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so confused any advice will do.:)


Question Posted Sunday March 17 2013, 2:56 am

hey,im 18years old and my names alexus.my problem.is that.my current ex dated.about a year and some months. We were great until he got a second job and he had family.issues. At first he was very open and always made time for me.we were long distance but it never felt that way until he started acting different.i tried to be supportive understanding.even telling him how i felt.but the result was he would say im sorry text or.call once. The he.would go back to the same thing.the reason i broke up was behind me asking him to call for my b-day and he didn't so i waited and he never did,i tried calling and texting,he just never picked up months went by and he never called.so.i started dating someone else was i wrong?

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lightoftruth answered Monday March 18 2013, 3:12 am:
You were not wrong. You can't just sit around and wait for him to call you. Months go by and you can't expect someone to move on when they don't put any effort in the relationship. He was acting like you two didn't have a real, serious relationship. It's really good you moved on.

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its_me answered Sunday March 17 2013, 10:46 am:
hi there,
well it seems to me your in a dilemma whether you made the right choice.
Honestly from my point of view i don't think so.
Things happen and people change. He may have been extremely engrossed in work, or had family issues which could have led him to act weird. But the fact that he dint cal for your birthday and then completely began ignoring you isn't what a person who is committed would do.
I think you did make a good choice of moving on. How long were you gonna wait by the phone anyway!?!
All the best

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