends and we started hugging and kissing on the cheeks(by the way, she is a brave person and hugs many people.) so we became very good friends and i was also a very good friend of her best-friend. Then the valentines dance came, and she came up to me and her best-friend and asked us to go with her to the dance, which means 2 girls and 1 boy. We both accepted... but there is always a bigger fish!
So another guy asked her(hes like 3 years older than her, but he is also a friend of mine.)and she eventually ditched us two. Then one of our cast members dropped out and we had to search for a new member which eventually became Tom, the one victoria went to the dance with. He started acting flirty with her, and of course there was some jealousy within me, but she didn't stop the hugging and kissing on the cheek. After the play we were still friends and life went on.
March:
Another dance came up, and i recently found out that she likes Tom. I asked her out to the dance no-matter what, and she responded saying:
"I LOVE YOU!! you have a cute but,lol!"
and i was thinking if this is a rejection or if she accepted. But then she said she was going to the dance with nobody. So i thought that it was a kind way of rejecting me, but i also thought that maybe just maybe she was waiting for Tom to ask her, and if he didn't she would go with me.
My question is:
what should i do? i know i should not ask her out to a real date, but Tom is graduating this year.Should i just wait for next year? What should i do???
*all the names here are made up names. (link)
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well whatever happened to susan? She dosent seem so complicated!
The way you describe it Victoria seems to me as a very care free and casual girl. So if u directly asked u'd probably get the answer your looking for
the part where she says ILY dosent seem too serious so dnt read much into it. Directly talk to her and u'l probably know for sure:)
all the best
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He saw me going to the shooting range with his 12 year old brother and now he wants to shoot my rifle. It is a .22LR Henry Lever Action. Should I let him? (link)
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nope, bad idea, even 15-16yr olds can make horrible mistakes.
Teach your boy some patience, and maybe give him a few examples of shooting gone wrong. Mostly he'll understand.
Also in the near future he shouldn't go hunting for trouble so assure him that he'll get a chance at the right time:)
all the best
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my ex and i broke up 3 months ago after being together for about 4 years off and on. I've dated other guys since then but it never went anywhere with them cause I'd always somehow compare them to my ex although my ex was kind of a douche. so lately i've been obsessing over him?? like hardcore obsessing... like stalking his facebook, checking my phone (even though he hasn't texted me in 3 months and i know he's not going to start now), getting the courage to type a message and put in his number and then deleting the text... Should I text him just to say hey? I just miss him and I want to be able to talk to him again but I don't want him to think I'm desperately still in love with him... help. would it be ok to text him after 3 months of no contact? i've read so many different things every where and now i'm just super confused. oh he has a girlfriend btw (link)
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hi there,
well first of all your obsession is completely normal. Most girls face it. The reason you seem so desperate is because 4years is aa really long time. Ofcourse you'l compare every other guy to him!
But as you said yourself, hes a douche and the reason you may be obsessed is because hes got a girl and you can't have him at the moment.
Well texting him will make you sound desperate and believe me hou don't wanna do that. I would suggest that you ignore him, and start searching for a good guy who'll really treasure you and make you feel wonderful. The past will remain there and you won't find the need to go back.
Delete him from your account, delete his number for a while, so even if you wanna see/text you wont! After a while when your over him it won't matter:)
all the best
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hey,im 18years old and my names alexus.my problem.is that.my current ex dated.about a year and some months. We were great until he got a second job and he had family.issues. At first he was very open and always made time for me.we were long distance but it never felt that way until he started acting different.i tried to be supportive understanding.even telling him how i felt.but the result was he would say im sorry text or.call once. The he.would go back to the same thing.the reason i broke up was behind me asking him to call for my b-day and he didn't so i waited and he never did,i tried calling and texting,he just never picked up months went by and he never called.so.i started dating someone else was i wrong? (link)
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hi there,
well it seems to me your in a dilemma whether you made the right choice.
Honestly from my point of view i don't think so.
Things happen and people change. He may have been extremely engrossed in work, or had family issues which could have led him to act weird. But the fact that he dint cal for your birthday and then completely began ignoring you isn't what a person who is committed would do.
I think you did make a good choice of moving on. How long were you gonna wait by the phone anyway!?!
All the best
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how do tell a guy if you want to break up with him but not hurt his feelings? I am in a situation right now where he still likes me but I don't exactly like him and there is this guy who asked me out and I said "yeah sure" and my "boyfriend" was sick that day and then he found out and somehow i need a way to say sorry and break up with him (link)
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hi there,
Breaking up is never easy on anyone, but being honest can help the other person deal with it faster. My advice would be that you tell him the truth in the kindest way possible, and show him that you really are sorry. It might make it a bit easier.
If you don't think that way would be ok then you could tell him you weren't serious and that you were just flirting around or something, depending on your situation
all the best
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i am a 16 year old girl and have been close friends with a lovley boy for 5 years now and we have always been close, however he is usually quite intimate calls me beautiful but when others suggest that we should date he ignoors them and wont talk to me. what should i do? (link)
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hey there,
what you share with that guy is a beautiful relationship! If he dint like you he wouldn't stick around for 5years! He must be afraid of losing the friendship that you'll shared, hence he behaves that way. But if you really think its meant to work out between you two then why not step up and ask him?
And if hou want to know indirectly if he likes you, try hanging out with another guy, his reaction may answer your question:)
all the best!
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i have been with him for 5 years and reading all the things i have been reading on this website is showing me that he may just not be inlove or hes sick in his head and loves two women. so... he has been wanting me hard for the whole time however doing things that dont make sence on the side. he has this friend thats a girl. they owned a bar and a house together. I have not been welcomed to ethier of those places. now i know how that sounds but!!! he spends all holidays and weekends with me and swears she is just a fat bitch jelouse friend. i met her sister i call the bar and talked to her friends and they all told me they are just friends. but why am i not allowed to meet her? why am i not allowed the house my man owns and she lives in? but there not together? he asked my parents for permission to marry me.. im so confused i dont know what to think... i dont understand there relationship or what hes trying to pull.... mind u .. im hot,, shes fat and has three kids and her baby daddy is in prison and he been playenb baby daddy for her cause there " friends". but he texes me all day everyday how much he loves me. i have met there other roomates that are frie3nds with her and it seemd ok im his girl and there not together. however im not 9okay with not being able to meet her ? and i cant come to my own mans house ? why? wtf am i suppose to think!!!!! or do!! i cant sleep i cant eat.. i cant work.. i have named tatted on my lower parts... im lost and i need to know what could be going on. i dont understand this mentality. i grew up in a good home in nh and he grew uop in a abusive home in oakland.. i dont kinow what to do my heart is so broken i want to write this girl a letter but i dont know if its a good idea... i liked your open comment.. it was right on point with how i feel about things... you are open minded and id like to know your advice... thank you jennife
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hi there,
since he has asked you to marry him i'm assuming is a strong relation you share with him. Yes, the situation does sound extremely weird, and you must be really desperate to know about this other side of him, but writing a letter to the girl directly would actually mean back stabbing him. It would be better if you would talk to him and get him to introduce you to that woman. It seems you have tried it, try again and show him how much this means to you.
And if you still cant find a way, use your girl power and find out about that woman through friends and neighbours, Ofcoure you'd have to do it discreetly!
All the best!
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